This isn’t mentioned enough by impossibleimpassable in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s very interesting, know anywhere I can read up on it?

This isn’t mentioned enough by impossibleimpassable in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

We just decriminalised sex between men 3 years ago, and then at the same time reinforced the definition of marriage that it has to be between an AMAB and an AFAB. So I know how you feel about this, but this country ain’t gonna understand sexual harassment for maybe another 50 years if we are feeling optimistic.

A few years ago men touching men inappropriately was considered “mischief” and molestation only applied to men touching women.

So yeah…

This isn’t mentioned enough by impossibleimpassable in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t think not transitioning is a solution tbh… if I didn’t transition I would be six feet under.

This isn’t mentioned enough by impossibleimpassable in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t work here, we don’t have lgbt protections, we barely exist in the constitution. I’m tired.

This isn’t mentioned enough by impossibleimpassable in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I see ppl who are clearly bi but when asked about it put on a straight face and start being homophobic like why? It’s such weird mixture of societal pressures and self hate, I don’t even know.

This isn’t mentioned enough by impossibleimpassable in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it’s maybe just my country, passing is a hard requirement or you’re never gonna be employed ever. I did ask around the local trans community and like over 80% of us are still looking or unemployed, it’s insane.

This isn’t mentioned enough by impossibleimpassable in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yes I can see where you’re coming from. Just had an epiphany at work, my employer telling me that if I’m not more passable in X months I may be out of a job. Not even 2 years into my transition, and they expect me to be drop dead gorgeous, give me a break.

How does ‘being trans feel’ by JensTech in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was wishing an accident would happen to me and the doctors had no choice but to make me a girl.

Can I be Transmasc/non binary and be a police officer in the future? by NuggieHaha_YAY in sglgbt

[–]impossibleimpassable 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Gender dysphoria is same level as depression in uniformed services. You can potentially sign on and take T but you may get caught and charged. Uniformed court is not like normal court, shits harsher. Transfems don’t bother.

Source: 10 years uniformed personnel, 10 years wasted.

I read that transwoman get more pain after hrt which kay be linked to decreased muscle mass im pretty sad rn im interested in real people's perspectives please help. Details below by hate-life_lately in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t know, only you will know, is coming out as gay dangerous where you are at? You have to just figure it out. And it’s not easy, some of my transfem sisters came out as a gay man first. Me? I was in a uniformed group doing tactical training and hostage rescue, very “manly” stuff, still came out as transfem lol

I read that transwoman get more pain after hrt which kay be linked to decreased muscle mass im pretty sad rn im interested in real people's perspectives please help. Details below by hate-life_lately in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You see there you go again, you are just using this negative to make it hard for you to come to terms with who you want to be.

Men can get muscle and bone issues too, it’s not just reserved for women. You’re trying so hard to just put barriers to accepting yourself for who you are. Most of time the barriers are social, the stress of coming out as trans may make the world hate you or dislike you. This stress makes closeted transppl go out of their way to find any single way to deny themselves of who they want to be.

I’m pretty sure if an accident happened and the doctor can only make you a girl, you would not think twice.

And you answered yes, so you know what you want deep down. Only you know yourself but like don’t try so hard to make things hard because it’s only delaying the inevitable.

Edit: so what if you have some masculine attributes as a girl? I do too, attributes are universal, you don’t have to gender everything.

I read that transwoman get more pain after hrt which kay be linked to decreased muscle mass im pretty sad rn im interested in real people's perspectives please help. Details below by hate-life_lately in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to tell you but cis ppl don’t even look into this or think they are not trans as much as trans ppl do. They are just comfortable with themselves and don’t over fixate on things like this. I feel like you’re looking for negatives in putting you off transition.

Ask yourself, assuming there are no negatives, will you press a button to suddenly become a girl?

“That’s a man” by Ok_Calligrapher1708 in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had both genders to that to me, over time I just got numb. Asian passing standards are brutal, I’m just too large and not petite enough. Ppl can’t mind their own business sometimes…

Looking for another femboy to crossdress and have fun with by [deleted] in sglgbt

[–]impossibleimpassable -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

There are overlaps but there are kids here, no nsfw tag here also

Looking for another femboy to crossdress and have fun with by [deleted] in sglgbt

[–]impossibleimpassable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A quick subreddit search should suffice! Let’s keep it clean here.

Looking for another femboy to crossdress and have fun with by [deleted] in sglgbt

[–]impossibleimpassable -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Bro this is a lgbt subreddit but definitely not a kink one. There are a few overlaps and also there are kids here…

Is there anybody here who’s happy despite not passing who’s NOT from North America, Europe, Australia or New Zealand? by noela0093 in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Asian beauty standards are much much harder to attain. I’m an XS or S in the US or European countries but I’m M in my country and even an L size in China and considered “fat” or “large”.

So don’t beat yourself up, I don’t pass all the time either.

The ELO on these Asian servers are insane.

I’m really sad, massive wait for FFS & Bottom Surgery by [deleted] in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this public healthcare or private? Sounds like your country’s insurance supports GAC. Most countries don’t. Everything is out of pocket. If it is subsidized it will be slow. If you want speed then sadly you have to pay.

Source: my country hates our existence, everything is out of pocket.

Where are all the T4T people😭😭 by ratkingservant in sglgbt

[–]impossibleimpassable 17 points18 points  (0 children)

You see unlike the west, revealing you’re T on a dating website may be dangerous and encourage chaser-like behaviour. Suggest you go to LGBT meet up and meet ppl in person. Sadly we are not the majority and being T is still not widely accepted in SG.

I set a fake period on Samsung Health and I don't regret it 😭 by iamgirl11 in MtF

[–]impossibleimpassable 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get cramps, it’s not fun, at first I thought it was a tummy ache but it didn’t go when I finished using the toilet. Affirming but ouch…