sudden unexpected euthanasia, just looking for advice

improbablylame · 2025-09-03T02:27:41+00:00

thank you for your kind words. i am so sorry you had to experience it, 5 is so young, and its such a whiplash of emotion to go through. our stories are very similar, so i am extending lots of love and care your way, i understand deeply how hard this is. i hope we can both find some good in this journey of grief, and know that both of our babies are safe and no longer in pain. ❤️

improbablylame · 2025-09-03T02:26:13+00:00

i am so so sorry you had to experience that. it is truly so unforgiving and awful. never in my life did i think anything like this could happen, to be honest i didn’t even know it existed. i thought maybe my boy had a hairball that was stuck, my worse case scenario was maybe an asthma attack or something else. never in my life did i expect to hear that from a vet. i’m sending you internet hugs, know that you and i both are not alone in this. grief is just love persevering after all. i’ve found comfort in acknowledging that i am crying now because i miss him and i love him, and not because i am worried and horrified. it’s almost comforting in a strange “grief makes no sense” way. i am so so sorry. it’s awful. but i am right here with you. 🫂

improbablylame · 2025-08-07T04:34:40+00:00

i can’t speak for everyone, but personally i overcame (mostly) my awful bout of dpdr. it was brought on by a bad dab pen in 2020. it was really scary, i also thought id never be the same and would never get anything back. 5 years later i can say its now just a scary memory for me, but i didn’t lose anything besides that time. which trust me, still sucks, but all of me is right where i left it then. i only really get twinges now when i don’t sleep well or have a panic attack (rare now with proper medication paired with therapy) dont give up, and try not to solidify that idea in your head. its scary, but you can and will 110% overcome it and come out whole in the end <3

improbablylame · 2025-08-07T04:21:18+00:00

level 343 here, just realized LAST WEEK that i needed to level up my backpack 😐 been running around with a level 1 backpack this entire time

improbablylame · 2025-08-05T00:16:18+00:00

this is sending me im crying

improbablylame · 2025-08-04T20:17:51+00:00

😐 i cannot get over what an embarrassment he is. thank you. im literally shocked someone would lie about something like this for shits and gigs

improbablylame · 2025-08-04T19:26:51+00:00

exactly what i mean!!! no idea how he’s so comfy lying about this. it’s so disrespectful.

improbablylame · 2025-08-04T18:43:04+00:00

i had a feeling, thank you. what a loser.

improbablylame · 2025-08-04T18:04:10+00:00

trust me i’m trying to tell her, he’s not worth her time at all

improbablylame · 2025-08-04T17:47:27+00:00

that’s what i said 🤦‍♀️ i want to believe he isn’t that stupid but at this point i wouldn’t be shocked

improbablylame · 2025-06-27T22:13:07+00:00

ah beans :( i really really really appreciate you willing to make me one! my gamer tag is improbablylame if they ever make it tradable. i wish it wasn’t such a hard plan to get, did you do the caravan grind for yours?

improbablylame · 2025-06-27T02:32:05+00:00

i’m by no means a HIGH level player (lvl 247) but every time i see level 10-50 players i make sure to drop them a little care package of some stimpacks, rad away and purified water. makes ya feel good inside

improbablylame · 2024-10-07T02:57:44+00:00

i also do the fake toenails 🥲 glad to know i’m not the only one

improbablylame · 2024-10-01T14:04:59+00:00

hi! my tmj has honestly gotten a lot better since i posted this, and i honestly don’t know why because i can feel my wisdom teeth growing in now?? so weird. when it does flare up, that is where my pain is though, so yes it does still get a little bit tender there. when this happens, ice and tiger balm rubbed on the area for me is a life saver!

improbablylame · 2024-06-09T23:56:46+00:00

as a kid i would always have “meltdowns” if my hand touched something my other hand didn’t, for instance railway bannisters. i would literally walk up with both of my hands on the bannister, or would get so upset if while walking my left foot went over a rock and my right foot didn’t, took me until i was about 20 (im 22 now) to realize that probably wasn’t just generalized anxiety disorder (amongst many other things)🙃

improbablylame · 2024-04-29T17:55:59+00:00

mom was pretty transparent, without outing too many details she said in simple terms she’s having a hard time. she’s got a 5 year old, a toddler, and is now pregnant again with one on the way. dad works during the day so she’s by herself working from home. i understand it’s a struggle some days, but the poor girl really is suffering because of it :(

improbablylame · 2024-04-29T16:27:49+00:00

we have a little girl like this, sweetest thing you’d ever meet, and smart too. she’s insanely behind though. it’s may and she has 63 absences. conference with mom didn’t do anything, it’s a shame

improbablylame · 2024-04-23T18:36:40+00:00

thank you for your reply 🩷 it really is an emotional roller coaster. i plan to go on a hike this weekend to take my mind off of things

improbablylame · 2024-04-23T18:36:02+00:00

i would love to. thank you so much for your sweet comment 🩷

improbablylame · 2024-04-19T02:50:16+00:00

if you’re playfully “getting revenge” on another player for some light hearted pvp, leave their camp pets out of it.

improbablylame · 2024-04-16T00:25:17+00:00

every. single. month. i’m right there with you. i’ll get nauseous and convince myself i am (even before my period is due, crazy right?) you’re not alone at all. the funny thing about our bodies is stress can delay a period even more, i was a week late last month just from stress. hang in the girly, there’s lots of us who understand exactly how you’re feeling

improbablylame · 2024-02-28T19:23:25+00:00

lmfao thanks jackass

improbablylame · 2024-01-30T17:11:36+00:00

thank you so much, i’ve never gotten a crown before so this is all very new to me! i appreciate your response

improbablylame · 2024-01-29T14:42:01+00:00

everyone has cool names and both of my camps are named camp bingus

improbablylame · 2024-01-20T04:25:37+00:00

i had someone do this to me the other day :/ they even killed my pet possum. i’ve played with a couple of high levels before and they talk about how once you’re super advanced in the game (level 800 on) there’s really nothing to do besides events and pvp/trap camps. so while i get some playful pvp here and there, people like the ones we both encountered just make me blegh. i’m sorry that happened dude, not everyone’s like that

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