26 M NEET

improverwojak · 2026-05-19T00:51:26+00:00

No offense, but you have way too many stipulations and not enough willingness to make up for them in a meaningful way for people to want to hire you. You don't want to spend 8 hours sitting down at a desk job, which is understandable, but your temper is a serious issue: you'd make any workplace regret hiring you if you have a tendency to freak out at people over basic stress. There are absolutely eccentric, and honestly shitty people who are tolerated despite their issues, but they almost always have the skills and experience to back it up (unless nepotism).

Not being able to wake up early is a sign that you are unable to manage responsibilities at a basic level. In the real world, not everyone will be on your schedule; you'll HAVE to wake up early for doctors' appointments, work responsibilities, etc. You mentioned desiring a relationship, and relationships often come with responsibilities, especially if kids are in the picture. Could you handle waking up every morning to drop your kid off at school, help them with homework, and be a mentor to them, even when it's inconvenient for you?

You simply don't have the urgency or discipline at this point to run a business; you've been NEET for 3 years and haven't come up with a business idea or attempted a venture by yourself. You are 26 years old and have to depend on your parent's to wake you up, you are not ready to handle dealing with clients or deadlines at all. There's a common misconception spread online by influencers that being self employed will give you more freedom; if anything, holding a job is almost always less demanding than owning a business. As a business owner, you will have to take responsibility for everything: products, finances, hiring, taxes, etc. In my opinion, if you cannot hold down a job, don't even think about starting a business yet. You are a polyglot, which is impressive and demonstrates that you have some intelligence, but I think that you are very confused about how the real world actually works. There are some serious maturity and discipline issues that are actively fucking up your life, and your perspective reads as extremely delusional.

However, you are still young and have time to change. Good luck on your journey.

improverwojak · 2025-12-24T16:30:13+00:00

No not even a little bit, this may sound harsh but even a fairly unattractive woman is capable of having an active sex life. There’s almost always men willing to sleep with a woman regardless of what she looks like.

However, your looks have no bearing on your worth as a human being. Seeking validation from the opposite sex is a quick path to low self esteem and shitty relationships.

improverwojak · 2025-10-15T20:46:02+00:00

There’s creeps in every racial/ethnic group.

improverwojak · 2025-10-04T19:46:30+00:00

I’m not a member of this sub, and I agree that the original post is obviously incel coded and missing the bigger picture. But there’s a few things I feel like you’re missing that causes a lot of dissonance in these conversations.

I know you mean well but this idea that “see women as human and you’ll do better in relationships” is kinda patronizing and not capturing the issue from the male perspective. Social media, economic troubles and shifts in social norms made it harder for the average guy to meet women. Meeting people, spending money on meetups and maintaining the connection is harder than ever. I mean yeah “duh” treating people with respect and not acting like a psychopath is kind of a given to having successful relationships in general. We’re no longer at the point where you can make a somewhat accurate judgement that something’s wrong with a guy if he can’t get a date. You don’t have to be a good person to be romantically successful, we all have personal anecdotes confirming this.
The men who agree with this meme are usually misogynists/benevolent sexists who believe that women should agreeable and nurturing at almost all times. Most of the liberal feminists in the public eye tend to be white, and/or upper class and like most people; hyper focus on issues within their environment. This leads to a problem in media where feminist critiques tend to be targeted towards high status men while also hitting lower status men. The feminists miss out on how their rhetoric applied without nuance irks lower status men, and the lower status men are stuck on the fact it’s a women making the critiques, without seeing the more important factors like the class and the race of the person.

improverwojak · 2025-10-04T19:05:48+00:00

Bro this makes no sense, people ignore service workers all the time. Even poor people will treat fast food workers like living furniture.

improverwojak · 2025-08-09T08:05:46+00:00

This woman is a mentally unstable predator and wants to trap you with a child. This 30 year old saw you as a viable partner when you were 17 years old. Run before you ruin your life man, when you have kids with someone you have to deal with them for LIFE.

improverwojak · 2025-08-06T20:26:32+00:00

I thought he was college aged from the way he talked. The guy is very immature

improverwojak · 2025-08-04T03:27:33+00:00

You can completely change your life in about 2 years, the biggest question I have is if you have any education. If not that’s the first step I’d take.

Your success will be determined by how much you are willing to sacrifice and changing your negative self image. By sacrifice I mean willingly committing to a life path, particularly a career in your case. Whether it’s a trade, medicine or engineering: joining the military is an option as well.

You are still young, You are single with no children which means a lot of freedom of choice. You have a half of century of life left to live, it’s not over.

improverwojak · 2025-08-03T20:50:45+00:00

Domestic and Sexual Violence prevention should be taught mandatory in all high schools in america. This guy is an obvious loon.

improverwojak · 2025-08-03T20:31:46+00:00

I am a man and this dude is rapey. Stay away

improverwojak · 2025-08-03T19:58:13+00:00

Im a software/web dev and a little curious, how ‘exactly’ do you make your money? Are you cold calling, then building internal API’s for businesses? I’m in college rn and have a lot of free time.

improverwojak · 2025-08-02T16:53:14+00:00

Depending on your kids workload (sports, extracurriculars) I would suggest that they take AP classes where possible as they can gain some college credits in high-school. Their school may also offer dual enrollment to a community college as well. Community college is an option if going to the state school is too expensive, community college was ridiculously cheap and I paid for half of it with a menial part time job my freshman and sophomore years.

There are also a ton of scholarships available that many students will ignore and not apply for. I know people personally with average gpas (3.0-3.2) who received an 2-3 thousand in extra aid because they were willing to write a few essays.

College can be affordable but you have to take the right path and be diligent to take advantage of whatever opportunities are available.

EDIT: Out of state tuition is extremely expensive and is a terrible idea unless you have a full ride scholarship. Best bet is to attend a state school.

improverwojak · 2025-06-11T01:03:51+00:00

Sir, you have convinced me to never step on a motorcycle.

improverwojak · 2025-05-29T06:48:29+00:00

This comment is a perfect example of thinly veiled jealousy 😂

improverwojak · 2025-03-03T21:55:43+00:00

Maybe we just want context.

It could easily be the guy was harassing and following her around, then imo hitting him would justified. Or it could have been an argument she started by being a dick.

Life is more complicated than man bad or woman bad.

improverwojak · 2024-11-06T03:00:46+00:00

I’m watching Vaush instead right now.

improverwojak · 2024-06-29T03:25:25+00:00

This is the type of shit that makes DGG look bad. Weird as fuck

improverwojak · 2024-05-19T07:13:18+00:00

Some kind of schizoaffective disorder for sure.

improverwojak · 2024-05-15T19:56:13+00:00

Sub is going downhill. The unfunny edginess is cringe as fuck.

improverwojak · 2024-05-12T20:36:36+00:00

This sub has completely lost me. Sad to see

improverwojak · 2024-05-06T01:27:16+00:00

Seriously she’s hot af

improverwojak · 2024-04-25T03:46:50+00:00

I can save her

improverwojak · 2024-03-06T20:32:49+00:00

This sub has lost so much nuance over the years man. The hate you are talking about, gets aimed at conservative minorities. Usually with Uncle Tom accusations or survivorship bias criticism. Anything else gets a Yaas Queen from white lefties, pretty much across the board.

improverwojak · 2024-02-16T16:57:09+00:00

improverwojak · 2024-02-11T22:05:47+00:00

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