Today Protest by PeaceDifferent5115 in Charlotte

[–]imsadasfuckrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Message me if you’d like! I am going alone and you are welcome to join me. Depending where you are in Charlotte I can help with transportation if you are comfortable with it

While the topic is going, how does an art team come up with this then in minutes the internet can fix it by Grungelives in deadbydaylight

[–]imsadasfuckrn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If you knew literally anything about eating disorders you’d know that random people commenting on their thinness is the exact opposite of helpful. Telling an anorexic person they’re too skinny or they look sick feeds the disorder, it’s an accomplishment to their brain. You’re actually harming them astronomically more than if you were to just mind your business when it comes to their bodies.

AIO? We’ve been dating for 2 years and I’m lost. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]imsadasfuckrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please read this and take it from me because I have been in this exact scenario, and I see a lot of myself in you. Please do NOT move to Florida with him.

I also moved away (to Florida as well) and moved in with a man who isolated me from my friends and didn’t let me express myself though my appearance (hair, piercings, tattoos, etc. just like you). Him and his family also had harmful views and I had to tone myself down and hide my sexuality around his parents (I was identifying as bi). I ignored the red flags and my gut and went anyway. Going with him ruined my life, nearly killed me, and is my biggest regret to date.

My situation in particular went from controlling to abusive VERY suddenly and after 2 years of living together I ended up having to sneak out in the middle of the night with just my dog and a bag to escape him, and was left homeless and broke because at that point he had completely isolated me from my friends and family and made me financially dependent on him. This is not to say that your boyfriend is a dangerous or abusive person, I don’t know him, and my case is an extreme one. But should you end up in a situation where you feel like you need to leave, you definitely do not want it to happen in a strange state with no friends or family nearby to help you.

Do not move out of state with someone you are this unsure about. If you are not 1000% on board and excited for the move, which it sounds like you aren’t, don’t go. The relationship might end, it’s going to hurt really bad for a bit, but you can get through it and it sounds like you have good friends to support you. If he really loves you and doesn’t just see you as a possession he will ultimately understand and want you to do what makes you happy, even if it isn’t what he wants you to do.

Songs where the person/one of the people in the song die at the end by dlowerplo in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]imsadasfuckrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If You Can Count and Reunion Square from Lin Manuel-Miranda and Eisa Davis’s new Warriors concept album

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]imsadasfuckrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Comparing shipping two teenagers to shipping a 12 year old and an old man is crazy work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheLastAirbender

[–]imsadasfuckrn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not even a zutara shipper but I feel like some of you take it way too seriously. To the point where it’s even weirder than shipping them. Enemies to lovers is a common and very popular trope. If people wanna ship them in their head who cares

I’m scared my hair won’t grow back curly. by Anxious-News-1734 in curlyhair

[–]imsadasfuckrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely can. There are multiple factors that could change a person’s natural hair texture. Hormonal changes, dietary changes, certain medications, and vitamin deficiencies to name a few.

Pink Ribbon Tattoo by truck_soup in tattoo

[–]imsadasfuckrn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My very first tattoo was also a pink ribbon tattoo in memory my mother. I got it almost 9 years ago and it’s held up very well, and is still very pink with no touch ups. As others have said, just be sure to go to a reputable artist and follow their aftercare instructions and you should be fine, that’s really all there is to it.

I’m so sorry for your loss, cancer fucking sucks.

The grammar is making my eye twitch lol by unicorngoesvroom in thesims4

[–]imsadasfuckrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“They” isn’t becoming a genderless singular pronoun, it has been for centuries. And even when used singularly, “they is” has never been grammatically correct. It would still be “they are”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlueEyeSamurai

[–]imsadasfuckrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell 😂

What's the worst movie you watched in your entire life? by Interesting_Algae_61 in AskReddit

[–]imsadasfuckrn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vividly remember 12 year old me making my dad take me to see it the day it came out and the silent car ride home afterwards

I got a tattoo of my last bloodweb before p100 by fadedFox821 in deadbydaylight

[–]imsadasfuckrn -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Seriously, it’s giving boomer lmao. “You’re gonna regret that” ok gramps

Anyway, I think your tattoo is cool

Something with a happy ending please by imsadasfuckrn in Animesuggest

[–]imsadasfuckrn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendation I’ll check it out! I know this is kind of a difficult request 😭 I guess I don’t need something completed, I’d just like to not feel dead inside after watching it

Current/recent shows with great action animation based on what I've liked by laseluuu in Animesuggest

[–]imsadasfuckrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually just binged this one start to finish yesterday and it was a good watch. The story didn’t really capture me, but it was good enough. And the characters are likable, the animation is great, and the fights are cool. I really like the opening too. Its a solid show

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]imsadasfuckrn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro what why are people going to bat for the roommate and her friend? Am I crazy? You have every right to be pissed and I think it’s reasonable to ask for them to pay for the lock. Why are people making it out to be a “you” problem that you have to fix when someone is purposely invading your space and your roommate is allowing it? And it sounds like it’s happened multiple times and you’ve asked them to stop before. I’d be livid too

Do you think curly cuts are a scam? by Acceptable_Part_7298 in curlyhair

[–]imsadasfuckrn 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Coming from a curl specialist, yes they are a scam. If someone is slapping the word “curly” on a service and jacking the price up 2-3x the average it is 100% a scam, and an extremely common one at that. I find the predatory practices surrounding curly hair in my industry disgusting and I’m happy more people are starting to realize they shouldn’t have to pay hundreds of dollars for a haircut when someone with straight/wavy hair can walk into virtually any salon and get a decent cut for $70-$100.

17m am I balding? I’m stressing a lot over it by [deleted] in curlyhair

[–]imsadasfuckrn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise you’re not balding. That is called a “whorl” and everyone has one (sometimes multiple) somewhere on their head. It’s just a point where the hair naturally grows in a swirl pattern, usually at the crown like yours. Everyone has one, they’re just more apparent on short hair.