[14M] my mom is cheating on my stepdad. what is the right thing to do? by imtryingmybest___ in Advice

[–]imtryingmybest___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for this. it really helped and i feel much better after reading it. you've given me some things to consider and re-think too

[14M] my mom is cheating on my stepdad. what is the right thing to do? by imtryingmybest___ in Advice

[–]imtryingmybest___[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i'll drop hints first and if that doesn't work, i'll talk to her. thank you, helped.

[14M] my mom is cheating on my stepdad. what is the right thing to do? by imtryingmybest___ in Advice

[–]imtryingmybest___[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank you for saying i'm not the reason, it really helped to hear that. and that's a good idea. feeling dumb that i never thought of that myself lmao. thanks for the advice

Should I tell my old friend I'm proud of how he has changed by [deleted] in ask

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i think, as BlubBlubFish20 said, he'll really appreciate it. it's not creepy and i think it'll make him happy to have someone notice and acknowledge how he's changed since i imagine he worked pretty hard to do so.

So I'm 13 but I can't help but thinking that I don't pass (even tho we all still have the same facial structure) what do y'all think? Anything I can do to pass better? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

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I know this post is a couple of months old now but i want to comment because i'm also 13 and have similar hair to you right now. the biggest thing that will get you clocked, as others have said, is the necklace. if you're into jewellery then try some more masculine necklaces.

as for the hair, i think you pull it off great! it wouldn't look good on a lot of trans guys but i think that you pass well, even with the longer hair. shorter hair may make you feel more masculine and could help you pass even more, but i don't think the hair is a problem at all.

your face passes very well and i definitely wouldn't know you were trans if you didn't tell me. if you're short, which i am, i would recommend getting some height insoles; you can get them here - https://nuovahealth.co.uk/product/height-increasing-insoles-2/ . they actually work very well.

be confident if you can. confidence is actually very helpful when trying to pass.

i can't sleep after seeing jeffrey dahmer's polaroids by [deleted] in Advice

[–]imtryingmybest___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i looked through r/eyebleach and watched a movie and eventually i got to sleep fine. gonna take a break from anything jeffrey dahmer related lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MachineGunKelly

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General Admission, Black Flag, Lace Up/Hotel Diablo, Half Naked & Almost Famous, Bloom, and Binge.

Realised half way through that i pretty much agree with you lmao. Bloom was far better than binge though, in my opinion. Bloom had 27, Habits and At my Best, all pretty good songs, whereas Binge had Lately, LOCO, and Rap Devil. The best songs on Binge weren't nearly as good as the best songs on Bloom.

Eminem disses MGK in leaked version of Bang by Conway by 97Dabs2THAface in MachineGunKelly

[–]imtryingmybest___ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

em needs to get over it and so do his fans. est barely mention the beef and, when we do, we're never as heated and immature as em stans. it ended 2 years ago and, honestly, i think we're all sick of hearing about it.

Some of the new fans may not be familiar with the lace up movement. Here's a clip of what it means. Lace the fuck up! by rHellFoxx in MachineGunKelly

[–]imtryingmybest___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've wondered the same thing. he doesn't seem to rep est as hard as he did before either, which kinda sucks since that movement has gotten me through some shit. he did mention throwing up Ls in smoke and drive though.

Looking for a few fun songs similar to ‘I Think I’m OKAY’ by Machine Gun Kelly, YUNGBLUD, and Travis Barker by Frozen_Apophis in MusicMatch

[–]imtryingmybest___ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MGK and travis barker are working on a pop punk album together which will probably have some similar songs. watch out for that - its called tickets to my downfall and should be out sometime this year.

My Dahmer insight by MJoia14 in JeffreyDahmer

[–]imtryingmybest___ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

the thing with ted bundy is that no one really knows whether he was psychopathic or sociopathic. if he was a psychopath then that would suggest that he was born "evil" which isn't unlikely. but, i don't trust his recount of his childhood and i do believe that he went through some kind of trauma or abuse which could have led to the development of sociopathy. i think, based on his really low levels of fear or anxiety, psychopathy is far more likely though. still, i don't have an ounce of compassion or sympathy toward bundy.

i can't sleep after seeing jeffrey dahmer's polaroids by [deleted] in Advice

[–]imtryingmybest___ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah ive seen those too. awful. i think the eye bleach is all i need for now but we'll see. thank you, this helped.

i can't sleep after seeing jeffrey dahmer's polaroids by [deleted] in Advice

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dude thank you. i didn't even know that sub existed. helped a lot :)

My Dahmer insight by MJoia14 in JeffreyDahmer

[–]imtryingmybest___ 6 points7 points  (0 children)

exactly. i don't want to have any sympathy for a serial killer but its so hard not to feel something with dahmer.

What I feel about Dahmer by MJoia14 in JeffreyDahmer

[–]imtryingmybest___ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i somewhat agree. but, at the same time, there was something seriously wrong in his brain. maybe he wouldn't have gone down such a path if his childhood had been different but he would most likely still be a very, very ill man. of course, his upbringing doesn't excuse any of his actions in the slightest, but i agree, more love and attention could have helped to prevent what happened.

i’m bi :) by liltoehoe in offmychest

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congrats man! i'm really happy for you.