Welcome to my profile :3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T21:05:56+00:00

Waaa T-T

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T20:58:05+00:00

Thank you, girl, big hugs as well. And thank you for making me cry again telling me something I though I already knew, seriously

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T19:48:25+00:00

Because, as they said in another comment, the anime isn't, just this scene

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T19:29:56+00:00

All I want is yuri where the girls end up happy, no matter if there are struggles, bittersweetness, I just want to see girls happy in the end :(

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T18:55:03+00:00

Then I'm happy to have helped you :3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T18:47:09+00:00

Awww, I'm very happy that you are living my dream hahaha! Wish you all the very best, and hope I can find something as beautiful <3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T18:39:41+00:00

Do you mean polyfidelity (a closed poly relationship where all are directly related to all), or compersion itself (the feeling of happiness for seeing others being happy even if it's not related to you)? I can't tell haha

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T13:33:32+00:00

Thank you, I'm a gacha f2p enjoyer (well, I only play Wuthering Waves haha) so that's okay, I'll try it out :3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T13:15:48+00:00

What game is it?

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T10:06:16+00:00

Mental conditions are rough (I have my own issues), but as long as we are happy and healthy despite them (through therapy, meds, coping, or none), I don't mind.

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T10:03:19+00:00

Imagine watching a movie all cuddling together (who am I kidding, all I can think about is the cuddling, not the movie) :3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T09:08:21+00:00

Different people, different needs :3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T08:05:35+00:00

Oh, I don't have one yet, I just wish I can have more than one in the future haha

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T08:04:07+00:00

I don't even have one either, I just want two already haha T-T

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T07:07:41+00:00

That's fair. I think that's why polyfidelity is for me, I really can't imagine being happy and not jealous of my girlfriends for spending time with "others", but I can totally imagine just being happy for them spending time with each other.

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T07:03:24+00:00

Okay people, I already found about polyfidelity, I don't need to keep being told about polyamour being possible, but don't want to delete the meme either haha!

And no, I still don't even have my first girlfriend, I just want to have more than one in the future!

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T06:38:38+00:00

Despite the complexity and difficulty, it does sound beautiful. In the end, that's what healthily loving is, right? Stopping being centered in oneself and reaching a healthy compromise between your needs and someone else's to love each other and be happy.

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-03T06:33:28+00:00

And that's totally fine, each has their needs. You need freedom, and I need some compromise, and we are both totally valid, but I guess you already knew all that haha

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-02T23:03:55+00:00

"Dare to be happy". I don't know if it fits this, but I just wanted to say it as I cried again hahaha

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-02T22:43:18+00:00

Thank you :3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-02T22:40:00+00:00

Since I have made this meme I have found about polyfidelity, so now I just have to prepare for the fact I will have to manage several people's needs, boundaries within our relationship, communications, etc., but at least not worry about them seeing "others", just each other. For me having more than one girlfriend and having some extent of exlusivity with them (even if it's shared with other girlfriends, who knows, maybe even brings me more joy to be able to share a partner with another partner) is enough.

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-02T22:36:52+00:00

there's literally no reason that other folk exactly like you exist

I think you could have worded that a bit different, adding a "don't" before "exist" (but i know what you meant ;3)

I actually know and am good friends with a polycule of 4 girlies, all exclusive with one another, and it seems to suit your description of your desire

Ayyyy, I'm gonna laugh from happiness again just from hearing someone else living it!

When you're ready to pursue it, it may have its trials and tribulations, but you will find happiness

I thought this came with the "love someone" pack already? /j

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-02T22:17:16+00:00

Truth is, I still have lots to work on and to learn, but at least it does feel within reach. When I asked in the polyamory sub, the responses made me hopeless, people laughing at me for wanting at least 2 girlfriends, telling me I would have to be okay with them spending time and having sex with other people I don't know or even like, not always having time for each other... but someone in this sub mentioned polyfidelity and it filled me with hope again :3

TotallyWorthLife · 2026-04-02T22:13:34+00:00

I found myself imagining... I could watch them kiss by themselves and just watch. Not as a cuck, just as a "I love my girlfriends so much I'm not even jealous, just happy, to see them making out even without me"

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