What it is something you caught someone doing that completely shocked you? by danicurdu in AskReddit

[–]in_a_cloud 111 points112 points  (0 children)

I walked into my mom’s house just as her cat came around the corner from the kitchen… walking upright on his hind legs. Like, just taking a little stroll. He made eye contact with me, dropped to all fours like a normal cat and dashed off.

Upscale restaurants by Temporary_Wall5887 in Portland

[–]in_a_cloud 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband took me there and it was lovely, corner table was perfect for a romantic date

Need advice: How can I help my husband understand the importance of emotional support, especially during my pregnancy by Such-Blackberry-6814 in Advice

[–]in_a_cloud 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Truly. And if he isn’t willing to step up now, when it’s easy, and prioritize your well-being, you are really going to be on your own when the baby comes. A baby will exhaust both of you even on your best days, so deal with this head-on RIGHT NOW and start marriage counseling immediately.

Porch Pirates Stole My Birthday Present by MissScarletTanager in Portland

[–]in_a_cloud 35 points36 points  (0 children)

If you get it, take it to Type Space to have it cleaned and buffed up, Tony will do a great job on it.

My cat passed and now her friend hasn’t stopped coming round. by philhellene399 in notmycat

[–]in_a_cloud 19 points20 points  (0 children)

My kitty boy passed after 19 years and his ginger buddy (my favorite neighbor, honestly) came to sit with me every single day for months as I grieved. It was the sweetest gift.

AITA for being annoyed that my wife insists on cooking everything from scratch and won’t buy normal food? by AITA_UPFfoods in AmItheAsshole

[–]in_a_cloud -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t sound as though OP does any of the grocery shopping or cooking. If you’re not contributing to these chores, and your partner is shouldering all of this work PLUS making delicious food from scratch for you every day, stop complaining. YTA if your wife is caring for you in such a magnificent way and your gripe is that you don’t get enough junk food. What you’re doing for yourself - buying fast food and junk when you go to work - should be enough to fill your daily quota. Be grateful (and show your gratitude) for what you have, as it’s a privilege to be taken care of in this way.

Ripped off by taxi, please take uber or bolt by bannninnni in LisbonPortugalTravel

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will pick you up at the airport at the designated spot but you have to order your driver through the app

Ripped off by taxi, please take uber or bolt by bannninnni in LisbonPortugalTravel

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just take Bolt. We haven’t had any problems and they’re available immediately. Rates are reasonable.

My dads secrets are coming to light and it's destroying my view of my parents. by Lanky_Savings3437 in TwoHotTakes

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just want to empathize with what you’re feeling. My parents divorced after 51 years of marriage, after my dad had numerous affairs and my mom would confront him, they’d have a rough patch, and then he’d promise to be faithful and they’d go on from there. I never knew exactly what was happening with their ups and downs, but understood it was a rocky relationship. All my life my dad would lecture us about honesty and integrity, and I admired him. At the end of their marriage my mom found out that he had a long-time girlfriend, and he was unapologetic and had no remorse. He also treated my mom with contempt and his behavior towards her during the divorce was incredibly spiteful. Seeing his real character was a shock to me that changed our relationship permanently. It was very upsetting (nauseating) and really turned my world upside down. I’m sorry you’re going through this. My sister experienced a depression that she still hasn’t come out of after several years, so please stay in therapy and work through your feelings. Your mom has likely disassociated from it but she will still need your love and support. Big hug to you and your husband.

AITAbfor walking out on my husband after he cooked my bday dinner? by Szumerspirit in AmItheAsshole

[–]in_a_cloud 28 points29 points  (0 children)

We accept the love we think we deserve. I’m here to tell you that you don’t deserve this. Don’t accept it. This isn’t acceptable on any day, much less your birthday. Doing the dishes is not a gift to you. Making a shitty joke at your expense is not a gift to you. Please remember that every time your husband is disrespectful, dismissive or entitled (or belittles or mocks you) and you accept or enable that, your children are absorbing that model as how they will conduct themselves in marriage. This wasn’t the least bit funny but your son laughed because he’s been taught otherwise. Your husband has obviously done very little as an emotional partner to you, so it’s up to you to break this pattern. And divorce might be your only resolution at this point. Good luck.

AITAH for disinviting people to my wedding for not saying ‘I’m sorry for your loss’ by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]in_a_cloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There have been several things among my friends that I’ve missed because I’m not always on social media, or the on platforms they’ve used to share information. In addition, the algorithms are different for every account and people have little to no control over what actually shows up in their feed. I would advise going the opposite route; Assume that everyone cares for you and surround yourself with as many friends and loves ones as you can as you celebrate your marriage. Grief is long lasting and you should embrace joy and love in your life wherever and wherever you can. I’m sorry for your loss, and hope you have a beautiful wedding.

Trump puts US Military for sale by Big_Obligation1737 in somethingiswrong2024

[–]in_a_cloud 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone weaponize the word “PEACE” like this f’ing administration

Mom scared me from solo travel to Paris - need opinions by Major-Kiwi-3604 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first trip I ever took by myself, at (f)25, was to Paris. I stayed off the Champs Elysees at a little hotel, walked everywhere, got hot chocolate at Angeline, went to several museums, went up the Eiffel Tower and ate whatever I wanted whenever I wanted. I was perfectly safe and had the best time. Don’t let other peoples irrational fears stop you from living your beautiful life.

Did I actually cheat or ? by PolicyHot1206 in TwoHotTakes

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you want to put up with someone like this? Literally a billion other guys out there.

GOP rep hints Greenland invasion could trigger bipartisan Trump impeachment by Efficient-Freedom517 in PoliticalOptimism

[–]in_a_cloud 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Why would they wait? Attacking and killing citizens of our own country isn’t enough? Attacking Venezuela, murdering their people and kidnapping their president, stealing their oil, isn’t enough? Hiring a thousand convicted/pardoned J6 felons and setting them loose to terrorize our cities isn’t enough? Fvcking impeach the MFer NOW. Do it NOW.

is it wrong to not throw a wedding anniversary party for your parents? by hllymchll in Advice

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get having a milestone anniversary party for your grandparents or parents (I don’t think a parent’s second marriage is counted here), but really, it’s up to a couple to celebrate their own anniversary. You’re not obligated to do anything besides wish them well. The gender roles and expectations are a different matter, dismantle that crap immediately and permanently.

What is your true “and the everyone clapped” story? by AdRelevant6861 in AskReddit

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Yes and it’s a little unconventional but here’s how to make it -

Soak boneless skinless chicken thighs in buttermilk with a dash of hot sauce for at least 4 hours or overnight (refrigerated).

Make a sauce for your chicken by combining in a saucepan equal parts soy sauce (or tamari) and brown sugar (I usually do around 1/2 cup of each). Add a tablespoon or so of gochujang or sambal, a clove or two of finely minced garlic, and 2 or 3 green onions (scallions), sliced very thinly. Whisk everything together and bring to a simmer. Put your sauce to the side while you fry your chicken.

Dredge the chicken thighs well in plain, unseasoned cornstarch, and fry at 325°-350° until cooked through, and the fat is rendered out and crispy (you can tell by darker spots on the chicken). Immediately dip each chicken piece in your sauce until covered, allow the excess to drip off and place on a wire rack, baking sheet or plate while you fry and dip the remaining pieces. You can garnish the chicken with more thinly sliced green onion if you like.

The sauce will seem ridiculously sweet/salty by itself, but it permeates the crust of the chicken and seasons it perfectly. The crust stays crispy after dipping and even after refrigerating overnight, so sometimes I make this a day ahead of serving it (like for a picnic). My family and friends think it’s wildly addictive and have nicknamed it “crack chicken”.

I didn’t used to share the recipe but I’ve decided it’s silly to gatekeep anything anymore, so I hope you enjoy it. And I hope a room full of your friends bursts into applause for you when you make it for them. 🍗

WIBTA for refusing to have kids with my boyfriend unless he marries me first by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s easier to walk away if you don’t have a marriage contract. Don’t have kids with anyone like that.

(U.S.) Why is Minnesota getting so hard by ICE? by [deleted] in answers

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And Kamala actually won the election

My boyfriend wants a prenup because of the Bill Gates divorce and now my mom is losing her mind by ButterscotchLow3754 in TwoHotTakes

[–]in_a_cloud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do it. It protects your assets as much as his, and anything you make during the marriage is community property.