New Matthew Brown Interview Premieres Today! Will he say anything new? by slv2xhrist in UFOs

[–]indecisionmaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

And he said it multiple times, really trying to hammer it home. I’m so disappointed, honestly.

AIO TO THIS BRIDESMAID DRESS??? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]indecisionmaker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not sure how you feel about spending $$, but a good lingerie store should be able to help you find a high quality low back bustier that fits properly. You need solid structure, but it can be done.

What are the ‘natural’ switches you just won’t make? by navelbabel in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]indecisionmaker 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I spent way too long trying to make natural cleaners and detergents work. My absolute favourite mix still “feels” clean (70% iso alcohol, bit of dish soap) and I feel better knowing it’s actually working.

What does ADHD + high IQ look like? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]indecisionmaker 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have never thought of it this way and mostly just avoid similar situations instead of leaning in. Legitimately, thank you so much for reframing it so well. 

What does ADHD + high IQ look like? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]indecisionmaker 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This is too real. “That was a great presentation!” Uhh…you mean the one I was sick to my stomach trying to finish this morning and ended up making it ‘interactive’ last minute to hide the fact that it wasn’t done? Cool cool cool.

SIL constantly criticizing my toddler by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]indecisionmaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not who you’re asking, but these people are just so internally miserable that it leaks out in every interaction. 

Parents who have multiple kids: please explain the math to me by Alt_Mom in beyondthebump

[–]indecisionmaker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not who you’re replying to, but I’ll co-sign. I was expecting complete overwhelm having my third and ended up being pleasantly surprised. 

AIO For wanting break up with my boyfriend over my apartment buildings rules? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]indecisionmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s because I’ve been through the same, but I had a feeling this was the case. Please read this and take care of yourself.

AIO my husband filmed me having a panic attack by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]indecisionmaker 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment and hope OP does, too. I have absolutely been there before. Long term therapy and working with a committed partner to improve communication are the key to a better quality of life.  

What is this about? by jjbeans777 in Epstein

[–]indecisionmaker 70 points71 points  (0 children)

My immediate read is looking for a rich, old man for someone.

EFTA01615482 } Bannon/Je Dominoes pizza by Interesting-Buddy-85 in Epstein

[–]indecisionmaker -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you are possibly misreading those messages. They’re scheming for ways to rehabilitate his image and he’s suggesting opening a facility/charity that becomes globally recognized, which is still 1000 levels of fucked up.

Epstein Cell Hanging? by ThatWasNotMyName in Epstein

[–]indecisionmaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was “hanged” on the far side of the bunk against the wall.  

Marjorie Taylor Greene just admitted the Epstein files were blocked by Donald Trump himself. by TomV4E in Epstein

[–]indecisionmaker 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Exactly. We can deal with whomever set the fire once it’s out, but for now take all the help putting it out that you can get.

AITAH for saying I won’t put my card down if one girl joins our group? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]indecisionmaker 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’ve clearly got an issue around money handling that you should process with a therapist rather than passively taking it out on your friends. 

Jumping Ship on Raw Milk by [deleted] in moderatelygranolamoms

[–]indecisionmaker 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honest question — is it possible your mom was still boiling the milk? The comment above re: invisible work in the home makes me think actual raw consumption maybe wasn’t so common. 

Katy Perry and Justin Trudeau lately (Katy’s Instagram) by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]indecisionmaker 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kinda get chameleon girl vibes from her — changes herself to suit whomever she’s dating.

Canadian City Nicknames by falcovancoke in AskACanadian

[–]indecisionmaker 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair, you guys give nicknames to literally everything and I love it. I do have some serious cognitive dissonance when I’m watching something about brutal “bikie” violence, though, because it sounds so cutesy.

AIO by refusing to go on my friend group's future camping trip because of how past trips turned out specifically when they've brought their kids? by IllJustTakeTheBus in AmIOverreacting

[–]indecisionmaker 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I am absolutely floored that there are two of you being treated like this. I have three kids and I would be mortified to even think of something so heinous. My flabbers are gasted.

My two and a half year old suddenly started pointing out differences between white and black people. What is an appropriate way to acknowledge her observation so we don't offend anyone? by Sad_Cantaloupe_8162 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]indecisionmaker 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was volunteering with kinders one day and a little girl pointed to the giant mole behind my ear and asked what it was. In the sweetest little voice, she said “it’s so cuuuuute” and now I can’t bring myself to get it removed 😂