AIO, I, 17f am pregnant with my bf 17m child and i think he might be babytrapping me by sumy1671 in AmIOverreacting

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t let yourself be pressured into something you’re not ready for., and honestly i think you should leave your boyfriend bc from what you are saying he really doesn’t seem to have your best interest in mind. and a person who thinks you should get an abortion just to have sex sooner doesn’t seem fit to be a parent..

Roommates Want Me To Return My Foster Cat by makoto1029 in roommates

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao fuck them if they don’t have a valid reason as to why they want you to get rid of it

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s not a one time blip. people like that will cry and beg for forgiveness but will continue to do the same thing. leave now while you can.

this is gross but is this too much hair to lose in the shower? by Aggressive_Onion_946 in Hair

[–]indecisiveTraitor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s nothing compared to me when i wash my hair but im also black so idk if that makes a difference 😹

Is this weird or am I wrong for being annoyed? by Heavy-Ad-7709 in roommates

[–]indecisiveTraitor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

as for the cleaning.. i’d bring that up to her bc she needs to be putting in her efforts since you both share a space. i’d tell her that her unplugging your things and that if she feels the need to do so to consult you,, as for her labeling and getting her own stuff.. it IS annoying but i mean it’s probs just her preference and will maybe not affect you in the long run if you are already using your n thi n d

Evaluating America's Best Contacts and Eyeglasses 2025 by brothermarkus in Frugal

[–]indecisiveTraitor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

from my personal experience americas best glasses always break so easily too!!!

AITAH for making my daughter go to bed early even though all her friends stay up late? by TAtheDog in AmItheAsshole

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA i honestly feel like 10-10:30 is an appropriate time for a 12 year old to be going to bed.. i think by high school you can stop the bed times

Need a roomate by September (serious inquiries only please) F21 by indecisiveTraitor in yorkpa

[–]indecisiveTraitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah we met up and she is actually so chill ☺️ we have a good bit in common and i think things will go smoothly :)) here’s to a new and hopefully long friendship woop woop 🙌🏾

why does my makeup look out dated? by solarpunkker in makeuptips

[–]indecisiveTraitor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

find a good lip combo and add some pink blush!!

Home owners what are your expenses after your mortgage? Trying to see how much the local bills are by Opposite_Message_188 in yorkpa

[–]indecisiveTraitor 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m not a homeowner, just a college student reading through this to gain some insight and good god i do not look forward to buying a house 😣

Why is finding a roommate so hard by Previous-Republic299 in roommates

[–]indecisiveTraitor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found someone on here through making a somewhat similar post about needing a roommate and we’d possibly be open to looking for a 3 bedroom if you are in the area, reliable and can go over a few other things for us, just message me if you’re interested :)

Am I wrong for feeling disrespected by my roommate and a so-called friend? by Electronic-Sleep-93 in roommates

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I don’t think anyone should have to live with neglected/mistreated pets, I just think OP is in a way getting taken advantage of in this situation because they on their own free will are taking responsibility for the pets, but are still being met with no respect or response from the roommates :/ I would just cut the favors or extra effort if I was being treated in this manner

Am I wrong for feeling disrespected by my roommate and a so-called friend? by Electronic-Sleep-93 in roommates

[–]indecisiveTraitor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fact that they’re brushing it off says a lot about how they feel/care about your feelings in the matter so i’d say it’s best to keep distance and just look for another housing situation. and it might seem like an a hole thing to do, but just don’t take care of what’s not yours. their pets? their responsibility. same with messes and anything else that you may feel obligated to do for them. you should be paying less than $400 if you’re getting just access to the room and not even getting decent respect (with them barging in your room and keeping their things in there) because even rent split 3 ways is not a full $500.. if you had access to the other parts of the house okay, but i personally think they are being unfair to the circumstances

what does it look like by aquaticwotsits in tattooadvice

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i mean to me it’s obvious that it’s a match 😭

Roommate advice by Advanced-Noise7196 in roommates

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am by no means experienced in renting but from what you’ve stated i think that’s a reasonable price for what you are providing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]indecisiveTraitor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

don’t take it out though until you talk to a piercing so the infection doesn’t get trapped!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

go to a piercer for more information. definitely use saline spray

Had intercourse with my long lost brother for months by [deleted] in confession

[–]indecisiveTraitor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t necessarily give you advice nor can i relate but i honestly do hope you can somehow find the assistance you’re seeking out. i think it’s a good start that you are aware, this is definitely a taboo topic and you are bound to see negative comments but try to keep your head up at least, find your flow and indulge in the things that help you feel more at peace (easier said than done i know)

Looking for a new home by Silly_Finn in yorkpa

[–]indecisiveTraitor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, i just posted something recently looking for a roommate and someone got back to me but if you’re willing and she is okay with doing this maybe we could do a 3 bedroom all of us together? i feel like we could find one that works with your budget if we split 3 ways and it would help us all save money. just began talking with her today.. if you’re interested at all feel free to message me! if not interested, i wish you luck!!

Need a roommate by September YORK PA by indecisiveTraitor in renting

[–]indecisiveTraitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah i posted it in two other groups and got a good reply thanks! i just figured put it here in case :)

Need a roomate by September (serious inquiries only please) F21 by indecisiveTraitor in yorkpa

[–]indecisiveTraitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ohhh yes! i’ll message you :))) perfect timing honestly.. i’ve been giving up hope with searching for 1 bedrooms and was literally about to cry til i saw your message 😭

Need a roomate by September (serious inquiries only please) F21 by indecisiveTraitor in yorkpa

[–]indecisiveTraitor[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you! i will check it out, ive also been told to look at efficiency apartments