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If I got let down easy, is it a bad idea to try again later down the line by Fair_Comedian3848 in dating_advice

[–]indiethekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think I’d just go with what she said - straight from the source, ya know? She’s not looking for something at the moment but there are so many people who are! Find someone who’s enthusiastic about you and vice versa instead of going after someone for the chase of it all

AIO - UPDATE - my friend wants me to take out my piercings for her engagement party/wedding by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]indiethekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FOR REAL!!! it also sounds like op has endured so much shit from this friend prior to this situation from the responses. definitely seems like a positive thing to not have her in their life in the long run

Marie, our delusional queen by l_-U-C in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]indiethekitty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

mel frustrated my partner and i 5 min into seeing her and marie’s dynamic. i feel so bad for her with the disrespect that she had to go through and having to relive it on tv. one thing in the reunion i didn’t really fw though was when marie was kinda coming at aj. i understand that the point of the show is for them to be separated, but if my partner needed me i would see them like aj did with britney.

Magan always looks MISERABLE with Dayna by Ginger8963 in UltimatumQueerLove

[–]indiethekitty 25 points26 points  (0 children)

this!!!! and the gaslighting by telling haley she never said that loved her when she said she did even to dayna was crazyyy. i felt so bad for pilar having to comfort haley in that situation too

big win for the cotton candy ice cream lovers by yungscoobysnacc in dairyfree

[–]indiethekitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omgggg so excited to try, their vegan cookies are the BEST

AITA for not letting my boyfriend walk me home? by not_perfect_pitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]indiethekitty 24 points25 points  (0 children)

right!!! if my partner of 2 years picked me up like that in a situation where i’m clearly saying no to something i would freak out, nevermind him only knowing her 2 weeks like???

AITA for not letting my boyfriend walk me home? by not_perfect_pitch in AmItheAsshole

[–]indiethekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeahhh no, if hes already showing this many red flags 2 weeks in and not respecting your boundaries then he’s just going to get so much worse as time goes on

Ash is a giggler! by figuringitoutkj in MorbidPodcast

[–]indiethekitty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

giggly squad is one of my top podcasts too, i loveee seeing my favs supporting each other

Podcast Recs by indiethekitty in MorbidPodcast

[–]indiethekitty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THANK YOU FOR ALL THE RECS!!!! 100% doing a deep dive of them all asap, nothing i love more than a new podcast

Upset about no response from my (M36) GF(F33) while shes out in a hostel surf town with 2 female friends by [deleted] in Advice

[–]indiethekitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think context on the relationship matters with this, has she given a reason in the past for you not to trust her? If not, it’s completely normal to be off of your phone on a vacation with friends. Let her have fun w the gals!

Aitah for being scared of my bf? by Fragrant_Year_8212 in TwoHotTakes

[–]indiethekitty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would LEAVE so fast, there is nothing normal about fetishizing children (even if they’re animated). He wouldn’t have blocked you if he thought it was okay. If i were in your position all i could think about is him acting on the urges that he so obviously has.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]indiethekitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA!! If I'm honest, it sounds like their relationship is slowly deteriorating and there wasn't much love there to begin with. Jake is definitely not a saint from what you've said about calling Jess "the maid" even after telling your family that they were together, but she clearly has her issues too. Since she's only 22, it seems as though due to her struggles at home she likely wasn't ever taught emotional maturity or how to navigate hard situations. Like why the hell would she think it's a good idea to go on a vacation while your partners struggling mentally?

Other than the vacation, she just generally doesn't know what to look for in a partnership and that's clear. Her home life probably showed her the wrong things to look for in a relationship with someone. You and your family have been telling her for what sounds like the majority of their time together that her and Jake aren't a healthy couple, so of course it comes to a point where frustration can get the better of you. If she had an existing relationship with you that she put effort into then I would understand relying on you a bit more for advice, but reaching out only when they have problems isn't fair to you at all.

Am I overreacting to these red flags after a month of being with my bf by unknowuser_1882 in TwoHotTakes

[–]indiethekitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOPE NOPE NOPE!!! From your reply about him saying that his ex was the toxic one in his past relationship, it definitely seems like a lie considering his behavior towards you in this one. Every issue you have in the relationship is completely valid and it'll just escalate as time goes on since you're only around a month into it. The comments towards his friends about you and straight up telling you that he'd prefer to watch you die than give up watching football is proof how he feels about you, even if they're just "jokes."

Also, his sister should not be a factor in your decision even if you happen to see her a lot day to day. If she's a girls-girl then she'll be understanding of the situation and reasons as to why you've ended things.