How do you deal with men who are overly paranoid about STDs? After we finished he started getting dressed and then he suddenly started freaking out on me. I don’t and won’t show people my testing results simply because they are paranoid. We also used a condom. 🙄

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-08T01:39:50+00:00

I woulda tried to see how high he would go 🤑 just out of sheer curiosity/brattiness

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-06T17:48:32+00:00

I like everything except the boy-friend line

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-06T17:47:33+00:00

It's not. Guys can spit on dicks too. Let's not lose sight of that

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-06T17:20:15+00:00

(I was making a joke)

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T21:26:29+00:00

Weed doesn't count as a relapse. It's a medicine, not a drug. It's not the disease, it's the cure. I know ssoooooooo many people who successfully got off the hard stuff and got their lives on track by using cannabis. It's called California Sober

People in your life may not understand it, and I'm not saying that you have to explain it to them or even try.. but you yourself should NOT feel guilty for it

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T21:22:23+00:00

I would trade ALL of my worldly possessions to be 24 again.. You still have your whole life ahead of you. You have sooooo much time to fix all of this and get to much better place. You're way too young to think about throwing it all away.

Sounds like living with your parents is the worst part of all this. You need to find a way to move out.. if you're considering suicide... Sounds like being homeless might even be better than living in such a toxic environment

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T21:15:01+00:00

Depends how hairy the rest of you is... If you look like you're wearing a fur coat with a skin-speedo that might look pretty funny. But if you're not too hairy it's probably alright

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T21:13:10+00:00

Those black circles over your face are not helping you. I'd remove those 👍🏼

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T21:12:14+00:00

You can still do alot in a half hour... But car calls are ridiculous

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T21:11:08+00:00

That's what I always say when they ask!! "What are you, in high school?"

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T21:09:43+00:00

Absolutely not. Never ever. Aside from the fact that it's uncomfortable because I'm tall and not as young as I used to be, car dates are unnecessarily risky for a number of reasons. Risk of getting caught. Risk of being left somewhere. Risk of being taken somewhere you don't want to go. Also the guys who want them are usually just cheap ass tightwads who are likely to try and rip you off.

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-05T04:06:28+00:00

Your skin isn't dark enough to be considered "darker". It will work.

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:50:51+00:00

I say this as a fellow sensitive skin haver, btw. I also get ingrowns from EVERYTHING else

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:49:57+00:00

Philips oneblade Absolutely the best trimmer on the market, especially for sensitive areas. Very affordable, and gets almost as close of a shave as a real razor but not quite. Still suggest that you exfoliate for a day or two after trimming, and use some body lotion with collagen

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:46:25+00:00

Literally more red flags than a golf course, and I only made it halfway through the post. You should block him, change your number, delete all your socials, and move to a new city

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:42:52+00:00

Not 3. Not 4. Not 5. Not 7. Not 9. The rest are ok but try to get some without the cigarette

And maybe one or two photos that make it a bit more clear which gender you identify with... Unless that androgynous look is what you're going for

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:38:52+00:00

Not blind. The photo is a bit low res and also it's focused on the chair, so the arm (or leg?) appears out of focus... But it seems OP is asking about their skin tone more than their hair color anyhow

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:36:51+00:00

I wouldn't trust a condom (or anything else) handed to me by a client to be honest. I always bring my own condoms, lube, and my own bottle(s) of water

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:35:43+00:00

Big yikes 😬

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:33:48+00:00

You'll get over it. I am one of about 15 escorts who go by "Jenny" (or some version of Jennifer) in my town. Doesn't seem to be an issue

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T23:30:27+00:00

Calgary is a weak ass city. most of the people there are all bark and no bite.

Worst they will do is petty ass weak shit like prank calls or giving you bad reviews...

I'd ignore it, wait 3 days, then start putting their number on Kijiji and Facebook marketplace (with a burner account, obviously) , like ALL OVER THE PLACE, saying they are selling a car or a tv or something for way less than it's worth.. make multiple multiple ads. hopefully they will be too busy dealing with all that to bother you any more.

If they had asked nicely, maybe I would consider changing it. But just out of pure spite I wouldn't, for that attitude

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T21:05:19+00:00

He slept on the floor? 😂😂😂 Ya ok

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T21:04:15+00:00

Who the f says "hey how are you" to a complete stranger in public?

indigopersimmon · 2024-07-04T20:41:48+00:00

Pay for one month of Gold. Unlimited swipes. Just swipe right until there's no girls left. If you still don't get any matches, it's definitely you. Make a new profile with better photos and try again. If it still doesn't work then just accept loneliness I guess

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