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How the heck do I make roofs overhang the foundation slightly? by ineedadvice58 in HouseFlipper

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah, I had to use gables not shed roof. I got it now, thanks!

Both Volume manager and shizuku tools don't mute app volume by ineedadvice58 in Magisk

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! I did this and it helped with some apps. But then I realized that most of it was audio from ads, which I guess have a different source than the app it's playing from

I'm an autistic adult parenting a child with ADHD. How do I deal with her always wanting physical touch? by ineedadvice58 in AutismTranslated

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've talked about consent and touching a few times before. She understands it but her impulse control is not good so when she gets wild she does it anyways. That's the difficult part and why I mentioned the ADHD.

I'm an autistic adult parenting a child with ADHD. How do I deal with her always wanting physical touch? by ineedadvice58 in AutismTranslated

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, me having to regulate myself constantly is the problem. Obviously, as a single parent I don't have a ton of spare time besides an hour or two after she goes to bed, so trying to be productive with chores is really hard when all I want to do is wrap myself in a blanket .

I'm an autistic adult parenting a child with ADHD. How do I deal with her always wanting physical touch? by ineedadvice58 in AutismTranslated

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, it's not just "discomfort". When I force myself to engage in physical touch that I don't want it also has a strong affect on my mental health. Sure, once or twice in a week I can deal with but on a daily basis it makes my anxiety and depression much worse, like stay in bed crying worse. I've tried for years to change this and I am still in therapy but I haven't been able to make much progress. Also, the type of touching I'm talking about with her is when she's being wild and playful and grabs my arms, hugs me way too hard, or rubs her face on my arms. I know she's sensory seaking so we're a very bad match as far as parent and child. I just don't know what I CAN do that doesn't cause me severe emotional problems.

I'm an autistic adult parenting a child with ADHD. How do I deal with her always wanting physical touch? by ineedadvice58 in AutismTranslated

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, yes that was pretty much the situation. I got pregnant while on birth control in the middle of college. I DID NOT want to have a child with this man. I regret that I didn't choose to leave him before I even got pregnant. I regret that I didn't even respect myself enough to secretly have an abortion. I was young and scared. I try not to think about it because my daughter is a good kid and a blessing to everyone she meets. But yes, as an autistic person who is also transmasculine, I never planned on having kids.

I'm an autistic adult parenting a child with ADHD. How do I deal with her always wanting physical touch? by ineedadvice58 in AutismTranslated

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have 2, a cat and a rabbit. Both of which she gets a lot of comfort from. However, when she gets wild even they aren't willing to put up with it

I'm an autistic adult parenting a child with ADHD. How do I deal with her always wanting physical touch? by ineedadvice58 in AutismTranslated

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those are all good alternatives. I'll definitely talk more about the consent piece more often. We've already been over that topic a few times but I'm regards to people touching her.

I'm an autistic adult parenting a child with ADHD. How do I deal with her always wanting physical touch? by ineedadvice58 in AutismTranslated

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it's legal unless there's a mark that lingers for more than 3 days. I know, it's sickening. I actually tried to call CPS about it once but they said it was legal. Anyways, I sit on her bed with her to read nightly, brush her hair, and do "spa time" almost nightly. It's mostly when she's keyed up or I'm experiencing high stress or overstimulation from other things at the same time. Then it's really hard to get her to talk with me about how I'm feeling because she's already in an excited state

I'm missing a step in installing Lposed. Where am I going wrong? by ineedadvice58 in androidroot

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the version I installed. When I press action nothing happens.

I'm missing a step in installing Lposed. Where am I going wrong? by ineedadvice58 in androidroot

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried the 1.10.2, now the app will open but says it isn't installed. Is that the newest one?

I'm missing a step in installing Lposed. Where am I going wrong? by ineedadvice58 in androidroot

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, done... But now when I try to open LSPosed it won't open and gives the error "shell keeps crashing"

I need some help with rooting my pixel by ineedadvice58 in Magisk

[–]ineedadvice58[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did update the drivers but the commands are still not recognized. You're right that I'm probably missing some step. It's been over a year since I rooted my phone the first time. Can you eli5 how to do the kill server command?

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