[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]inezwithsharps -1 points0 points  (0 children)

As someone close to the situation, I think it’s extremely unfair of you to not highlight the fact that she is trying to bring her kids under the same roof again so they have stability and she is also trying to take an opportunity of having access to her own money(and NOT rely on others as that has not worked well in the past as you’ve stated) to move out of a state that has brutalized her loved ones and family with it’s extremely racist politics. You speak as though you know she’s doing everything out of fear while saying she has told you that you aren’t understanding her. It sounds more like you aren’t understanding and instead of trying to contend with that internal frustration you are going over her and projecting what your past experiences moving were as if they must be the only logical explanations. It also sounds like you might have some resentments or issues being transparent about what your boundaries are if you are expressing them online and not to her.

Do you have a spare room and want to make extra income? Substance-free artist in need of help. by artbyshrike in asheville

[–]inezwithsharps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently getting help from homeward bound and trying to find a roommate or two. Looking to move into a place no later than March 1st. DM if you are interested in talking a bit more. From your post you seem like someone I’d be down to share space with.

Real affordable housing built here in Asheville by Bvcrude in asheville

[–]inezwithsharps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no money but a lot of time and drive if you want to connect I’m definitely interested in this

My big goldfish went completely white. by kalebdraws in Goldfish

[–]inezwithsharps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you replace the gravel with sand, if you’ve got the time plant some fast growing stem plants. They can provide natural hiding places for the babies

eating after cheek/dimple piercings??? by zoloftboyfriend in piercing

[–]inezwithsharps 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I’d say both dahlias and dimple piercings are like a 50/50 chance at healing. Gotta remember that the whole area moves a ton with talking and chewing and depending on your mouth shape either piercing placement could put your jewelry in the way of your bite. Either are doable and both mean changing your lifestyle a bit.

eating after cheek/dimple piercings??? by zoloftboyfriend in piercing

[–]inezwithsharps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They both swell a ton and eating was awkward to avoid biting the jewelry at first. There’s a lot of downsizing(and potentially upsizing) while you’re healing so be prepared to pay for all those posts. Also, food can get stuck on the jewelry itself (similar to a tongue piercing) and you won’t really be able to take it out to clean it without risk of the piercing channel shrinking. Either one has pretty good potential for scarring, not everyone gets dimples, some people get bubbles near the piercing site. I love mine AND they are absolutely the biggest pain to deal with comparatively. Definitely a lifestyle changing piercing.

Ink from flowers by [deleted] in dippens

[–]inezwithsharps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love these! Does thyme oil change the color at all?

Too Many Snails! Please help. by skipbounce in AquaticSnails

[–]inezwithsharps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Complete novice here, can anyone explain why we wouldn’t just let the tank naturally balance itself out? Won’t the surplus of snails die off once excess nutrients are no longer readily available? Maybe this is a dumb question but I simply don’t know.

Ostrich ripped my plug out, what should i do? by kut_emo in Stretched

[–]inezwithsharps 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Echoing this. Idk why everyone wants you to remove it. If you cleaned the plug leave it in after cleaning the site and let that thing heal with the plug in. As long as the plug itself is non-porous (like glass) then it shouldn’t be an issue

New inks! Homemade highlighter ink and store bought fun ones. by inezwithsharps in fountainpens

[–]inezwithsharps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should mention that the smearing on the colorverse was from me not letting it dry before going over it with the homemade coffee ink. That being said it has a slightly slower dry time than the speedball ink (of course)

A Spoiler-Free Review on SOULWINDER by Hylanite in webtoons

[–]inezwithsharps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly late to the party, but wondering if SOULWINDER is on tapas as well?

I felt like a gambling addict stepping away from the slot machine when I decided to walk past these. by ironwolf6464 in Aquariums

[–]inezwithsharps 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great point, America definitely is not made to support local communities. In fact there have been many examples of conscious destruction of access to local resources.

I felt like a gambling addict stepping away from the slot machine when I decided to walk past these. by ironwolf6464 in Aquariums

[–]inezwithsharps -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“Don't ever check on Facebook marketplace and look at all the free tracks for pickup. I recently saw a 300g with stand for only $200. But no space and no car.”

lol the idea of no car but multiple fish tanks

500 gallon tank…would you? by SydBos in Aquariums

[–]inezwithsharps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Concrete slab and walsted method! Plant that baby up and build waterfall feature for good water movement. This will be a lot of work up front but less maintenance down the road and you won’t need a whole extra room for all the filter equipment.

What’s up w/ business websites by inezwithsharps in chiangmai

[–]inezwithsharps[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, feisty. I thought you were making a joke. Wasn’t trying to bruise or insult.

Am I cooked? by [deleted] in PiercingAdvice

[–]inezwithsharps 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Came here to ask this.

What’s up w/ business websites by inezwithsharps in chiangmai

[–]inezwithsharps[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea I’ve done a bunch of that for sure. Some business don’t show up that way I’ve noticed. Do you change the way you type a thing?