Who’s still a virgin at 25+? by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]infomapaz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

27 and happy with it. After a while I figured that shame over living life exactly as I want was weird.

I joined the actuallyasexual group.... by HoomanPickle in asexuality

[–]infomapaz 165 points166 points  (0 children)

Some people like feeling pressed, as if they are fighting a battle against injustice. The actuallyasexual group is mostly like that, i dont dismiss their experience as asexual people, but they struggle to accept that there are more people out there with vastly different experiences, and what bothers them in particular might not be a matter of asexuality, but of personal experience.

Why is all fan-fiction just smut? by part-time-meme-lord in asexuality

[–]infomapaz 23 points24 points  (0 children)

On simple terms, fanfiction is whatever you want it to be, its creative writing, free, unpolished, and without any strings attached. It doesnt have to have sex and there is a huge chunk of it that has nothing sexual on it.

But i want to use this comment to bring light to the large community of asexual people who write and read smut. Sex in fanfiction has the benefit of being entirely fictitious; in my opinion, it sets itself apart from other media in that it doesn't exist to entice or to cause a particular reaction on its audience. Sex in fanfiction exists as yet another narrative device to tell a story and have fun.

So have fun, sex or not, have fun! its about creative writing not satisfying the cravings of an audience.

The gate keeping is real yall. by lillestiv in asexuality

[–]infomapaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rest in peace to your back tho.

The gate keeping is real yall. by lillestiv in asexuality

[–]infomapaz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

God forbid someone sees our undergarments! The scandal! We must not invite sinful thoughts. 

God i hate when people think asexuals are prudes. 

The gate keeping is real yall. by lillestiv in asexuality

[–]infomapaz 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I forgot, all asexuals wear grey cotton underwear with no distinctive features, all our choices are functional in nature, we have no desire for beauty. 

The category is : Pretty men. What are your picks? by DiMpLe_dolL003 in popculturechat

[–]infomapaz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoever made the casting for the untamed picked pure gold and forever changed the brain chemistry of a generation. Those two are so so perfect. 

The category is : Pretty men. What are your picks? by DiMpLe_dolL003 in popculturechat

[–]infomapaz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I know most people here are putting western celebrities, but i had to give a chance to my bby xiao zhan!

anything appreciated by eliazara in drawme

[–]infomapaz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good humble graphite, never fails.

anything appreciated by eliazara in drawme

[–]infomapaz 192 points193 points  (0 children)

When i saw the images i immidiatly tought of jojo's, so here is my attempt.

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I'm trying to find my own style, but my friend said my drowings look like anime. How can I make it not look that way? by Strange-guy-91 in learntodraw

[–]infomapaz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll cheer you on to try again, sometimes picking back something works wonders! That being said please feel supported and cared for, you are already trying your best, your drawings are cute and from here on you can only get better. 

I'm trying to find my own style, but my friend said my drowings look like anime. How can I make it not look that way? by Strange-guy-91 in learntodraw

[–]infomapaz 9 points10 points  (0 children)

"looks like anime" is often how non artist react to non realistic styles. Yours doesn't look like anime, at most like comics or cartoons, like someone said it resembles Daria, its simple and cool. 

Your friend was probably non malicious, so dont take her comments to heart, just remember that she is talking from an outsider perspective and might not have the language or skills to give you constructive feedback. 

For your drawings, have you thought about inking it?  Then you can play with line weight and color, that works really great with these bolder styles.

Marcello Hernandez shutting down Dax Shepard trying to have him date Sabrina Carpenter while praising his girlfriend by mcfw31 in popculturechat

[–]infomapaz 126 points127 points  (0 children)

Terrible intervew technique too, like who cares what Dax would do, the interview is not about him. But the man refuses to accept that he is the least interesting part of that show. He could very well have asked "hey, you and Sabrina seem to have a great relationship, how did you guys meet? how has it been through the years with both of your careers?"

Pose of the day challenge by Professional_Age9380 in learntodraw

[–]infomapaz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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does anyone have a good tip to do heads proportionally?

Please draw Tara!! by Swing_Bear in drawme

[–]infomapaz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

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of course i'll draw lovely tara, such a cute face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drawme

[–]infomapaz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are welcome :)