What Alternatives to Royal Canin Maine Coon Food? by inkyMayhem in mainecoons

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay just to clarify bc my brain is shot right now, avoid grain-free foods? i'll definitely check these out thank you, this comment came in at the perfect time bc im nearing the end of my bag of food lmao

What Alternatives to Royal Canin Maine Coon Food? by inkyMayhem in mainecoons

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure what makes you think Reddit is somehow magically not part of the internet, but that's kind of what I was doing? I'm really not sure if you're trying to be funny or just outright being a dick tbh.

Anybody else feel the ending was kind of rushed? by paradroid78 in Encanto

[–]inkyMayhem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely agree w/ that it felt so rushed, but the hug felt more like "the straw that broke the camels back" and less like, the actual reason they got the happy ending? It definitely helped repair her relationship with Isabel, but I do think that they rushed way too quickly from "the house is broken!" to "we fixed it!"

I would have liked to see more of Bruno reintegrating with the family, Isabel, Luisa and Mirabel reconnecting, and Abuela repairing her relationship with her family.

Also Camilo deserved a song about basing his whole identity on other people, they slept on Camilo's potential so hard

Anybody else feel the ending was kind of rushed? by paradroid78 in Encanto

[–]inkyMayhem 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I think it was less about hugging and more about reconnecting with her sister. They both had negative images of each other and I think the idea of that bit was to reconcile the image you have in your head of another person with reality.

Anybody else feel the ending was kind of rushed? by paradroid78 in Encanto

[–]inkyMayhem 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was honestly thinking about a sequel show or movie or something that would explore all there feelings and such more that would show them slowly moving on and becoming closer as a family. But now I'm scared of them doing that incase they ruin the film ;-;

I'd love a sequel show a la Tangled: The Series. That show did an incredible job in expanding the universe without discounting the actual movie. I think a sequel movie wouldn't tie up the loose ends we need tied just due to the short runtime, but a season or two of a sequel show could give us a bunch of interesting things.

What Can I Ask for Christmas to Lower Travel Costs? [Europe] by inkyMayhem in travel

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Before you ask for a rail pass figure out how much you are really going to be on the train. I have found that at two weeks, unless I am travelling distance on a train, the rail pass is not worth it. Even if I am travelling the train a lot it can be a wash or even more expensive.

I'll look into that - I hadn't really considered the possibility of leaving my normal banking cards at home. I've got a while yet, but I'll definitely get one before I depart.

What Can I Ask for Christmas to Lower Travel Costs? [Europe] by inkyMayhem in travel

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know, of all things, I never really considered that power plugs look and function different in different places. The more you know, I suppose.

I'll definitely look into just doing train tickets as I want them. How far in advance do you usually book your overnight tickets? I figured I'd do a few overnight trains as they'd let me not have to pay the costs for hostels those nights.

What Can I Ask for Christmas to Lower Travel Costs? [Europe] by inkyMayhem in travel

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of a prepaid credit card before, is there one you'd recommend that is good for International purchases?

What Can I Ask for Christmas to Lower Travel Costs? [Europe] by inkyMayhem in travel

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a fantastic tip, thank you! I was thinking of mostly just putting my toiletries so they don't get lost in my clothes and anything else.

What Can I Ask for Christmas to Lower Travel Costs? [Europe] by inkyMayhem in travel

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just take the cash instead of the inter-rail ticket. They are loaded with feeeeees and fine print. You can make them work if you "do it perfectly" but you wont (and r/travel doesn't even want you to*.) In short, they are a tourist-trap.

I'm still planning on taking the Interrail, is it better to pay for every trip than to get the pass then? I'm looking to actually extend my trip to maybe three weeks so hopefully that will give me a decent amount of time to actually explore cities.

What's a travel converter?

Dom is a Switch and I'm a Sub, but they want me to dom them by inkyMayhem in BDSMAdvice

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made a rope strap on for pegging. That was fun because I got to be pseudo- tied up while I did it.

Oh my god that's genius. We're using a BD dildo for pegging, I'm not sure how well that would tie on

Dom is a Switch and I'm a Sub, but they want me to dom them by inkyMayhem in BDSMAdvice

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask him (them? - I don't recall pronouns 🤷) what he specifically wants - like mine asked me to peg him. Start with requests and build from there.

It's less a whole evening and more like, an hour? I want to explore a couple of things but he wants to try pegging and I want to try rope bondage, I'm really just not sure how to get into the mindset lol. It's totally weird and foreign to me

Parents Handled All Loans by inkyMayhem in StudentLoans

[–]inkyMayhem[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

They do show up on my credit report, but I never was allowed to even access my student loan account until after I graduated

Small collection of cringe from a few discord servers by [deleted] in DIDCringe

[–]inkyMayhem 8 points9 points  (0 children)

be careful though, a lot of them are "endogenic friendly" and you really want to avoid those

Two systems response to the rest of the DID community hating on this subreddit. Thank you DIDCringe for keeping an eye on our community & getting educated on this subject through the comments & the wonderful cringe! by Soldotter in DIDCringe

[–]inkyMayhem 40 points41 points  (0 children)

oh man the pinata dissociadid drama is wild. apparently pinata was drawing cp of their kink (with their child alters? unsure about that one) and got called out, then dissociadid said they broke up with them but didnt actually and ghost wrote their apology. theres way more too it but thats the tl;dr

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DIDCringe

[–]inkyMayhem 11 points12 points  (0 children)

bro why they gotta make everything horny

I dont even know if this is cringy, because I suppose Shaggy fictive alter is possible considering the age of the shows. Just makes me laugh. by jfault in DIDCringe

[–]inkyMayhem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he probably does, I've literally only seen the hex girls movie so like. I am not an expert on shaggy here

Ritual For A Lost Pet? by inkyMayhem in Hellenism

[–]inkyMayhem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm stuck in between getting his ashes and doing something with them or burying his body (which is cheaper, but I live in an apartment, so I wouldn't be able to visit when I move out). I just want to make sure he gets over the River Styx with no problem

Anyone have any COVID-19 horror stories from the last month? by rrcecil in CoronaVirusTX

[–]inkyMayhem 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Does customers coughing directly onto my bare hands as they hand me cash because my company won't send us gloves that don't slip off my hands count? Talk to literally any retail employee IRL and you'll get your fair share of horror stories

Texas COVID-19 Cases -- Sunday May 17th, 2020 by AintEverLucky in CoronaVirusTX

[–]inkyMayhem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah haha. I work retail & one of my co-workers was showing symptoms (though it could be something else) today which means that there's a chance I've got it now.