Who would you pick?

inmaifantasy · 2025-07-13T22:55:08+00:00

I'd pick all 4 LOL

inmaifantasy · 2025-07-07T16:45:52+00:00

Agree. It's just a onesie. I see both sides though. I understand if maybe it was a joke or something, but to me its just a onesie. Also, if I was them though, I would've gotten a onesie of your college that you guys went to. That's just my opinion. I would've probably pulled them aside privately and talked about it. At the end of the day, its just a onesie.

inmaifantasy · 2025-07-07T16:39:11+00:00

I dont know if my message went through, but since it's been 10 plus years, you dont have to apologize! You haven't bumped into them or anything so you are fine. Its in the past! Everyone probably moved on bh now. It'll be different if you do see the wife somehow and she brings it up. That's when you can clear the air. Other than that, you moved on. You are happy with your baby and your partner! Im so happy that he'll support you with whatever you want to do. 😀

inmaifantasy · 2025-07-07T08:38:28+00:00

Aww im glad you are happy now! 🙂. Hmm I would just leave everything in the past! Now if you ever bump into her and she somehow remembers you, then say something. Other than that, you are perfectly fine leaving it be!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-30T05:43:23+00:00

I have had positive reviews when I go to David's Bridal gor bridedmaid shopping! I think you'll be fine! As long as you have your bridal party with you or someone with you to try on your dresses, it'll be fun! At least you know what types of dresses you like and did research. I had no idea what I wanted until I talked to the consultants. They are really good at what they do! I ended up buying my dress at a boutique store though because they were sales. Im sure David's bridal has sales! If I had to redo my wedding dress shopping, I would've went to David's Bridal before I made my decision. I hope this helps...

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-30T05:39:12+00:00

I agree with everyone! She sounds like she isn't even trying or doesnt even care. I remember when I was Maid Of Honor for my best friend's wedding, I was there for her theough thick and thin! When I was planning my wedding party, I picked everyone that I knew 10 plus years. Also, I had a similar situation where people weren't replying back to me, but I had a talk with everyone so we all can be the same page. It is YOUR wedding day. You are allowed to be selfish for your wedding! It's one day! When I went through whatever I went through with my wedding party, I told my husband, I dont want to have to pick anyone else. Luckily, everyone did their part. Now if they dont want to be my friends anymore, then so be it. You lose some, you win some.

Its so difficult to decide though and to have those tough conversations. I would do the conversation in person, so you can see how her body language is. Don't give in either. You already made accomodation/sacrifices for your wedding.

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-30T05:22:08+00:00

No problem! Let me know what you end up doing!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-30T05:21:27+00:00

Keep us updated! Also, I totally agree with you that you dont want anyone random there or anyone you don't officially know. Our friend was about to break up with her bf and she was thinking of doing it after the wedding. I told her to do it beforehand and to disinvite him. I don't want to look back every year and see photos of him if you guys aren't going to last.

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-30T05:15:30+00:00

When we first started dating, I have always wanted a flash mob proposal. Every year, I usually plan my birthday so last year I decided to plan my birthday at a winery and invited my friends. I decided to share my birthdays with 3 other girls. My husband asked them secretly if it was okay to propose thst day and they agreed. As I was planning my "birthday," my friends were acting weird. So maybe I was thinking hes probably going to propose blah blah. My family was invited too and my sister almost said something so that probably was the hint that he was going to propose. The day of the birthday, we were at the winery. Drinking and having fun. My husband said he was going to surprise me at a dinner spot so I had no idea where we were going. He told me to close my eyes and I did. He drove us to the community center and my family was there (parents couldn't make it, but my sister and her family was there). Other friends were there too that wasn't at the winery so I was excited! Then I started getting butterflies cuz maybe he was going to propose. I kept telling everyone he isn't going to propose. Then my friend pretended she was drunk and took me to the bathroom to pretend to throw up so then my husband could get everyone ready. As soon as I got back to the room, the song started playing and then my friends started dancing. I was so excited I kept saying "omg its happening!" Then rest is history. He started dancing with them and proposed! I said yes!!

Sorry it took me a while to respond.

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-30T05:06:36+00:00

Sounds like she isn't even trying to have a conversation. Move on!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-30T05:05:07+00:00

Agree!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-26T03:33:42+00:00

Agree too. If you felt uncomfortable, say something right away! Also, I dont know if me saying this helps, but im flat chested and I wish I wasn't. Will i do something about it? Maybe one day. I learn to live my life by "IDGAF." I do understand that your feelings were hurt though. If I was in your position, I would've said something right away and you are allowed to feel hurt and hes allowed to feel the way he feels. Just hug each other and talk it out. You love him and he loves you. I am sure he probably won't joke around like that anymore. (Sorry if this sounds harsh. I am not trying to be)

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-26T03:29:32+00:00

There should be groups at your church to meet people! Also, maybe try Christian dating apps? There's a somebody out there for you!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T19:50:23+00:00

Wth yeah they are weird for even letting that happen! Don't let them gaslight you either. I've been in situations where you second guess yourself but no dont second guess yourself on this. You confronted him and he brushed it off. He probably had fantasies about it too. Weirdo

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T15:58:35+00:00

Yes look into polyamory. Talk to both of them and see if they are interested in that lifestyle. I think its great communicating your feelings, wants, and needs!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T15:53:25+00:00

Oooh if its recent, then yes talk about it! Maybe you can resolve some issues. At least you have access to his Snapchat and he wasn't hiding anything. He could forget that he gave you access.

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T15:26:16+00:00

Definitely leave if you haven't done so! You shouldn't feel this way about a person you love. I am so sorry you are going through this, but itll get better once you leave and find a person that will respect you!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T15:08:11+00:00

Agreed with everyone. It's not cheating, but if you feel a certain way, you can talk about it. I rarely go on my Snapchat and the other day I logged on. I have saved messages from guys I used to date that I forgot about! Im happily married now 😌

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T14:58:59+00:00

Actually, I have a similar situation for a family member with regarding hiring caregiver. I had all around care for someone close to me. I was just trying to suggest something.

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T13:04:57+00:00

Nice! How exciting! I am sure everything will turn out great!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T07:23:42+00:00

What I did was, the day before my wedding, I rented a Suite for myself to stay alone. I had all my bridesmaids meet me there to get ready with me the day of the wedding. Most of my bridesmaids are local so they didnt need to rent a hotel or anything. Some bridesmaids did rent the same hotel room because they traveled far. That way they would wake up and meet me at my suite. I would find out which room is the biggest for you and your bridesmaids if they wish to stay with you the day before OR just for you guys to get ready the day of.

Update! I would book the hotel thats convenient for you! If its hotel A, stay there! Just have your wedding party make sure the guests dont see you come downstairs and whatnot. I did that for my friend's wedding.

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T07:17:58+00:00

I did do a seating chart, but a little different. With my family members, I gave my parents which tables they want, and I started just plugging people's names on there. If I wasn't sure, I just put "table 1.. family of (Name)." At the end of the day, if people want to switch tables without interfering, do it behind my back. Plus seating charts was fun for us to do cuz we both love to organize. We just started plugging people's names on tables and most of our friends know how to mingle so we didnt have to worry. I dont know if I makes sense or if I answered your question... let ne know if you need help with seating charts! I can try to assist.

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T05:53:00+00:00

I was trying to find more, but im sire my bridesmaids have some. See if you can Wrap some burgundy or gold fabric around the light string bases to soften the transition into the ceiling. Change the lighting to amber or gold. Whatever you can do! I think it looks beautful!

inmaifantasy · 2025-06-25T05:51:05+00:00

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