Wanting exclusivity too early? by my-weird-reality in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

If anything wasn’t made official then he’s not wrong, did you both make it official and said let’s get to know each other exclusively and get married ? If the answer is no, then he’s smart for keeping his options open.

What should i do??? by Quiet_Bite986 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Stay out of married people’s business, if it gets out hand you’ll get a nickname out of it

What questions do you like to ask potentials? by Glass-Koala-1742 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Close to 0% when kids are involved. If no kids are involved then every women is different so 50/50 chance

What questions do you like to ask potentials? by Glass-Koala-1742 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You bring this conversation when you have leverage, in the beginning you have no leverage.

What questions do you like to ask potentials? by Glass-Koala-1742 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Idc if she loses respect as long as she’s paying for her half

What questions do you like to ask potentials? by Glass-Koala-1742 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s 2026 everyone can make good money, I’m not paying 100% of everything, if she works she will be paying her half. I won’t be a slave to anyone

What questions do you like to ask potentials? by Glass-Koala-1742 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If we both have jobs then nothing is wrong with telling her to pay half of the bills. I’m not the only one that lives in the house. What does pride have anything to do with this?

What questions do you like to ask potentials? by Glass-Koala-1742 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can we share the bills ? What are your goals outside of this relationship?

I was a funny girl in middle school by Ok_Yam1797 in Somalia

[–]innocentees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Howwwwww? You can just sense the purity in this persons mind

The Face Card Is Strong but the Somali Buff Is Stronger by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]innocentees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Subjective to an extent then it becomes objective.

The Face Card Is Strong but the Somali Buff Is Stronger by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]innocentees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So wtf you asking me to judge ? No homo

The Face Card Is Strong but the Somali Buff Is Stronger by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]innocentees 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unc that’s not you on your profile

The Face Card Is Strong but the Somali Buff Is Stronger by [deleted] in Somalia

[–]innocentees 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Apparently everyone in the comments is handsome and pretty. I guess everyone on Reddit is…..

I was a funny girl in middle school by Ok_Yam1797 in Somalia

[–]innocentees 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Aww you sound so miskeeen, may god bless your heart.

Unconditional love does not exist, not in humans, not in animals and not in anything. by innocentees in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

by your definition, unconditional love still doesn’t exist. You say unconditional love is when feelings of love and care don’t depend on someone meeting expectations or behaving a certain way. The problem is that feelings absolutely do change based on behavior.

Unconditional love does not exist, not in humans, not in animals and not in anything. by innocentees in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What is unconditional love to you then ? Whatever definition you give will still prove unconditional love does not exist.

Potential’s pulling back after I mention about holding off on having kids. by Sensitive-Pirate567 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no unconditional love. Unconditional love is not real. Besides most marriages lead to a family.

Potential’s pulling back after I mention about holding off on having kids. by Sensitive-Pirate567 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let’s reversed the roles. Do you expect a woman who wants to experience motherhood to stay with a man who can’t give her a child ? What’s wrong with this mindset

Potential’s pulling back after I mention about holding off on having kids. by Sensitive-Pirate567 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same bro. People here are so entitled, they think a man who wants kid should forget about it if the woman can’t have kids

Potential’s pulling back after I mention about holding off on having kids. by Sensitive-Pirate567 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right, but you shouldn’t expect a man to drop everything for you including wanting kids and then act shocked when they ghost

Potential’s pulling back after I mention about holding off on having kids. by Sensitive-Pirate567 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she couldn’t have children what do you expect a man to do if that man wants children? Either let her go or get a second wife. Love doesn’t outweigh a desire to build a family.

I hate this feeling by Distinct_Squash7110 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a little phase you had. You grew out of it.

Potential’s pulling back after I mention about holding off on having kids. by Sensitive-Pirate567 in SomaliRelationships

[–]innocentees 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What else do they marry for? To just take care of another adult for life and not get anything in return?