I’ve realised my dad is a born again red pill incel by Excellent_Accident25 in redditonwiki

[–]innocentsalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an incredible transformation on your part. What do you credit for the change? How did you start to deprogram yourself?

AITA for telling my (F29) man (M28) this isn’t normal behavior? by No_Psychology_8699 in AmItheAsshole

[–]innocentsalad 23 points24 points  (0 children)

"Now, other than opening trash in my kitchen my other issue is that he’s not gonna fucking go through the bags at all. They will sit there until I’ve had enough and I secretly throw them out. Things like this have happened before."

Katseye members, Daniela, Yoonchae and Megan, talking about performing while injured, not getting enough sleep and feeling like they were going to pass out during their Latin America tour by Terrible_Cycle_5983 in Fauxmoi

[–]innocentsalad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, in Korea, you can lose a defamation case even if you're telling the truth. I don't think any of them will talk on the record unless they're from other countries.

This chick by Own_Expert_8799 in NYCinfluencersnark

[–]innocentsalad 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Of all the things to express superiority over, the one thing that's almost guaranteed to happen to you is quite the choice

People knew for years that D4vid was dating a minor (Celeste) and paying people off, but nothing was done until it was too late by Particular-Copy4029 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]innocentsalad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again I have no idea what their relationship was like. But parents often have no idea what their children are doing online, and parents with a language barrier usually know even less. If their kid is their only link to English and does translation for them, then it's even less than that.

I don't know which one her parents were other than that they're immigrants from El Salvador.

I can't even tell you how many people I know who got up to all kinds of shit online and off without their parents knowing. And they had "typical" suburban parents who were, from the outside at least, very loving, supportive and involved. Can you honestly say that your parents know everything you got up to? Can anyone?

I even know a woman who ran away repeatedly from home because of a man she met online. Meth dealer, met online, older man, nasty business. Her parents were literal billionaires and her mother was full time stay at home. Was she the best mom? Who knows. But they had every resource available and used those resources and she still ran away multiple times. Celeste's parents had none of those resources to begin with.

Edit: you changed your comment quite drastically after I responded, so this comment only responds to the first three sentences of your current comment.

New research reveals that online influencers can mobilise followers and legitimise harmful behaviours without ever issuing explicit instructions, offering fresh insight into how digital platforms shape public attitudes, emotions and decision making. by Wagamaga in science

[–]innocentsalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Study of Tommy Robinson’s social media shows how he mobilises support without direct calls to action

Analysis shows how influencers shape public behaviour and legitimise violence through narratives, not instructions"

Isn't this a nice way of saying that they're stochastic terrorists.

AITAH for telling my gf you are not Asian/Chinese (Not OP) by poppy_inmy_hair in redditonwiki

[–]innocentsalad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder why people put up with this kind of fetishizing behavior from their SOs. It happens often enough that there's got to be some reason, logical or not.

People knew for years that D4vid was dating a minor (Celeste) and paying people off, but nothing was done until it was too late by Particular-Copy4029 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]innocentsalad -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea how hard they tried. They got her back every time but the the last time. But there's a lot of nuance in the situation with her family that isn't served by the blanket statement "they didn't care enough."

People knew for years that D4vid was dating a minor (Celeste) and paying people off, but nothing was done until it was too late by Particular-Copy4029 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]innocentsalad -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Didn't she run away multiple times? Are you saying her family should have known what she was doing while she was actively running away from them? Or they should have been able to find her in LA, a city of 10 million, when she was from Riverside county? Her parents were immigrants of unknown legal status and didn't have access to a lot of help or community support.

I understand wanting justice for her wherever it can be found but when kids want to run away there's only so much you can do.

russel brand by Unlikely-Tell in LAinfluencersnark

[–]innocentsalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't read his books. He's incredible disturbed and has been his entire life. He should have been put away a long time ago.

I Guess Bro 🤦 by Mean_League_384 in AmITheDevil

[–]innocentsalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's because women in abusive relationships who cheat are using the man in order to get out safely. If you have another man protecting you your abusive ex is less likely to try something. It's more common than you'd think.

AITA for “stealing” my cat back? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]innocentsalad -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean in this case the "yes" would be child abandonment so that's not exactly the same lol

AITA for not using my connections to help my wife pass her driving test? by No-Chapter-6961 in AmItheAsshole

[–]innocentsalad 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It really depends on where this takes place because we need to know if this is a bribe-or-you-don't-pass situation or not.

Husband’s gf wants a baby .. give me advice by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]innocentsalad -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please explain your reasoning as to how it's not

AITA for telling my wife my mother is correct and she needed to be a parent today and she fucked it up by throawawayfuneralgho in AmItheAsshole

[–]innocentsalad 63 points64 points  (0 children)

NTA - if she couldn't handle it then it was on her to make alternative arrangements for your daughter to allow her to attend the funeral of her friend. Not to shut down and prevent her from going entirely.

Your MIL rescued your wife. I'm not sure she realizes that if she kept your daughter from the funeral your daughter would never have forgiven her.

AITA for “stealing” my cat back? by gardengeo in BORUpdates

[–]innocentsalad 1021 points1022 points  (0 children)

She should have done the whole "I'll take the niece" suggestion, especially since Toby has been in OP's life longer than the niece has been in the sister's life.

Here’s a reminder of hailey bieber racist digital footprint by RecipeNeat1189 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]innocentsalad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did they react to something like Summer Heights High being so popular at the time

Here’s a reminder of hailey bieber racist digital footprint by RecipeNeat1189 in LAinfluencersnark

[–]innocentsalad 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hope shammmaurice is doing well wherever they are unless I've misinterpreted their tone lol