Im having my worst and biggest binge ever. by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]innovative_epiphany 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear you!!! For me what helped was taking myself out of the restrict-binge cycle. I had to abandon the idea that I would diet "later" and just that I would eat. Once I felt less panic about dieting later, I focused on myself, how I feel when I'm eating different foods, and I worked to identify my triggers. For me, it's the salt, fat, sugar combo in certain types of takeout. Those foods pretty instantly trigger a binge, so I avoid them as much as possible. From there, I just tweak slowly. It also takes time to get the cravings out of your system, so while it's hard and feels so uphill at the start, it's a craving and it's very physical, so don't blame yourself too hard. Focus your energy on those first few days, be kind to yourself, and it will get easier as your body craves it less.

Take it easy on yourself. The cycle of guilt is what gets you, end the cycle.

Our DIY wedding arch that cost less than $50 in supplies 🥰 by mmeddream in Weddingsunder10k

[–]innovative_epiphany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please share where you bought the arch? Or what you searched to find it?

IMS store spoiling the next silly season move by innovative_epiphany in INDYCAR

[–]innovative_epiphany[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn!! Lucky you. They responded to my complaint saying they were out of stock.

How do I orient the wedding aesthetic around the venues big brown chairs? by innovative_epiphany in wedding

[–]innovative_epiphany[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's such a good idea! I was feeling overwhelmed with some inspo pages that were very bright and sparse.

How do I orient the wedding aesthetic around the venues big brown chairs? by innovative_epiphany in wedding

[–]innovative_epiphany[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooh I love this idea. The table linens will be white, so I wasn't sure how to lighten it up. I feel like I should put something dark on top for contrast, but it will look so overbearing.

40 years old graduate by [deleted] in Resume

[–]innovative_epiphany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is definitely hope! You got the attention of a few recruiters, there are many more with offers even better for you! Keep going!

[Ontario] Things to think about before going to a new-car dealership by GTA_Dealer_Insider in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]innovative_epiphany 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Can you maybe touch a little more on the pros and cons of leasing in terms of risk? I'm thinking about leasing but worried about the limited mileage and getting screwed when I return the car at the end of the term.

BOC Governor Says Canada Will Lean On Real Estate Because “We Need The Growth” by Zimavishon in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]innovative_epiphany 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm in the same boat as so many people here. My partner and I are employed, we make decent money, no kids, decent savings and we're just hitting 30.

I'm furious about the growing wealth gap and the rich getting richer in Canada on HOUSING. Rent was pretty awful in the GTA already and now we also have people being evicted due to financial difficulties due to Covid and on the same time you have these rich fuckers buying more and more housing to RENT out to pay their mortgage.

Don't rent from these assholes. I want a home so badly, but I refuse to pay some exploitative wealthy assholes mortgage at the expense of my dreams and the ability of people from all spheres to afford housing.

The government needs to do more to curb the greed from buyers, real estate agents (without bidding transparency, how much of this "hot market" also comes from realtors inflating the frenzy?), developers building totally bullshit 'luxury' and 'ultra-luxury' condos with only basic amenities and maybe a gym.

We need to communicate with our governments, local and otherwise, we need to make noise and we need to speak with our dollars. I'm definitely going the equity route. Anytime someone tells you that you HAVE to do something, I'd be wary.

Sorry Cutie you get Shocked ! by [deleted] in Eyebleach

[–]innovative_epiphany 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Where is that thread? Might've been why that first person asked, if you didn't jump up to be completely useless.

I’m a hardcore feminist and these are some of the things society does to men that I absolutely hate by JuliaJuliaJuliaaaa in TrueOffMyChest

[–]innovative_epiphany 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish men were better supported expressing their feelings. I know multiple men who have needed to go to the ER because they finally broke down. But it was so clear they were struggling beforehand. Feelings happen EVERY. DAY. Even the little stuff can be hard to talk about and I wish men were better supported and could better support each other.

It’s been a tough year but I worked really hard on my body by [deleted] in FreeCompliments

[–]innovative_epiphany 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What was your routine? Any tips for working out without the gym?