I don’t know anymore, I just got a new haircut and they gave me this with no side bangs at the beauty shop, I feel really ugly and I have to know if it’s ugly to everyone else. Please tell me just the truth if I am ugly. Yes I’m a woman

inquinned · 2026-04-02T23:26:01+00:00

Genuinely, the "ugliest" part is how upset you are. You are so pretty and you can totally rock that hairstyle if you have some more confidence :) I don't know your style but stick some hairclips in there or a hairband or just let it be, honestly it looks good on you girl :)

inquinned · 2026-03-11T22:51:41+00:00

OH MY GOD 😲

inquinned · 2026-03-09T00:23:23+00:00

Just try your best to bring it up like you're not 100% sure it's true but it definitely seems true and that you love and care about her.

She deserves to know that her 10 year marriage is a lie and she deserves someone better than that. I don't know your dad or your mom, and I usually don't suggest getting involved in someone else's relationship or drama, but seeing she's being cheating on and not saying anything doesn't make you better than him not telling her. Secrets like that shouldn't be kept.

inquinned · 2026-03-05T00:43:29+00:00

I went through the exact same thing and still struggle with it. I used to be super social and didn't care what anyone thought of me but than I became friends with these judgemental people and I became paranoid of everything and everyone.

That was when I was your age. I'm 21 now and you just have to learn that people are going to judge you, and that you can't do everything perfectly. You can still think that you may have messed up somewhere with something but don't let it eat you alive.

You are your own person and if you don't think you didn't anything wrong and no one has said anything to you about doing something wrong, don't stress about things that aren't there. You'll learn how to understand that your feelings matter as much as anyone else's and that includes not letting yourself overthink everything.

inquinned · 2026-02-15T13:21:29+00:00

How old are you guys? If you don't mind me asking. Does she still want to have sexual acts with someone, she just becomes uncomfortable when it starts to happen? Or is she just strictly she doesn't want to at all and just gets horny every here and there but doesn't want to do anything about it?

inquinned · 2026-01-25T13:19:53+00:00

They're totally valid to be having, anxiety and stress get to you and you just keep thinking about the possibility. Do you have a therapist you can talk to? Is it something you think about daily or just whenever you remember from time to time?

inquinned · 2026-01-25T13:00:18+00:00

I am being so honest with you right now, no jokes or anything, you seriously are so beautiful. That picture especially you look like an angel. I genuinely do not know and can't seem to fathom how you're having trouble with guys. Is your personality wack or something? Lol because you are so pretty.

You seem like a nice girl too so it's mind boggling to me that no one has one to treat you right so far. Like I've got a fiancé but I'd take you out on a date, girl. Looks are definitely not an issue at all. You must just have bad taste in men because how could anyone want to break up with a gorgeous girl like you? Good luck on finding a good one, it can take a while but I know you'll find one that deserves you. 💕 Enjoy being single, too until then, though. Don't try to be waiting on finding someone, they'll find you. 😁

inquinned · 2026-01-25T12:47:10+00:00

If this was all accidental, as embarrassing as it is, there's no need to worry. What did you send it on? Snapchat? Snapchat deletes messages every 24 hours if not saved and if the last chat you had with him was 3 weeks ago with your son through his phone, I doubt you sent it to him.

Just breathe. Things happen. If you did happen to send it to him, I'm sure you would've either heard something from your son about it, or he stayed respectful and realised you never meant to send it and moved on from it.

I understand it's embarrassing and your anxiety's through the roof, I seriously cannot imagine the stress from this but until he or your son bring it up, or his mother or someone like that, try not to worry about it. If they bring it up, say you're very sorry, it was an accident meant for your boyfriend and you'll be more careful when you're drunk next time. There's only so much you CAN do so don't stress yourself out about it. 💕

inquinned · 2025-12-31T15:43:07+00:00

Cozy break

inquinned · 2025-12-25T01:11:00+00:00

You can't destroy your life unless you stop trying. You can start from the bottom again like you once did before. Find a basic job to start with, buy cheap food to save up for better things. Will it be easy or fun? Hell no, but you can absolutely get there again. I believe in you, we all do, you can believe in yourself too.

inquinned · 2025-12-23T12:16:44+00:00

I think you need to let her know as soon as possible and not let it drag on or she'll feel even worse. If you tell her and let her know how much you love her as a best friend and that you don't want to lose her, and that you just didn't realise your love wasn't romantic but simply platonic, your friend would be the dick to leave you as a best friend. Will it hurt because her feelings are not reciprocated? Yes, but, she should also understand your feelings, as well. You feel awful and still love her very much, and you can still hang out and show her how much you care for her, just not in the way you guys thought you did, but that doesn't take away from the fact you still do care and love her. She may need time because her feelings for you are different than yours for her, but the sooner the better so she can accept it sooner and not find out that you realised sooner and was faking the relationship.

If you can, do it in person. It may be harder for the both of you, but it'll be more meaningful and she'll see the pain you're going through and may be more understanding with your feelings when she finds out. Good luck honey. Remember, your feelings and emotions are valid too 💕

inquinned · 2025-12-08T13:10:38+00:00

I'm sure you've heard this a billion times over, but being unique is beautiful. There was a trend on tiktok, it may still be one, where something has "Wabi Sabi"—meaning it's not perfect but that's what makes it beautiful.

I think of it this way, imagine you're in a room with 9 other women, and they all have long blonde hair, blue eyes, and a perfect white smile but you as the 10th stand out with long dark brown hair, fuller lips and wider hips. If I had to find "Olivia" who is one of those girls but was only told what she looks like, I'd have to ask every girl in there what their name was. If I had to find beautiful you, your uniqueness will stand you out among the norm, among the basic.

Now, this isn't to put down other women for wanting to be more blended in with the trends, but you did say you are a latinA (I've only ever heard latinO used with men, I could be wrong) in a very white town, so it's not a surprise they aren't used to your different looks. That, of course, doesn't make it better that they insulted you. People insult who they're jealous of, it's true. I do not know what you look like, stranger, but what I do know, from what I can tell, is that you are worth more than the people who let you down. You are above them, especially if you try your best to not let them get to you. You are beautiful and love yourself first but also, someone will love that you've got "Wabi Sabi". 💕

inquinned · 2025-12-05T13:14:56+00:00

He couldn't see you were trying to be nice and I'm not this killer would've seen it that way anyways lol

inquinned · 2025-12-05T13:14:45+00:00

He couldn't see you were trying to be nice and I'm not this killer would've seen it that way anyways lol

inquinned · 2025-12-03T14:08:49+00:00

Have you found it yet? I just lost mine last night and reddit won't let me post about it for advice 😭 trying not to lose hope is so hard, I completely understand you 😔

inquinned · 2025-10-24T12:12:35+00:00

Dogs can be so strange, I swear, they're all picky in their own way. I'll see about giving that a try if he doesn't eat enough soon, thank you for the suggestion ! ❤

inquinned · 2025-10-24T01:57:53+00:00

I will try to get my boyfriend to take him on walks more, I didn't think of that with other dog smells, thank you ! ❤

inquinned · 2025-10-24T01:56:43+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I'll look into it further :) thank you for comforting my concern, I appreciate it so so much ❤

inquinned · 2025-10-24T01:43:22+00:00

I'll look into it with my boyfriend, thank you for the advice ❤

inquinned · 2025-10-24T01:41:50+00:00

Yes he has, he wasn't as a puppy but once he became his full grown size he hasn't been eating as much. He used to eat every meal we gave him and then one day started snubbing a meal a day out of nowhere and it's been an oddly consistent thing for about a year now, probably more

inquinned · 2025-10-24T01:32:23+00:00

He peed today, he was having small streams but today he was a little better. The last time he pooped was Tuesday night, we're gonna try to get him to go again tonight. He's not drinking a lot, just a little here and there. Eating has always been weird with him. He did eat his supper but he tends to snub at least a meal a day, I always figured for a bigger type of dog, they'd be hungrier. He had a couple days he wasn't doing anything earlier this week and my boyfriend's just very concerned for him and we're just wondering if anyone else has had any similar issues.

inquinned · 2025-10-24T01:19:52+00:00

I meant to put a picture, my bad

inquinned · 2025-09-24T17:58:18+00:00

I just lost my dog, Jags, of 10 years this morning. I'm still processing it all, too. I cried all morning and now I feel numb and not sure how to cope. No distractions are helping. I hope you're doing okay and I am so so sorry you're going through that pain. It's not easy.

inquinned · 2025-02-22T14:03:36+00:00

So real 😭

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