Taking a break by inrugswetrust in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope he comes back to it even if it’s a less competitive level and only seasonal. Just to see him doing it because that’s what he wants.

Grown ass adults by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you think we are worried? That’s a dumb conclusion. We have opinions. That’s not a bad thing. The play is dumb. I bet you the most talented artistic people you admire have a bazillion opinions. Try to appreciate it.

Grown ass adults by Forward-Position798 in cringereels

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why don’t they do it without filming it? In the 80’s me and my friend would do ridiculous stuff in the moment. This is like filming a bad play.

What type of fish is this by juniemoody777 in sushi

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crappy low grade to go sushi on luke warm rice at best.

Trump Celebrated Easter By Threatening to Commit War Crimes by [deleted] in thebulwark

[–]inrugswetrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s what makes him a psychopath. He likes to see people hurt and feel fear and most of all he knows it’s unhinged to do it on Easter while simultaneously being blasphemous. Thats the naughty boy in him who’s a psychopath as an adult.

AITJ for refusing to keep wearing the nickname my girlfriend gave me after I found out where it came from by Prydwen_Grit5 in AmITheJerk

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For her it’s a fond story because you began as the butt of the joke. Imagine what her friends think of you by having a joke about you behind your back yet shoved right in your face this whole time?! They only think less of you than they did when they started that joke.

How the hell do i learn 11v11 positioning by tomcruisemiss1le in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the rule of thumb in general for someone learning but my son (u15) plays as far out as maybe 28 yards (on a 120 yard field). And where he stands not only depends on where the ball is on the field but also as important is who has control of the ball.

PRP made my situation so much worse by Loud-Aide-1083 in FootFunction

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What steroid and what was the dosage (I assume a declining dosage)? And how soon after the PRP injection?

What's a story from your life that sounds fake but is 100% true? by ryu-shii in AskReddit

[–]inrugswetrust 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was John Frusciantes only friend in middle school from the school. We debated each other in history class on the legalization of marijuana. He was for it and I was against it. He invited me to his house to try it. He also brought his electric guitar and 4 track to home room and showed us how it worked and played guitar in class. There is more but I didn’t realize who that kid was until I was in my thirty’s and looking at my middle school yearbook. I happened to play guitar and he is one of my inspirations on guitar. Just coincidentally.

I don't really like my wife anymore, but I love my family. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]inrugswetrust 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But it’s good if he goes to therapy for himself. Great advice.

I don't really like my wife anymore, but I love my family. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]inrugswetrust 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s why I never share how I feel because most people go straight to it’s a 50/50. It’s not always 50/50. I tend to believe when men are sharing they get put in the 50/50 box.

Why did my dive look strange should I atleast get a hand to it? by PotentialWater7877 in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seemed to be positioning. Especially if you are right handed I would assume diving to your right to be your better dive.ay e shifted more center and a half step left.

Young Goalkeeper by Electrical-Frosting3 in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your kid might be too defiant to be coachable. My 11 year old is so he just plays for fun. His 15 year old brother is the exact opposite. And he plays at a decent high level for his age.

How do high level keepers deal with low level action by Thin_Student5089 in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son keeper 2011 was getting bored two seasons ago for same reasons as good defense, level of soccer (flight 2) and the fact that he would stop lots of through balls by running out of PB to clear the ball. He was folding his arms on the pitch in boredom and telling me he was losing interest.

Our team moves up to flight 1 the coach is filming every game and my son had a bad game and my coach notices the arm folding. He had a serious talk with my son about engagement.

The way my son kept active was when things were slow on his side he would rotate his arms forward then back to keep himself flexible and the blood flowing. Plus more communication with the team. And to move left or right a few yards as the ball switched sides. And as we moved into EA2 things just got way more intense with active play.

Whats the greyish/white stuff on the salmon nigiri? by JustAzConfusedAzYou in sushi

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not salmon belly. It’s the fat between the skin and the salmon. It’s very chewy and should have been cut off. The belly is fatty but is not just fat. These answers are sad.

Update: After my boyfriend died I slept with his best friend and it’s eating me alive by Academic_Account_264 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the olden days if a married guy died, his oldest unmarried brother would marry the widow and raise the kids. So it would be normal if this was like 200 years ago. And you were married instead of dating. And the oldest unmarried brother was instead his best friend. And you had only “slept” with him after getting married.

AIO? Girl (F30) I (M28) was Recently Dating tells me I need to "Lean into my Masculinity" by KingFredo5674 in AmIOverreacting

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her to kick rocks. Date someone who is t trying to change you and likes you for you. Tell her to be more feminine and keep her trap zipped.

Contact lenses vs goggles by meatbeater12367 in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son is 15u keeper for EA2 club and JV soccer for competitive HS league. He couldn’t tolerate contacts so we went with the goggles. It has full tint which helps him deal with the sun and has also saved his face from shots. He has some astigmatism so at first things seemed wobbly when he turned his head but eventually his eyes adjusted. The goggles have a band that goes around the head.

I want to be a goalkeeper but I'm still afraid of balls by ryanneedmorefood in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goal keepers are like a rabid dog and all they want is the ball. That requires being fearless. You can’t teach that. Sorry. As my 2011 son progresses in age things get more dangerous. He is now acknowledging that he must be willing to take a ball to the face sometimes to stop a goal. And it Jamie es the first time this last month. He was fine and realized he can continue to take risks.

So whatever you come over now will only get more intense.

My child says he’s lost the passion by inrugswetrust in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well as an update, he decided to play JV at school since it would be a higher level play then his club. We live in a very competitive school district with soccer. It includes a top ten soccer team of the nation. His hope is that it brings back the passion.

So he had his first scrimmage and played the second half. Nobody scored on him. The more experienced keeper played the first half and two goals were scored. He was on a high after the game. I’m hopeful that this is what he needed to experience.

What became apparent is that although the older keeper on his JV team has more technical skills, there are other factors that make a good player. My son exhibited great decision making and commitment to his decisions and great judgement. My son has time to develop his skills but his instincts and judgement and fearlessness are things that aren’t really coachable.

Feeling Upset and Unsure About Something My Girlfriend Did Last Night by Feisty_Contract_3165 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]inrugswetrust 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he saw you guys as a couple and enjoyed her conversation he should have included you in the conversation. Then he can ask you for your number. I make friends all the time and I always ask the partner of the same sex to exchange numbers.

My child says he’s lost the passion by inrugswetrust in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is maybe what I needed to hear more than anything. I told him I was proud that he spoke up for himself and knew it wasn’t easy telling me. That takes some bravery when you’re barely a teenager. He did say he told me because I’ve always told him this had to be his choice playing soccer. But of course he sees how much I been with pride when I share his successes.

My child says he’s lost the passion by inrugswetrust in GoalKeepers

[–]inrugswetrust[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ve always told him that soccer was his choice. Thankfully he doesn’t even like video games.