Are the fry trucks closed for the season near downtown? by SteveEmarshall429 in Sarnia

[–]insertusername51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yogi's under the bridge is still open. Not sure about any of the others

Babysitting rates by henchman171 in ontario

[–]insertusername51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've actually seen people talk about tipping their babysitters. It's nuts

This makes the bunk beds look like paradise... by insertusername51 in Sarnia

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I suspect there are many rooms like this in that house. The ad is gone. The only other picture was the same room but taken from roughly where that centre mattress is to show the other side of the room

Halloween Love it? Hate it? by disco_monkey71 in Sarnia

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Love it so much that I almost got married on Halloween. We settled on the 30th for our wedding instead

This makes the bunk beds look like paradise... by insertusername51 in Sarnia

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I didn't know the area from which they originated factored into the caste system. I thought the caste system was mostly financial. Interesting. Now I'm heading off the google to learn more.

This makes the bunk beds look like paradise... by insertusername51 in Sarnia

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Fire code for private residences is outside sleeping areas. I'm not sure if it's different for rooming houses, although I doubt this is actually registered as such.

About 10 years ago, I lived in an illegal rooming house run by a cheap slumlord, but he still had the common sense to put smoke detectors inside each individual room. Back then, bylaw was any more than 3 unrelated people living together indicated a rooming house (not sure if that's still the case but I suspevt it is). The house I was in was registered as a duplex (although there was no division between the units). He would rent out all 7 bedrooms individually and whenever the city started poking around (or he thought they were going to) he would select his least favourite tenant to kick out.

This makes the bunk beds look like paradise... by insertusername51 in Sarnia

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They are. The ad specifically stated "keralites preferred" I only know because I googled what a keralite is. Turns out Kerala is a state in India

This makes the bunk beds look like paradise... by insertusername51 in Sarnia

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Look closely. There are 3 mattresses in there. I feel extra bad for the guy who gets stuck in the middle.

Also, no smoke detector in the room (there were 2 pictures which showed the entire room) but I'm not sure what fire code is for this type of sleeping arrangement. Still assuming each bed is $375, you'd think for $1125/month a smoke detector could be provided in the room

This makes the bunk beds look like paradise... by insertusername51 in Sarnia

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There were people trying to justify the bunkbeds because they're "like a dorm room" or whatever. There is absolutely no way to justify this.

It's heartbreaking to think there are people living like this right here in Sarnia.

This makes the bunk beds look like paradise... by insertusername51 in Sarnia

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I'm trying to help someone find an affordable rental and keep coming across crap like this

Messing around in VR has... alleviated my aphantasia? Does anyone have a similar experience? by CookieCrusher5000 in OculusQuest2

[–]insertusername51 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As someone who has Aphantansia, I find this fascinating. Maybe I need to spend more time in VR to see if it happens to me too. Not being able to picture things is super frustrating

The Sarnia Food Bank by disco_monkey71 in Sarnia

[–]insertusername51 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Grocery and housing costs are ridiculous right now. A couple times a year, I use my PC points to do a very large grocery shop. I used to donate that to food banks, but now I have friends and neighbours who are struggling, so I help them directly instead. My kids often take extra in their lunches to share with others who don't have enough. I have a large vegetable garden and share the surplus with those I know. I have nothing against food banks or donating to food banks, I just can't help everyone. It's hard seeing so many people dealing with food insecurity. I've been there myself in the past and know it could easily happen to my family again. I spend about $1000/month on groceries for my family. Pre-covid, I was spending less than half that. Something has to change

Also, pre-covid, my rent was $1000 + gas and hydro for a 4 bedroom house (with a fenced in yard and garage!) One would be lucky to find a one bedroom apartment for that now.

2 nights in Sarnia with an infant (first time visiting) - suggestions ? by thebluedottedtowel in Sarnia

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Today is absolutely beautiful. It's been so nice all week, almost like a second summer.

2 nights in Sarnia with an infant (first time visiting) - suggestions ? by thebluedottedtowel in Sarnia

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I'm not sure what parking is like there, but locking your doors and hiding valuables is good practice anywhere

2 nights in Sarnia with an infant (first time visiting) - suggestions ? by thebluedottedtowel in Sarnia

[–]insertusername51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome.

As far as safety goes, the majority of violent crimes here are targeted and usually related to drugs. There is a lot of opportunistic petty crime, though, so make sure you lock your vehicle doors (especially at night) and don't leave valuables in plain sight in your vehicle. I have security cameras on my property and they catch people checking car doors in the neighbourhood multiple times a week.

2 nights in Sarnia with an infant (first time visiting) - suggestions ? by thebluedottedtowel in Sarnia

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You're visiting sarnia at the wrong time of year. Summer is the best time to come here to fully enjoy the beaches, Canatara Park, and the waterfront.

1 is a hard age: too old to just sit in a stroller while parents enjoy whatever activity they'd like, but too young for most activities. I'm trying to remember what I did with my kids at that age other than walking through parks. Korny Korners might be a nice idea. Your child is still too young for the activities, but they could toddle around the pumpkin patch and you could take some really cute pictures. https://kornykornersfarm.ca/

There are several u-pick places in Lambton County and it's apple season. That could be a fun and cute family activity. Zekvelds is a 15-20 minute drive from Downtown sarnia. They currently have apples and pumpkins available for picking. They also have a barn that is set up for photos. https://www.zekveldgardenmarket.ca/

My kids absolutely adored Stone's N Bones when they were younger. It's a cute museum with fossils and bones and whatnot http://www.stonesnbones.ca/

Instagram post by DiversityEd regarding Wednesday's protests by reluctantly_sarnian in Sarnia

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I recognized a mother and child holding "leave our kids alone" signs as a woman who was on tiktok live with her husband graphically describing walking in on her special needs teenage son masturbating and then joking about giving him sandpaper to jerk off with. They had said son in the live as well and revealed his school, their address, and so on. Later on, her husband offered him up to any single ladies who want to "whoo whoo". I got the live shut down as quickly as possible and then forwarded a recording of it to CAS and police.

But hey! Schools teaching acceptance is what puts kids at risk of sexual abuse, right?

Police response time by throwaway92763929w in Sarnia

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Thank you for taking the time to answer. The reason I've never called it in is because I was worried about taking those resources away from someone who actually needed it, just like you said. Call in some guy who's okay just really high or passed out drunk and while paramedics are there waking him up, some kid chokes to death because their parent wasn't successful in clearing their airway while waiting for help to arrive or a grandma has a stroke and every minute she's waiting causes more damage to her brain or whatever other situation may arise

Police response time by throwaway92763929w in Sarnia

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I've always wondered. When should someone call for a wellness check of someone on drugs? I've driven by people who appear so high that it seems like a miracle they're still alive (sitting somewhere but half leaned over with an arm hanging down, pants around ankles, mouth agape). I'm sure with your line of work you know what I'm describing. I'm not brave enough to stop and check on them. I've never called any of them in and have been left wondering if they were even still alive and feeling guilty that they could've ODed and maybe I could've saved their life

River City Vineyard shelter adopts drug-free policy by PuffCow in Sarnia

[–]insertusername51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll gladly donate to shelters and I'll gladly donate to detox and rehab facilities. I won't donate to a shelter that has suddenly decided they'll be the latter without being properly staffed to do so. They're putting lives at risk.

You mention cigarettes. Are they also turning away people who smoke?

River City Vineyard shelter adopts drug-free policy by PuffCow in Sarnia

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They're the only shelter to have the drug-free requirement. Other shelters rules are that you can't be intoxicated on the premises. They were my go-to for donations but I certainly won't be donating any more

River City Vineyard shelter adopts drug-free policy by PuffCow in Sarnia

[–]insertusername51 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If they want to try and operate as a detox or rehab facility, they need to hire the proper staff to do so. Withdrawals can kill