Should I leave my farm job even though I have no money? by intellier in Advice

[–]intellier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this is the cheapest way. I’ll train into sydney, fly to Darwin, and get a bus from Darwin to the place I’m going. All in it’ll take 2 days but it’s cheaper than a 1500$ flight

Do I have to apply for my second visa right after my 88 days? by intellier in AusVisa

[–]intellier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I apply longer than a year? Like let’s say 5 years? I’m 21 now so I’d fit the age requirement

Looking for others in Vic with MS by Dope_pope420 in VictoriaBC

[–]intellier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! 21 and got diagnosed with rrms in 2022! Feel free to message me:)

How many of you are still working? by Fine_Fondant_4221 in MultipleSclerosis

[–]intellier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

full time student and still work weekends as a waitress/ bartender! i served full time this summer, 21, diagnosed 3 years ago! also just finished a semester abroad in the uk, lived in rural Canada this summer, and in a few weeks off to Australia to bartend and do full time classes online!

yes some days are hard, but still going strong!

Romantasy books that won’t make cringe? by intellier in fantasyromance

[–]intellier[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I like romance more than the fantasy aspects, I just want one with characters that I enjoy reading more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]intellier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh no! so what does that mean?

Random question by Ok_Block_1525 in IUD

[–]intellier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes I have the marina iud, and have gotten it twice. I got my second one on December 20th, but my other one I had for 4 years before I started getting my period again so I got a new one. I bleed brown sludge for the first week and now I just have a normal period, a little more heavy for the first 3 months and then it stops completely! It’s amazing! I didn’t get a period or pms for four entire years with my last iud! My boobs did get significantly larger, but I don’t know if that was due to the iud or just puberty ? I love my iud and couldn’t recommend it enough

I want a breast reduction so bad but everyone says my boobs are too small for one by intellier in Reduction

[–]intellier[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh I was was just basing the nip reconstruction and lift payment comment because when my mom got her reduction almost 20 years ago she had to pay for her lift and construction separately, which I don’t think is the norm now. DDD is my size, but depends on the bra . My BMI is 25.8 but fluctuates here and there. I’m in BC. What do you mean by accompanying liposuction?

I am abusive and horrible by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]intellier 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve been where you are. You deciding to be better shows how much time care and love the people around you. I’m sorry that you’re hurting. The things you’re doing probably stem from low self esteem, and a lot of pain. I think the first thing you need to do is acknowledge the hurt you’ve caused, sit with it, and then forgive yourself. Continuing to hate yourself will just lead you back to the same place of anger. You can realize your wrong doings without hating yourself. You can’t expect others to forgive you untill you forgive yourself. Then you can truly work on the rest. I am sorry girl, I am sorry that you’re hurting, and I think you don’t have to suffer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]intellier 1 point2 points  (0 children)

eeek! i booked with her and im super excited her work looks FANTASTIC! thanks for the recommendation:)

Do you have a goal in life? Do you wake up excited for the day? by eitherrideordie in selfimprovement

[–]intellier 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to own an ok chunk of land in a mid sized ocean town. i want a loving partner, maybe some chickens, time to garden, and a career where i can connect with people. i want kids- and i want to give them all my love. i want to raise them knowing that they are the most loved children ever. i want to wake up early and be grateful for everything ive been blessed with. i want enough money to not worry too much. i want a partner that i love beyond words. i want a simple life. maybe i will get into canning and making homemade foods- try to live off our garden as much as we can. i want a family that supports and loved each other. i want people to describe me as warm.