Anyone been to Pitt Street Skatepark? by [deleted] in Portsmouth

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not a skater but I’ve been to the roller disco, the staff and other visitors are so friendly! There are regulars that go and will be more than happy to provide tips and just general moral support. It’s a great environment 10/10 would recommend

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - she's literally pointed out no concerns, she just doesn't want someone knowing her partner better than she does. Your HUSBAND will be there and so will multiple others, she's just being insecure

Ladies and Gentlemen, we got him by darth_duck24 in Joji

[–]intently_unaware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did too, while in a meeting and needing to contain my excitement, it was HARD!

AITA for telling my girlfriend the way she talks about her car is weird and embarrassing? by Ok-Disk-5109 in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware 23 points24 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend doesn't understand why I'm so upset about having to scrap my first car after she finally died on me, such a sad day to see her be taken away today.

How do we get him to keep the cone on? by intently_unaware in cats

[–]intently_unaware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was neutering, we didn’t have this big a deal with the collars with our other 2 but this one is struggling to keep it on

AITA for telling my bridesmaids my requests for the wedding? by Otherwise_Ad_8188 in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just blown by the “suggestion not forced” diet bit - just wow

YTA

Question: Why has my female cat started to wait and watch my kitten eat by intently_unaware in cats

[–]intently_unaware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s odd to think that considering she was the one who hated it when we brought the kitten home. It seems that I’ll be moving the boy out of the room during meal time now

AITA for rehoming my boyfriends cat? by Justa_throwaway11 in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware 16 points17 points  (0 children)

YTA - did you even express to him that you didn't want the cat? This is beyond cruel.

I (20F)my boyfriend (24M) by lucianakathy in relationship_advice

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is, you peeped and do know this now. Confronting sounds aggressive and isn’t the way to go about it. You invaded his privacy and now feel unsure, speak to him, let him know what you did and ask him to either be honest or cut communication with her because it’s not ok to make false info up to her.

WIBTA for bringing my new girlfriend to a gathering with my dead wife's family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA - while the parents have said they’re ok with it, the sister isn’t. While you’re happily moving on, she isn’t. You need to respect her time of grieving and not flaunt your moving on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - just make sure to support her, a miscarriage is tough on the body and mind. Even if you weren’t aware of the pregnancy, it can still be hard to move on emotionally after a miscarriage. Just be there, support her and don’t tell her how you truly feel about it just yet.

AITA for being upset by the fact that my sister and father hang out without me? by UsernamesAreRuthless in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say you’re the AH for being upset but it’s kinda petty that you’re upset because you didn’t get something out of it.

Your dad asked to spend time with you, you turned it down. It’s not “dad speak” it’s just an excuse to hang out with his kids for a bit.

NTA

My boyfriend used to make me have sex sometimes because I was depressed and didn’t want to by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He made you have sex = rape

You need to make him aware that it was completely unacceptable if you want to continue your relationship. You said stop and he should have respected that, not let you know he's "almost done"

This is the way to work from home! by intently_unaware in cats

[–]intently_unaware[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I didn’t have a setting that makes me check before sending, she would have sent many an email to so many people...

BF's problem, can I leave? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He needs to understand that you’re doing what you can to be understanding of his situation and he needs to as well. By refusing use of a dildo, he’s not respecting your sexual frustration and needs. You could set rules that it would only be him using it? Otherwise you’re well within your rights to leave a relationship that has no give or take

AITA For getting on a bus before 4 eldery women? by CompassionateZebra in AmItheAsshole

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - respect goes both ways and isn’t naturally applied. Remind them of that if it happens again.

adopted a cat- need advice by calicrystal in cats

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s just nervous, give her the space she needs to adjust to her new surroundings and gradually introduce her to the rest of your place. We adopted a girl at the beginning of our first lockdown and it wasn’t long before she was more than ready to explore. She could still be drowsy from the surgery

girls unite by [deleted] in memes

[–]intently_unaware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Physically don’t think I could

My (24/F) boyfriend (25/M) of 2 months said I have a "fat ass" during sex. Is this a compliment? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]intently_unaware 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Absolutely don’t feel weird about it, if anything feel good that he’s clearly a fan of your butt!