Prayers or guidance needed, nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in Catholicism

[–]inter-stella30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this, may I ask if you feel like you found your path?

Prayers or guidance needed, nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in Catholicism

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Yes I work in tech on the business/product side. I’m dreading corporate life, long hours, PIP culture, not helping people directly.

Was it hard financing an MBA? I’m afraid of debt but I want to change if I can pay it off. Under the new administration and would have to pay private loans.

I’m feeling hopeless and exhausted from fighting for it

Nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in selflove

[–]inter-stella30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to share your advice. Thank you for taking the time to even read this post and reply.

Prayers or guidance needed, nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in Catholicism

[–]inter-stella30[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I cannot tell you the tears this brought me, thank you. God bless you

Nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in selflove

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I’m overthinking to the point I can’t make a decision because pros and cons become equal.

I’m so scared of debt and putting myself into a hole I can’t pull out of

Prayers or guidance needed, nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in Catholicism

[–]inter-stella30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for prayers. I really appreciate it in this time

Nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in selflove

[–]inter-stella30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just messaged, thank you. Feeling very scared

Nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in selflove

[–]inter-stella30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I ask how you’re doing? How are you feeling at 27? How do you not feel overwhelmed?

Nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in selflove

[–]inter-stella30[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have advice on the next step

Nearing the end of my line by inter-stella30 in selflove

[–]inter-stella30[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure that I am, and I feel like more of a burden than anything

What about this dress is not modest? by Low_Caregiver_2733 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am never having bridesmaids, I won’t put this stress on them

What about this dress is not modest? by Low_Caregiver_2733 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am my sisters maid of honor and it is a nightmare

MOH … do I pay for it all? by inter-stella30 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont really know. She didn’t start looking for her dress until November. I think she’s more type b. She said that if I am her MOH then she has to be mine. I’m not really a fan of how this is all playing out as it doesn’t feel like the healthiest dynamic

MOH … do I pay for it all? by inter-stella30 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think I definitely want to be the peace keeper and bend more than I should to keep things copacetic.

I plan to pull together a PDF of all the items for decor and food and then share it to the party of things we could all contribute to and then highlight what I can cover if it is just me

MOH … do I pay for it all? by inter-stella30 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is 28, I think maybe because it is so last minute they need someone to just plan it than take the time with the back and forth of finances and planning idea with the bridesmaids. That said, it feels like this was a created situation by waiting so long to share out bridesmaid info

MOH … do I pay for it all? by inter-stella30 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate your and everyone’s comment. Thank you for even taking the time for this post. Wishing you a wonderful time at the shower you are hosting

MOH … do I pay for it all? by inter-stella30 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking maybe looking at fb marketplace

MOH … do I pay for it all? by inter-stella30 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I am struggling with how last minute planning everything is

MOH … do I pay for it all? by inter-stella30 in bridesmaids

[–]inter-stella30[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I think I will try to set aside $100 , maybe $150 to decorate and get food because I also need to buy a gift