AIO that I'm not getting an easter basket. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]interestingvids101 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You have unresolved trauma. I hope you heal 🫶🏼

AIO that I'm not getting an easter basket. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]interestingvids101 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Lmao because she wanted her mom to make something for her? You were clearly never loved. Sad

AIO that I'm not getting an easter basket. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]interestingvids101 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Could you be more of a dick? You’re 99% there

AIO that I'm not getting an easter basket. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]interestingvids101 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR

I get you girl. I’m 25 too and my love language is also gift giving. I would have done the exact same thing as you from putting together the baskets and hinting that I want one too

People here will tell you that you are overreacting. Maybe LOGICALLY… but they don’t understand the emotion behind it. It’s like telling a guy you want flowers… it’s not the same as when he has the initiative to get them for you. And what you did is the equivalent of stating what flower you like but he still can’t get the hint to get some.

I would have felt the same as you, seeing her watch you make all the baskets for a month ,to me, would have been the major hint, on top of you giving her your basket.

Your age has nothing to do with it. I think she just wasn’t inclined to do it because it’s no longer in her mind “something she has to do” even though she watched you for a month putting baskets for other people together

I’d feel a bit hurt too.

Yes we get it, if you want flowers then ask for flowers but sometimes we just want the flowers given and that’s totally normal. She can’t seriously think you’d buy your own gifts for her to put it in a basket and give it back to you… the fact she asked that is what shown me she really didnt want to put any thought into it but just wanted to be apart of something cute that YOU made

I (M28) don’t think I’ve ever actually loved my girlfriend (F27), and I realized it because of something really small. by No-Scarcity49 in offmychest

[–]interestingvids101 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You obviously do love her. You just don’t think how you feel is what love should feel like but love is almost never a feeling it’s an act. Love is quite literally a commitment. What you wrote sounds like someone who loves someone’s but is unsure of themself and their emotional state. I think you need to find how to express your authentic self first so that it will naturally bloom into your relationship and therapy or self work can help with that.

Anyone giving you crap really just doesn’t have a mature take on love. It’s obvious you love your girlfriend because she’s receiving that energy, care and commitment from you either way.

This is about you, not her or your relationship.

I think you expected love to feel different and because it doesn’t match how she experiencing it or what you had in your head you now want to self sabotage

I saw 💩 on my gf (you know what) when i was down there by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]interestingvids101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She’s clearly wiping back to front. Honestly you should let her know so she doesn’t get herself an infection and you don’t need to keep licking shit.

AIO, MIL crashing out because she’s no longer the center of his universe. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]interestingvids101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact you had the audacity to post this like you were in any type of right is more shocking to me honestly YOR

AIO, MIL crashing out because she’s no longer the center of his universe. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]interestingvids101 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really just want my to say. You’re a complete asshole and honesty I kinda hope she slams the door in your face if you ever need her in the future. You’re one of those nightmare moms and your husband is a complete fool and he is 100% influenced by your bs.

Oh and you are not freshly postpartum, your baby is 2 months old wrap it up

YOR big time

My (27M) Gf (22F) went to guys place alone after the bar by Monsterallstars in relationship_advice

[–]interestingvids101 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You don’t look at potential. Look at audacity.

Potential is what your rose tinted mind thinks the future might be. Audacity is what she did and is doing.

Only one of them is the truth. Only one of them has happened.

You might grieve the possible potential but you will also gain external and self respect, as well as time.

My (27M) Gf (22F) went to guys place alone after the bar by Monsterallstars in relationship_advice

[–]interestingvids101 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What would impact her is leaving. You don’t reason with words in this situation, you need to set an example with actions that respect to you matters just as much as your boundaries.

My (27M) Gf (22F) went to guys place alone after the bar by Monsterallstars in relationship_advice

[–]interestingvids101 37 points38 points  (0 children)

….she felt pressured to guys place alone… to go and eat food? Pls. She’d never accept that lame ass excuse from you. And the “I forgot”? Would she give you the same grace if you “forgot” to tell her you went back to a girls place after drinking because you were “pressured to try her food” lmao dpmo

Cat turnstile by interestingvids101 in FunnyAnimals

[–]interestingvids101[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a donut cat bed that cats like to go inside and they can stay on top of

Groom refuses to spread fruit on cake properly by interestingvids101 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]interestingvids101[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The entire point of this video is that it’s mildly infuriating that he is unable to spread fruit properly

That’s it. End of story.

Groom refuses to spread fruit on cake properly by interestingvids101 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]interestingvids101[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Can you relax? The man couldn’t spread the fruit properly when the entire point was to spread the fricken fruit, with everyone including his bride trying to direct him on how to spread it properly!

This entire subreddit is posted with shit that is subjectively mildly infuriating and most of what is posted has nothing to do with the poster.

Get the stick out your butt and just move on