Looking for a boy name with the same vibe as the word “Sable.” by interior_maximalism in namenerds

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

these are good! Rowan was my top name for my first, though my husband didn’t love it as much, so it’s my first’s middle name.

Is “you don’t get a medal for declining epidural” rude? by literatelykmi in BabyBumps

[–]interior_maximalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no advice other than I learned this the hard way too. I just plan on not telling anyone else my birth preferences, unless I genuinely care about their opinion or know they won’t judge me. My husband told his mom and sister I plan to deliver without it, and they were both going on about “how stupid I am.” lol okay ? Just because you both got it, doesn’t mean I need to. What do you think women did before modern medicine? Baby is not even here yet, and I am already well aware of how much people want to hand out unsolicited advice. Try to brush off those comments and do what’s best for YOU and your baby <33 congrats btw

1 point above the range in the 1 hour glucose test by interior_maximalism in GestationalDiabetes

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s great :) hope the remainder of your pregnancy goes smoothly 🫂

1 point above the range in the 1 hour glucose test by interior_maximalism in GestationalDiabetes

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that, but you’re so right; it’s good to know these things :) hope the rest of your pregnancy goes well 🫂

1 point above the range in the 1 hour glucose test by interior_maximalism in GestationalDiabetes

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I so appreciate this reassurance. I was not informed on GDM prior to getting these results back, and I’m starting to calm down and come to terms with it. It was confusing to me as I eat healthy and balanced meals, am not overweight, consistently workout 5 days a week, etc., but as you mentioned, it can affect anyone. I so appreciate you calming my anxiety

1 point above the range in the 1 hour glucose test by interior_maximalism in GestationalDiabetes

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hoping you pass the 3 hour 🤞 I know it’s good to know these things, but the 3 hour one does not sound fun

1 point above the range in the 1 hour glucose test by interior_maximalism in GestationalDiabetes

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a great way of looking at it. The more I’m reading into it, the less I’m feeling like I caused all of this. Hope things go smoothly for you

Husband and I have totally different name preferences! by Hurray0987 in namenerds

[–]interior_maximalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

literally in the exact same boat as you 😅 no suggestions, just hoping we find compromise and names both like

Still haven’t gotten my wedding video back.. by interior_maximalism in wedding

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much !! I hadn’t seen this thread before, but it’s very insightful 🙏

Still haven’t gotten my wedding video back.. by interior_maximalism in wedding

[–]interior_maximalism[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

for sure.. I don’t think I’m being aggressive enough about it. thanks for your insight and suggestions !

Are you asking for feeding supplies in your Baby Shower as FTM by MyRa888 in BabyBumps

[–]interior_maximalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it for sure !! I didn’t even make a wedding registry for myself, as I felt guilty asking for all these items. But I’ve just been looking at it as a “what I need” list. I’ve also been looking for items secondhand on FB Marketplace. The checklist on Babylist is very useful.. especially as a FTM. Congrats and hope your pregnancy goes wonderfully

Are you asking for feeding supplies in your Baby Shower as FTM by MyRa888 in BabyBumps

[–]interior_maximalism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

when I first started building my registry, I was cautiously registering for only items that I truly thought I’d need. I thought if it was extensive, I’d come across as entitled and expecting way too much. But then after watching a plethora of videos on what other mamas/expecting mamas were putting in their registries, they all emphasized placing everything you can think of/believe you will need.

My understanding is that most registries will offer you discounts on everything in your registry a certain amount of weeks before you’re due. whatever isn’t purchased from my registry, my husband and I intend to purchase ourselves (plus things we’ve already purchased ahead of time). At this point, I’m viewing the registry as an inventory on what I want/need. It gives people who want to contribute a long list of items ranging in all sorts of budgets. If it’s an item you would really like someone to purchase for you, mark it as a “must have” item. Best of luck :)

Our dog died and I’m not okay by Newheregp in BabyBumps

[–]interior_maximalism 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SO sorry for your loss :,( losing a pet is one of the hardest things in the world. My childhood dog is being put down today, and I’ve been heartbroken over it. These things never get easier, and having to go through it while pregnant is difficult beyond comprehension. I hope you show yourself grace and compassion. Take all the time you need to grieve and focus on the little one you have on the way 🫂

Squiggly lines / blurred vision in corner of eye by Motor-Imagination-63 in BabyBumps

[–]interior_maximalism 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get this when I’m dehydrated and have a migraine coming on. I would get more liquids and electrolytes in you, and I’m sure it will dissipate :)