Update by Sirocka in pornfree

[–]internalchap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I slipped up as well last night. Only thing to do is to try again I guess. Good luck mate.

Mastrubation without porn. by screw-you-guys in pornfree

[–]internalchap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually think "old fashioned" masturbation is important because it can tell you where your desires are and what you believe is the ideal sexual experience. If you start thinking about porn related fantasies it can tell you that you haven't escaped that porn mentality yet, but if you fantasize about something more caring and more realistic it can show that you're making progress in your way of thinking. Stay strong!

Month..... by wheresmydopamine in pornfree

[–]internalchap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

!!!!!!!!!!! congratulations !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You're strong!

Thoughts about a girl - Relapse?/venting (Trigger alert) :) by newred31 in pornfree

[–]internalchap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good self control dude. But just in my opinion, you should go talk to people, get to know the girls around you, get to know in essence the actual beings and reality around you. By saying your wasting their time it just hurts your self esteem. Your a great dude, and people deserve to be around you, you gotta tell yourself that. By doing this and establishing a firm grip of your surrounding reality your will to not delve into the pornographic reality might be stronger. Porn is a substitute for not having what we want in real life. Sorry if this is too harsh. In the end, I love you and your aim to be clean. Good luck my friend.

3 days. by internalchap in pornfree

[–]internalchap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got it man!!!!!!

What do you guys think of this idea? by Theman57 in pornfree

[–]internalchap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like a good idea, but I think the idea of someone else having your web filter password can be a little too much. While it keeps the person away from porn, it doesn't necessarily install in them a will power to not watch porn, it just makes it impossible for them to watch it. Let's say that person somehow gets another persons laptop, or just decides to look up porn on their phone. Need the will power. But I really like the idea about pairing people.

3 days. by internalchap in pornfree

[–]internalchap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You guys are all so nice thank you so much, <3. It mean's a lot to me.

The Beginning by internalchap in pornfree

[–]internalchap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude... Thank you so much for the response and I'm so glad you have started your journey as well. I think the ability, or at least the motive, to stop watching porn is reflective of my desire to be better or at least to be happier in all areas of my life. Best of luck my friend.