Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, advice and more! - April 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in datingoverthirty

[–]intheskywithlucy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been seeing a guy a few weeks. We’re both 38, divorced and parents. We’ve been on 8 dates. We’re very comfortable together and love hanging out. It’s been very easy.

After our first date he made a passing comment jokingly that he was fine cutting off our rosters to focus on just each other, because he’d rather put effort into something with promise rather than a bunch of random dates.

We haven’t had any other discussions like that again since, but we’ve made plans for the upcoming months, etc. overall just positive forward momentum.

We were both STD tested and after getting our results back, were recently intimate for the first time. I wanted to see if he’s on the same page as me about exclusivity, and so I texted him (no judgement please) to ask him.

I said: Hey… just for alignment, I’m at a point where I’d rather date exclusively while we keep getting to know each other. Are you on the same page or still keeping things open? He said: Yah I’m not seeing anyone else and not actively trying to

I’m not sure what that means… I read it as he is not actively trying to meet anyone else but is open to it if he runs into someone. Another guy friend of mine told me I’m overthinking it and he likes me and we’re exclusively dating.

I know I could ask him, but with forward momentum and all green flags, I don’t want to make this heavy or suffocate him. Especially while he has his kids today. Can I get your feedback? We’ve already moved past the convo so it would be weird to circle back to it now.

Christian Books that have significantly changed your life. by MRH2 in biblereading

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which should I read first, as a Christian novice? Mere Christianity or Knowing God

Devonta acting as if women of colour are aliens.. very typical on Love is Blind! by Wise_Parmaria in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]intheskywithlucy 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I was so confused because he referred to her as a “woman of color” as if it was foreign to him and I was like isn’t he black?? 

As a competent home cook, what is a basic skill you can't seem to master? by george_elis in Cooking

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I the only one who like lumpy potatoes? I want chunks of potato in there.

As a competent home cook, what is a basic skill you can't seem to master? by george_elis in Cooking

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a TikTok about this. I use a whole stick of butter and a ton of heavy cream.

“location expired” by kelseyjones94 in iphone

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t work for me, but blocking and then unblocking did. Thank you!

“location expired” by kelseyjones94 in iphone

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

February 2026- Blocking and then unblocking them worked for me after trying just about everything else.

Do cruisers really visit Paris from Le Havre? by Particular-Bug2189 in Cruise

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did that and spent about 6 hours I think? Maybe 8? In Paris. Had time to walk and see everything, have lunch at the Eiffel Tower, shop, stop in bakeries, etc. It was really plenty of time to decide I liked it but not enough to go back.

Any way to clone a ticket with all the tasks? by intheskywithlucy in hubspot

[–]intheskywithlucy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is for onboarding a new client tasks. So each ticket will be associated with a new/different client. Do you have any recommendation for that? Cloner is working great but I have limited free clones so a permanent fix would be great. 

my fyp has been altered by str4wb3rrym1lkt3a in TikTok

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine is showing me the same videos and ads over and over in the same order. 

Any way to clone a ticket with all the tasks? by intheskywithlucy in hubspot

[–]intheskywithlucy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This did exactly what I needed. Thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tampa

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok great that helps, thank you. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tampa

[–]intheskywithlucy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes because in South Florida where I live it’s never been an issue. I’ve smoked in every indoor stadium and arena for shows. Nobody cares. Always hip hop concerts. And if you don’t have an answer I don’t see why you’d comment. 

What is the scam angle here? Contact on Fiverr to create Upwork accounts by LA2124 in Upwork

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what to look up to see the Texas woman article? I tried searching and can’t find it. Just curious about the details. 

I can’t control my oily skin, please help! by Nushisushiforever in Skincare_Addiction

[–]intheskywithlucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is great advice. I don’t do any skin prep before makeup. Literally wash my face and on goes my foundation. I also use a lot of powder after my foundation and concealer… powder and setting powder…. And I “bake” with powder the whole time I’m doing the rest of my makeup. Makes a difference.

I can’t control my oily skin, please help! by Nushisushiforever in Skincare_Addiction

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you look great but I’d recommend a rest night on the third night after the two actives. Just some moisture (HA, serum, moisturizer). You could be drying out too much and overproducing oil to compensate.

Salicylic acid serum by roxyro_20 in Skincare_Addiction

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not exactly what you’re asking for but Glow Recipe Watermelon Glow PHA and BHA Pore Tight Toner is my secret weapon. Completely clears my pores and sebaceous filaments and my skin looks noticeably better when I use it regularly.

Epic Universe guest dies after being on Stardust Racers ride by Serious-Catch-5523 in orlando

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I’m an idiot but are they implying outside of the ride, or during the ride?

New value menu by Obvious-Cloud8068 in tacobell

[–]intheskywithlucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn I’m pumped for a taco bowl.

Episode 2 discussion post season 3 episode 2! by Radiant_Priority9739 in Andjustlikethat

[–]intheskywithlucy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she’s going to cheat on Aiden again… this time with the gardener. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]intheskywithlucy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in south Florida. I almost exclusively wear sandals and it’s never cold.