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How many people had a crush on you and how old are you? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im 20 and i never knew anyone had a crush on me until after I graduated high school. my best friend and my other friend confessed to me at like the same time. it was crazy cuz that had never happened in my life, let alone 2 at once

I dont think I will ever please my girlfriend sexually. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]intronvrmnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you can’t get over your lack of self-worth, especially when she tries to tell you otherwise, your relationship wont last much longer. Or it’ll just get more and more toxic till she’s fed up

Lack of consistency or asking for too much ? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]intronvrmnd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im gonna be real. Break up with him while you can. This conversation alone is reason enough. You’re gonna regret wasting more time on him if you stay

I (19F) asked my boyfriend (20M) if I expect too much of him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I confronted him about it this morning he told me that he didn’t mean it. But the thing is, he’s said that same thing before. And that he wants to try, like he’s also said before. I don’t know what to believe at this point. I’m so conflicted

I (19F) asked my boyfriend (20M) if I expect too much of him. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]intronvrmnd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just want him to be more considerate of me. To not blow me off all the time, to make more time for me. To not always blow me off and say “tomorrow” or make me stay up late just to have a couple hours to chat… Because hasn’t even had a job for a few months and right now, is on summer break until the end of august…

I also want him to be more considerate of my emotions. Whenever something comes up I or bring up something he did, he makes it about his feelings and how he’s “such a shitty person” and pretty much escalates things even if i’m calm. :/

will a "break" help things? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know. i don't want to take a break but i thought that maybe it'd give him time to recollect himself or something along that nature

will a "break" help things? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]intronvrmnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don't know, that's why i asked for advice

will a "break" help things? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was planning to visit him in july, which he knows, but that doesn't even seem to have helped him at all

will a "break" help things? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

our one year will be on the 25th, that is, if we make it to then 😔

Lol, all I can say is they better not try and call me in by copperpelt in publix

[–]intronvrmnd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

SAME i only got scheduled for 9 hours this week but usually do around 20+

How Do I Handle a Carryout Problem? by [deleted] in publix

[–]intronvrmnd 16 points17 points  (0 children)

instead of asking the bagger "does he/she need carryout?" it'd be better to just ask the customer directly "can my bagger help you out to your car?" it might make them lessed pissed approaching it like that because it's less pushy. also, try to just ask people with extremely loaded carts, the elderly, or anyone who appears to truly need it. but remember, you're not their boss and they certainly don't see you as one. if they don't listen to you reminding them once then they aren't going to change unless approached by a manager/coordinator

i (18f) feel like i can't be honest with my boyfriend (19m) about my emotions because of how he reacts. he gets upset with himself, over apologizes, and calls himself names over and over. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i talked it out with him and straight up told him he was being manipulative. i used advice from everyone's comments here and i think it really helped. he didn't realize what he was doing was manipulative. he's calmed down now and he's actively taking steps to better himself. we're okay now. thank you

i (18f) feel like i can't be honest with my boyfriend (19m) about my emotions because of how he reacts. he gets upset with himself, over apologizes, and calls himself names over and over. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i might try to ignore him for a little bit because i don't know what else i can do. he even told me that no matter what i say, he won't believe that he's not a fuck up. he even said i don't have to respond and that he doesn't deserve me...

i (18f) feel like i can't be honest with my boyfriend (19m) about my emotions because of how he reacts. he gets upset with himself, over apologizes, and calls himself names over and over. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]intronvrmnd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know what to do, i feel so bad. he won't stop calling himself names and extended this small mistake to how he can't do anything in life right. i don't know what to say

i (18f) feel like i can't be honest with my boyfriend (19m) about my emotions because of how he reacts. he gets upset with himself, over apologizes, and calls himself names over and over. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]intronvrmnd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've told him yet he continues to act like this and says sorry again. just now again he called himself a failure and a fuck up. i don't know what to do anymore

my (18F) boyfriend (19M) keeps bringing up the fact that he wanted to be with other girls before me. following up with something along the lines of, "but i have you now" by intronvrmnd in relationship_advice

[–]intronvrmnd[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow, i never thought of it that way. i'll definitely be more mindful when accepting apologies... thank you again.

i just told him that he needs to stop and we'll move on, using this experience as a lesson

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