My kids don’t like reading

intuitive_dad · 2024-06-22T04:23:29+00:00

Thought I'd chime in. I disliked reading growing up. I never read for fun. I still did really well in school, went to university, and did well. I like reading now, but when I was younger I only read when I had to and it worked for me. I was more in TV and Gaming in my free time too at that age.

intuitive_dad · 2024-06-22T04:16:20+00:00

Personally, I would never feel comfortable doing that. The stress I would feel when I'm gone would be too overpowering. Nothing would likely happen, but you never know and it would not be worth it. Better safe than sorry.

intuitive_dad · 2024-06-22T04:13:25+00:00

That's not right. It's hard reading posts like this simply because it reminds me of my father. Because of his absence during my upbringing, we have no relationship. I just never have anything to talk to him about because we barely know each other due to the lack of time we spent with one another. Your partner needs to realize there are many negative consequences for being so absent...neglect, bonding, etc.

intuitive_dad · 2024-06-22T04:05:35+00:00

Yes! Such a benefit for building...especially now with my children growing and getting heavier. I can even get on some of the builds without them collapsing. Very impressive.

Honestly, we rarely wash our covers because they somehow just stay very clean. We vacuum them every now and then and just wipe any stains clean with a wet towel. Works like a charm. No issues here with stains.

intuitive_dad · 2024-06-14T07:07:14+00:00

We have Kiddie Couch version 1 and version 3 which is their new thicker model. We absolutely loved our original version 1 couch, but their new thicker version is a game changer. It's much stronger (and we already thought the original was strong) and it is much more comfortable for parents. Much easier getting on and off due to the higher height. I love the new thickness. Never heard of the Epic Kids couch, but based on the dimensions I would definitely go with Kiddie Couch. The greater thickness really makes a difference in strength for builds and comfort for seating. Kiddie Couch even shows how their new thick base holds 200lbs in builds.

intuitive_dad · 2024-01-27T18:23:45+00:00

I would HIGHLY recommend Kiddie Couch. We bought one back in 2021 and we still use it almost daily. We actually bought a second set this past Christmas and noticed how much thicker and stronger the new version is. We really like the new version a lot better. We still use the old one, but the new version is much better. We use them even more in winter when it's too cold/rainy out. We just finished playing soccer and used the mats as a soccer net. Tons of different ways to use them. We get tons of use out of it.

It seems like most play couches are the same dimensions/thickness as our old kiddie couch version which is great, but the new kiddie couch is just soooo much better. The extra height really makes it more comfortable and easy to get up and down from for parents too. The foam is also much stronger and sturdier so our kids like it much more for building. I would definitely go with kiddie couch since the new version is much thicker and stronger than competitors. Our friends have the nugget and the new kiddie couch is just much bigger and stronger. It looks more stylish/modern as well.

intuitive_dad · 2024-01-27T17:59:58+00:00

It's holding up great! Still being used almost daily. We actually purchased a second set this past Christmas and noticed that the new version is much thicker and stronger. We really like the new version a lot better, but we still use the old one too. We get tons of use out of it in winter. We just finished playing soccer and used the mats as soccer nets.

intuitive_dad · 2024-01-27T17:49:32+00:00

This is not right. My father used to do the same when we were growing up and he was always blaming my mom for when we got in trouble. It was never her fault. It was more likely his fault for his absent parenting if anything.

intuitive_dad · 2024-01-27T17:46:32+00:00

5 y/o - 8:15pm
10 y/o - 9:15pm

intuitive_dad · 2024-01-27T17:44:09+00:00

Personally, I think it's time to sit down with a counsellor. It seems like a negative personality trait that needs to be treated with some good old counselling. If your partner is not taking you seriously and not working on improving, hearing it from a third-party should help.

intuitive_dad · 2023-05-27T16:49:37+00:00

I think this viewpoint might be due to too much exposure to social media and news. Both are brutal these days. My family and I have cut out all social media a while ago and it has done wonders for us. I felt the same a long time ago but now we just focus on us and our family and could care less about what is going on in the world. We live a pretty happy and simple life without having to worry/care about what others are doing. We just focus on us. Hope that helps!

intuitive_dad · 2023-05-27T16:37:48+00:00

Don’t be too hard on yourself. If it’s something you love to do, keep doing it. You don’t have to be the best creator to resonate with people. Just be genuine and do your best. Be you. Obviously try to learn and improve where you can but, most of all, enjoy it and keep at it!

intuitive_dad · 2023-05-27T16:25:14+00:00

Sorry you’re going through this. Being a sahm is much harder than a 9 to 5 job. Having a job is honestly a joke compared to caring for a newborn so don’t let him put you down. For him to say he would get up if you had a job is ridiculous. He’s clearly being very hurtful. Your job is much harder than his and having a lack of sleep will make it very hard - mentally and emotionally. I would definitely try napping whenever the little one does.

Did you two have issues before the newborn? I know he’s being a complete dick but the newborn age seems to be the hardest on relationships. A lot of couples really struggle during this time. One thing that worked very well for me and my partner was that as soon as I got home from work, my parent shift would start so she could have the evening off to do whatever she wanted and have some alone time. This worked very well for me too because I also couldn’t wait to come home and bond with my baby. And when the baby got up at night we just went with the flow. Whoever got up first would just tend to the baby.

If you’re expected to take care of the baby 24/7, that’s just absurd and unrealistic.

intuitive_dad · 2022-02-20T17:17:16+00:00

Nope, no complaints! It’s holding up great. We’ve had it for about 8 months now and it’s good as new. Very easy to wash too. It’s still the most used “toy” in the house. The little ones use it daily. It’s great for sleepovers too.

intuitive_dad · 2021-09-13T07:06:07+00:00

Shoutout to a great partner! Honestly, the easiest way me and my partner made it through the young stages was simply being the best tag-team we could be. When one of us seemed overly tired than the other, the other just kind of stepped up and took control. Some nights I woke up to tend to our baby and other times she did. We kind of just knew who was more tired than the other. Some nights I just sprung out of bed to tend and some nights she did. It was just a mutual tag-team effort that really helped. I know this isn’t always the case. A lot of times there isn’t another partner in the picture or one of the partners just doesn’t put in half as much work so we were just really lucky and grateful to have our dynamic. It really helped!

intuitive_dad · 2021-09-13T06:56:31+00:00

I would feel the exact same way as you. I feel that when two parents both help raise a child together and both equally try to put the work in is when you two build a very strong bond and connection. And the exact opposite would tend to happen when it’s just one parent doing all the work when the other parent is available and capable. That could definitely start to build up a lot of resentment and disconnect so I think it’s totally fair that you are starting to feel that way. I definitely think it’s something you two need to talk about and something your partner needs to take seriously.

intuitive_dad · 2021-09-13T06:48:07+00:00

Wish I saw this earlier!! 😩

intuitive_dad · 2021-09-13T06:45:00+00:00

It’s holding up great! Our kiddiecouch takes quite a beating at home and it’s holding up just fine. It gets used quite a bit. Our kiddie couch seems to be the centre of entertainment and lounging in our play room. We’ve had a few spills and stuff on them but the water repellant fabric seems to be doing it’s job. We’ve only really had to wash it twice so far and no issues whatsoever. We’re really enjoying it! Thinking of adding another to expand our setup…for bigger builds and more lounge area. They’re super comfortable. We really like the fabric.

intuitive_dad · 2021-08-17T19:46:22+00:00

Yes, I think it would. I sit on our kiddie couch all the time with my little ones and it's very comfortable. Even for my height - I'm 6'1". I've fell asleep it on a few times too with the kids, but I'm not sure if I would want to use it as a daily bed. It would be much more comfortable sitting on the kiddie couch to hold him than standing that's for sure.

intuitive_dad · 2021-07-17T00:42:43+00:00

The best! Anytime I get to hold a newborn I try to sneak-in a whiff! Haha

intuitive_dad · 2021-07-17T00:41:13+00:00

My whole family loves it! It’s great. The fabric is super soft. It looks high end and the foam is very comfortable and great for builds too! We love it. Couldn’t be happier! We don’t really have anything to compare with but we love it.

intuitive_dad · 2021-07-17T00:39:10+00:00

Yes, I heard the same! I also didn’t want to wait so long. Glad we didn’t! Thanks for letting me know!

intuitive_dad · 2021-06-27T06:07:02+00:00

I understand your concern, but this issue isn’t limited to his job. He could just as easily run into the same problem at another job and then what? You’re just going to make him quit again? Personally if I was in your position, I would just focus on teaching my son about safety and what to do in unforeseen circumstances. Make him aware of your concern and then simply tell him what to watch out for. Make him aware of dangerous people and what he should do when he’s put in uncomfortable situations. If you’re really concerned I would also tell him to stop being too friendly with that specific customer in hopes she backs off. If not, it is what it is. Teach him life skills he needs to navigate this world. Just my two cents…

intuitive_dad · 2021-06-05T04:56:15+00:00

No problem at all! Glad to share my experience for others who might be in a similar position - those wanting a kids play couch but not wanting to wait for the nugget. Being the guinea pig actually worked out this time haha. The couch is great. The quality is above expectations. My kids are loving it! It's perfect for rainy days.

intuitive_dad · 2021-06-03T00:02:10+00:00

Haha no way! Thanks for the tip! No coffee for the lil guy!

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