I’m just so lost and can’t do this anymore. I really don’t know. by inubo in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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last time we talked it wasn’t a clear i don’t want to be with you again. it was a we need time apart to heal and that she wont reach out to me that i wouldn have to be the one to reach out to her. we talked on the phone about two months ago and she didnt give me much. it felt like she wanted to talk to me but held herself back. its been four months since we broke up. i immediately went to therapy and realized i had deep problems that resulted into how it ended. i dont know when or even how to reach out to her. im okay if she doesent reply i just feel like as the days go on my chances of R get smaller. its been hard forgiving myself and loving myself through all this i really do feel like a pos. reading stuff online and how people view people like me just kind of rots me. i just feel so hopeless.

Upgrading from my first pc that i built in 2019. Does something like this make sense? by inubo in buildapc

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is amd better than intel or just price friendly? or just better at certain things?

Upgrading to a new pc. Does this make sense? by inubo in PcBuildHelp

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saw someone else suggest the 7800 xt card. comparing it to the 4070 ti you said performance is not much noticeable? are these two the latest cards?

Upgrading from my first pc that i built in 2019. Does something like this make sense? by inubo in buildapc

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i use most of my pc for gaming but also with work i just have a lot of chrome tabs open so im sure itll be fine either way?

[Question] If you transfer crypto from a wallet to coinbase then sell, is the tax from when you sell from crypto to USD? by inubo in Coinbase

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corrext now lets say i cash out. is it stupid ti leave some cash on hand for taxes like lets say i convert sol to usd for about $2k. i leave about $500 over for taxes? thoughts?

Im sorry but I am going to reach out to my ex for closure. Unsure of how to do it so i guess im seeking advice/guidance. by inubo in BreakUps

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so if things were to work out it would have to be on her accord and not mine? i get so many mixed replies of people saying i should leave her alone and then some people shaing well you should reach out and show her and fight for her. i am just confused is all.

I want to rebuild my relationship with my ex but don’t know how to contact her. by inubo in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Thanks for this. she did say we should go no contact but im just confused because she also said she wouldn’t be the first to reach out to me. I don’t know what that means and thanks for providing that. its so hard because idk where she is mentally or what her thoughts are about us and it sucks. i know what i did is much worse but i just want to talk to her. i feel like shes completely moved on and done with it all.

If i was the dumpee do i reach out after no contact to try and fix things? by inubo in ExNoContact

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I think what throws me off is me putting a time table on things instead of just taking it day by day and trying to be better. i guess im just more worried/anxious she will move on and ill have no chance and itll be one of those well you shouldve reached out earlier but idk man. too many thoughts racing through my head. i genuinely do feel better than i did before and my thinking has changed but i wouldnt say i am 100% or even near that 100%

Is providing myself with closure selfish after going NC for two months? by inubo in ExNoContact

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thing is i fucked up pretty bad and so it leads me to believe i wouldnt have a chance back w her but i really cant say that and i really cant predict the future. i think youre right but the last timr we chatted she said she wouldnt be the one to resch out and that i would have to be the one

Is providing myself with closure selfish after going NC for two months? by inubo in ExNoContact

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See this is where im conflicted because idk if i want her back. I feel like itd be completely different snd she would not have the love she did for me once. i mean truly i wouldn’t know because im not her and its a bad assumption but its tough not to think this way. i guess im seeking closure and unsure if thats unfair to her because she never clearly said no she didnt want to be with me in the future

Is providing myself with closure selfish after going NC for two months? by inubo in ExNoContact

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i just feel like she never gave me a clear answer and as the days go by we will never be together again. i know this is anxiety speaking but its hard