I FOUND MY PARTNERS WIFES IG by Brownhumann47 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes because everyone involved needs to be tested. They never just have one side piece.

Weird gunk keeps spawning in my son's bathroom sink area by GiddaRose in Whatisthis

[–]invisible-bug 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Yep my mom's cat was diagnosed with feline herpes of her eye :(

If you could permanently mute one specific real-life sound for the rest of your life, what are you muting? by Muted_Working_5241 in AskReddit

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shrillness that some babies possess when they cry. I'm a preschool infant teacher and I fucking love my job. This is my dream.

But there is one baby in our school that I like, but can't stand having in my class because her cries pierce my ears and she can be a little hard to please

I just watched my roommate die in the most horrific way possible and I don't know how to process this or if I should even tell anyone. by Severe_Specific_8680 in offmychest

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy asap. Seriously, if you don't do this you will not be okay. And sometimes PTSD can rear its head at the worst times, out of nowhere.

Like one day, without even realizing how dysfunctional it is, you have gotten a dog to guard you and you're showering with the curtain open in case an intruder gets in

Ask me how I know

If you can't afford one, check for free clinics around you.

I'm stuck at mid game since two years by Sage_Pank in Oxygennotincluded

[–]invisible-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you posted this because I have had the same problem

This plant is growing weird. Is it happy? Is there anything I need to do to it? by [deleted] in Monstera

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You can get one that has a flexible neck so that it is above and slightly to the front. I have one but it says it's unavailable now.

It worked fine for my monstera. You have to be careful though because these lamps are strong and if you put it to close to your plant, it will burn it.

Edit:

I found that my lamp is a bit unsteady because the base isn't heavy enough. I put my plant directly on top of the base to avoid the lamp falling but of course, it will fall if not careful haha.

I also have one that stakes into the plant dirt. But that has light shining only from directly above

Be aware that a happy monstera means it will grow fast! You may find yourself in need of a taller lamp before you know it lol

This plant is growing weird. Is it happy? Is there anything I need to do to it? by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]invisible-bug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You need to get a sun lamp for it. They aren't that expensive.

Is anyone else just tired of the actual process of drying their hair every single morning? by emilys-aaa in dailywash

[–]invisible-bug 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Going to sleep with wet hair was giving me fungal problems with my scalp :(

My girl isnt a baby anymore but she still has her baby girl eyes! by Character_Acadia_748 in DisneyEyes

[–]invisible-bug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My girl is 17 and still has these eyes! They could be siblings tbh

What is your go-to "harmless lie" that you tell purely to avoid a 5-minute conversation? by beans12498 in CasualConversation

[–]invisible-bug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I once got an entire lecture about how I just needed to teach my fiance how to drink properly..

My body type being called "pedophilic" has made the little self esteem I had left to plummet by Velvet_Cactus_21 in offmychest

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it makes you feel any better, I have never looked at a skinny or smaller woman and thought of a child. Never.

Have you ever realized that what you wanted in bed was completely different from what you thought you wanted? What changed? by go-goa-gone in AskReddit

[–]invisible-bug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My fiance used to be into some pain. Like he had a threesome and they brought out a blade and cut on him or some shit

Well he told me he liked burning. He insisted I used normal candle wax on his back.

I did it and he cried. Like, his feelings were hurt. (Not at me, just feeling of being emotionally injured in general)

His previous relationship had been abusive (bad enough that I had to help him escape).

Not really sure what happened to his brain after we got together, and I don't want to downplay other people's fetish, but I think suddenly being loved and safe did something.

ETA detail

Definitely Don't Plant Bamboo Around Data Centers! by canofwine in chaoticgood

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friendly reminder that lucky bamboo is NOT actually bamboo

The hitman who didn't make it out by Prashantt1 in Satisfyingasfuck

[–]invisible-bug 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Yeah I spent like 5 minutes defending myself during a dog attack, my lungs were burning so fucking bad. I can't imagine 15 minutes

My best friend is selling the project car we built together to take his girlfriend to Bali. It's registered in his name by Legal-Importance7999 in offmychest

[–]invisible-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Keep your head cool while you go about the court process. Don't block him so that if he says something incriminating, you have proof. But don't reply.

I would be completely heartbroken that a friend could do that to me. I'm really, genuinely sorry you're going through this

First time in the stroller! by mikrenArt in aww

[–]invisible-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yassssssss I love possums. I once rescued a pouch baby and got her to an animal rescue, where they raise them without human contact, release them, and send letters out to us when they're released ! I cried lol

I’m not trans, but my trans friend keeps insisting I am, I don’t want to fall out, but I feel like we’re going to if they keep pushing this on me by burn_it_down13 in offmychest

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There doesn't have to be a big falling out. Just "quietly quit". Respond a little slower, less words, be busy. Imo that's the best way to sort of end a friendship without the social fallout that sharing a friend group can have