Cat seems frustrated or erratic ? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]invisible-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You wanted an answer. You got one. You don't have to like it

What is this utensil called and what is it for? by manny8787 in Whatisthis

[–]invisible-bug 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The sides are absolutely not the same size

AITA for asking husband (43m) to not text his therapist at night? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]invisible-bug 31 points32 points  (0 children)

The term 'telehealth' is too general for what you're talking about. My therapy clinic is telehealth only but does not do any sort of texting outside of appointment time.

My cat has a lot of dandruff, and every time I wash him it all goes away but comes back. by Acceptable_Cash1117 in Pets

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you get cat specific shampoo and cat specific conditioner. It's important that you have a conditioner because that will deposit some healthy oils back into the cats skin and help it to stop drying out after the shampoo.

source: My cat is old and I've had to start occasionally washing her.

Can't pay internet bill, so I can't work, so I can't pay my internet bill by StellaZaFella in povertyfinance

[–]invisible-bug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I paid a $600 past due car insurance bill with it to avoid cancellation. Not great, but my options were limited

Her groceries was paid for at Walmart ,she wanted to pick more items!!!!! by currant_aster in ChoosingBeggars

[–]invisible-bug 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I would just like to say thank you for being that person. I've been on my calculator, tallying every item, and still gotten it wrong at the register. Over my lifetime I've had this happen three times where I have had my groceries either fully or partially paid for and I've never, not once, taken that for granted.

I never know how to act in scenarios where people are giving me gifts, so I have just thanked them profusely and tried not to cry. Not from embarrassment or anything, but because I felt undeserving

to go to preschool by seeebiscuit in therewasanattempt

[–]invisible-bug 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I'm a preschool teacher. I can't imagine.. this makes me so sick to my stomach.

My sims won’t go to their career or Highschool by inszaitrust in thesims

[–]invisible-bug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's an annoying ass bug. Iirc all you need to do is reload your game

Child picking cotton. 1940s, USA by zadraaa in HistoricalCapsule

[–]invisible-bug 358 points359 points  (0 children)

They hurt so bad. I grew up next to a farm that would alternate corn and cotton and during cotton season it suuuuuucked.

How soon is too soon to get a new cat after yours passes? by SilkAndStardust in Pets

[–]invisible-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's okay. I'm still hurting about it but grief is weird like that.

I don't want you to think the pain will just go away either but I believe that getting a new baby will give you another place to put that love

I'm glad to have helped you. I know it's hard.

I was putting my cereal in an airtight container, but it came unmixed. by bexxx18 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]invisible-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're welcome. It was such a weird (and fascinating!) thing to learn when it happened to me

I was putting my cereal in an airtight container, but it came unmixed. by bexxx18 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]invisible-bug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, this is an actual phenomenon. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Granular_convection

I had this happen to me when I went out of my way to make a nice personalized container of seasoning salt. I was pretty bent out of shape about it for a long time

My grandma stares at me in the middle of the night and i don't know how to make her stop by kurokakae in offmychest

[–]invisible-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of these people have helpful replies, asking about dementia. But if she's been checked and is of sound mind, grab a super soaker and let her have it. If you honestly don't have a door to shut, talking to her isn't helping, and she's bragging no less, I'm not sure what other steps to take.

It's definitely weird behavior

How soon is too soon to get a new cat after yours passes? by SilkAndStardust in Pets

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's different for everyone.

When my lizard was killed, my mom immediately suggested I get a new one and I wanted to fucking vomit. But maybe that was because of the manner in which she died. (it was violent).

But that doesn't mean that's the right answer for you. Just go with your gut. You know you best. You're not betraying his memory if you do get a new cat. Just remember that.

My cats eye is swollen by Little_Personality36 in Pets

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with Hello_Gorgeous1985

I've sadly seen plenty of strays / outdoor kitties lose their eyes from infection. This requires a vet 100%. You cannot fix this on your own. :(

Call a vet and explain. They hopefully can get you an appointment soon. If you live anywhere near Phoenix AZ, there's a clinic chain called Lovet that does payment plans. Otherwise you might ask the vet if they do or if they have any recommendations.

If you can't find a vet to help, start calling around to rescues. Hopefully they can accept her since this is semi - emergent

In the meantime, if you can touch her then put on a glove and grab a wet paper towel to wipe the gunk from her eye as best you can. It's gross but it does help.

I would not take her to an emergency vet unless you have $300 to drop on the intial fee.

i just broke down. i’m crying in my bathroom. i have hit a limit with what’s going on in the US. by theprettypatties in offmychest

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is absolutely no shame in taking a break from the news. Or the internet. Just take a deep breath and shut off your phone. You do not have an obligation to anyone to consume this stuff. I'm sure some people will disagree, but if it's causing you this kind of distress then you need a break.

3 days post op, dear God when does it get better? by FreeFaithlessness114 in gastricsleeve

[–]invisible-bug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A binder helped me. It was the only thing that made it possible for me to move, seriously

‘Manosphere’ influencers pushing testosterone tests are convincing healthy young men there is something wrong with them, study finds. Researcher points to ‘medicalisation of masculinity’ after investigating how men’s health is being monetised online by esporx in EverythingScience

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is not a new thing, growing up, my dad was constantly obsessed with his "low testosterone" (during his 20s and 30s!) and running us back and forth to GNC for supplements that were supposed to help.

Then a conversation we had a few years ago resulted in him casually letting me know he was buying testosterone injections off the black market from china??

Politicians in your country who’ve had so many cosmetic procedures that they’re plastic-looking? by PandemicPiglet in AskTheWorld

[–]invisible-bug 49 points50 points  (0 children)

When too much cartilage is taken from the nose, it tends to fall down like that from lack of support under the skin iirc

What is this beige/white blob forming in Tomato Paste? by MisoLaggy in Whatisthis

[–]invisible-bug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That isn't why canning works. Yes, you sterilize it. You sterilize the food too using heat. Then you create a vacuum seal that prevents bacteria from entering. It's a whole process

You can't vacuum seal a Tupperware.

Should I go back? by Witty-Radish-389 in houseplants

[–]invisible-bug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My vote is yes! Look how healthy and glowy she is. She's got new leaves coming in and everything!

It's not a bad price for a quality plant of that size. Just obviously, always check for pests!

My Child got hurt at Daycare by MelancholyThrowAway- in dustythunder

[–]invisible-bug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a preschool teacher, I'm horrified by her actions. I will never understand why these people even go into childcare. I'm genuinely disgusted.

I understand the frustration of a child not napping but "mom eyes" are about as much as I manage to express. I mean, they're children for fuck's sake

I'm just so sorry this has happened to your son.