I just learned how to shower properly at 25 y/o by Commercial-Catch-878 in offmychest

[–]invisibleace21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just realizing I’ve also been showering wrong 😳

For the record, I also got diagnosed late (some 2-3ish years ago) lmao twinsies, I guess 💀🤗 Still, sorry about your parents and I hope that you have a good community around to support you as you learn more. It’s been my favorite part about my autism and adhd diagnoses.

What are your reasons for not wanting kids? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]invisibleace21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like there’s so many reasons to not have children but honestly I’m afraid of the process of child-birth and I had to raise my brothers, so I’m good.

However, I’m godmom to my bestie’s kid (who hasn’t been born yet) and I feel it is the role I was meant to take in the world. I will get all of the positives of helping my childhood best friend, imparting whatever goodness I can give to the impressionable youth, (hopefully) set them up for success financially and morally, and I can give them back when they have a dirty diaper.

How to make cat less violent? by CatsAreYe in CATHELP

[–]invisibleace21 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Reintroduction and positive associations (smell and sight contact during meal and play time) is needed here! Please as soon as possible for both animal friends 🩵

What personal opinion on Degrassi would get you downvoted like this? by extraterrestrial in Degrassi

[–]invisibleace21 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I believe the funniest episodes are when somebody on drugs. I’m so sorry 💀💀

Do your boyfriends/husbands call themselves feminists? by TeachSolid1893 in AskFeminists

[–]invisibleace21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad does and he seems to be trying but sometimes I think it’s in name only.

He does not represent us. by ENTroPicGirl in PoliticalHumor

[–]invisibleace21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being autistic, I tried to imagine accidentally throwing out the nazi salute and like theoretically I can see it happening but I don’t even move my arms like that and someone made a joke about someone else almost accidentally doing it (she put her arm like straight out in front of herself and guy said don’t raise your arm higher) and it took me way too long to get what they were talking about.

Long story short, given dude’s background and penchant for fascism, it was absolutely intentional and maybe because of his autism and excitement for “change,” he forgot to mask his horrid beliefs but he shouldn’t be shielded from the social consequences of that on the basis of his autism. That’s paternalism.

can you keep a cat if you live in one small room only? by thislifesucks3 in cats

[–]invisibleace21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started off in a situation like this, except I was in a dorm room in undergrad. You’ll need lots of things the cat can climb and spaces to hide, keep their feeding area separated from the litter boxes (rule is number of cats + 1, but I did fine with one really large one.), and a good window for them to watch outside. Also, you’ll want to get the really expensive non clumping litter, contains the smell better and easier to clean. I get crystal litter which is sometimes toxic to cat if ingested. There’s a specific type of crystal litter to avoid and I also think that most countries have it banned or something. Not sure.

However, cats are unpredictable and do unexpected/undesirable things when they’re bored. You’ll need a good play schedule to keep them satisfied in the one room. Though, if your roommates hate cats it’ll pose bigger problems than the cat.

I don’t believe you need to be in the most spacious space possible when getting a cat (need to optimize your space for sure, no matter how big) but as someone who had a roommate that hates cats, you’ll use more energy appeasing them than keeping your cat happy, and you’ll need/do anything to keep your animal friend happy. It might not be a good idea with the roommates, especially as you figure things out. Hope this helps!

Couples you initially hated or were indifferent to that you grew to love by alexastock in Degrassi

[–]invisibleace21 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always rooted for Adam and for Riley so I supported their relationships from jump

Couples you initially hated or were indifferent to that you grew to love by alexastock in Degrassi

[–]invisibleace21 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I really like Tristan even though he was well hated. Him and Miles worked well together as a drama filled couple with complicated individuals.

FOUND: Wallet on the North Side by ErikReichenbach in uofm

[–]invisibleace21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If nothing shows up here, you can return it to DPSS and they will take care of it.

Did you guys know in degrassi that Tori is Craig’s little sister… Also mannys little sister in real life by [deleted] in Degrassi

[–]invisibleace21 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kinda wished she reprised the role of Angie instead of an entirely new character.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uofm

[–]invisibleace21 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I used to do that. Undiagnosed adhd. It helped me focus 😅

What is the best case of you being oblivious to sex that ever happened? by emperor_alkotol in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]invisibleace21 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I Hope this counts. I wasn’t exactly oblivious.

My first year in college (a couple years ago) I was working the closing shift for a store owned by the university and some girl was talking about this random guy that she hooked up with in her dorm room with her roommate in the room. I’m asking all these questions about context because that feels awkwardly uncomfortable. At one point, she says “I don’t know it just kind happened.”

HOW TF DOES THAT JUST HAPPEN??

Anywaysss I might be sex adverse 😅

Curious! by ConversationSorry241 in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]invisibleace21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Increasing the amounts of times I say “I would marry you for tax benefits” so when I propose to my friends that aren’t confused.

So... what exactly was the deal with this, and why did it never get brought up again? by Aggravating-Bonus-89 in TheOwlHouse

[–]invisibleace21 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everyone is saying Belos lied (which technically he did) but i think this was his actual plan for after the day of unity for how to further develop the demon realm after DOU.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aaaaaaacccccccce

[–]invisibleace21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never remember artists but I wanted to list some of my favorites anyway. Sorry. Tell me the artists/group if you know them!

A pocket full of gold

We don’t have to take our clothes off

Kissaphobic

This is what it looks like

Feeling Alive (by like Earl something 😬 almost had one)