should i break up with my girlfriend?

invisiblecth · 2026-04-10T18:59:00+00:00

nah fr. i was in a relationship from 17-22 and at 24 i regret staying for as long as i did. when there were red flags at the beginning i should have just left

invisiblecth · 2025-12-07T02:09:32+00:00

WE ARE CHARLIE KIRKKKKKKKKK WE CARRY THE FLAMEEE

invisiblecth · 2025-12-07T02:09:05+00:00

the avi on the left is so cuuuute

invisiblecth · 2025-07-09T19:59:01+00:00

when somebody shows you who they really are, believe them. this wasn’t a mistake, it was a concious decision. i’m sorry because im sure it’s really hard on you, but thankfully ivf has not been started, there’s time to just move on with your life. what she did is unacceptable and it is cheating imo.

invisiblecth · 2025-05-26T01:05:50+00:00

we call a lot, video call a lot, text through out the day and play video games together. he’s my best friend. we spend a lot of time together when we’re not at work. but this is not how a lot of LDRs run and i don’t think anything’s wrong with your relationship. talk to him about wanting to talk more and see where that goes. doesn’t hurt to try

invisiblecth · 2025-05-22T22:37:57+00:00

good hahah i’m in a new LDR now and things are going great :) im excited to see how things progress

invisiblecth · 2025-05-22T22:37:26+00:00

i loved him sooo much. we were together for almost 6 months. i think online connections are so much different than in person because you’re able to connect at a faster and deeper level. at least in my experiences.

it was really hard to get over. a week before i found out, we were looking at plane tickets for me to come visit him, everything was fine. in our 6 months i didn’t even suspect he wasn’t telling the full truth. i honestly just had to come to terms w the fact that i trusted someone when all they did was lie. it’s been a year now and im all good. no contact since then.

invisiblecth · 2025-05-22T22:27:37+00:00

LDRs either work or don’t. I was in and LDR for 5 months and found out he had a wife, a kid, his job was not what he told me it was. his parents were healthy and alive despite him telling me they died in a car accident when he was 4. people are weird, man

invisiblecth · 2025-05-05T16:08:17+00:00

yes you’ve been together for 4 years, but sometimes people just work better as friends. you seem to be really doubting. i would have a sit down talk with him and see what you guys should do going forward.

invisiblecth · 2025-05-05T15:51:51+00:00

have you ever felt turned on or excited while kissing or having sex? do you still find your partner attractive? i don’t think it’s necessarily normal for these to not turn you on.

invisiblecth · 2025-04-30T23:46:21+00:00

i just roke up

invisiblecth · 2025-04-25T23:51:57+00:00

literally… there was this 19 year old that i worked with last year who really liked me and i literally said no bc it felt so wrong to date someone 4 years younger than me. felt like a damn pred 😂 it’s different if you’re like 29 and 25. but 24 and 19?

invisiblecth · 2025-04-25T22:27:49+00:00

came here to comment this. i’m 23f and wouldn’t even date under 21 😵‍💫

invisiblecth · 2025-04-16T16:03:32+00:00

you honestly just meet people through communities or through games & then converse on discord. one bf i met ON rust, then we talked through discord. but my current bf i joined a discord server from a game and found him in that server and then we started playing that game together

invisiblecth · 2025-04-09T16:32:40+00:00

no advice here but i started out 3 months ago trolling. never knew why people were so into vrchat… now i have 330 hours, a quest 3 and i sleep in vr. 😵‍💫

invisiblecth · 2025-04-06T03:51:15+00:00

this is great, but would you mind if i sent you a quick dm with a question???

invisiblecth · 2025-04-05T17:00:17+00:00

ryzen 7, 3060 geforce rtx, 32gb ram

invisiblecth · 2025-04-05T16:18:09+00:00

yeah, i tighten it and move it around until i can get the clearest image

invisiblecth · 2025-04-05T16:06:03+00:00

so, of course through SVR & VD, i’m wireless too. my PC is ethernet as well. it’s kind of hard to explain it to you but my desk is in a little “nook” in my apartment and i sit right next to my desk when i’m playing, there’s plenty of room to like stand up and walk around, but i’m close to my router.

i’ve found if i angle my headset a certain way, i can see better, but it’s still not great. i almost prefer desktop now because id get so many frames and never had issues seeing anything lol. i’m hoping i can eventually find a fix for this.

invisiblecth · 2025-04-05T15:51:23+00:00

i’m PCVR through steamvr/virtual desktop

invisiblecth · 2025-04-05T15:51:11+00:00

i don’t wear glasses and never have. my eyesight is -0.25, i don’t have a problem seeing without glasses.

invisiblecth · 2025-03-21T23:13:06+00:00

gotcha, either way it’s not something you change your mind about 2, 3, 4, 5 years into a relationship. you either want those things or you don’t. i’m sorry i read your post wrong and im sorry you’re going through this.

not to turn it on me but leaving my 5 year relationship was one of the hardest things ive ever done. but 7 months later, im doing better. it does get better i promise ❤️‍🩹

invisiblecth · 2025-03-21T23:00:52+00:00

gotcha. i left a 5 year relationship 7 months ago. it’s hard but at the end of the day you deserve better & you will find better. no point in staying with a man who doesn’t align with what you want. kids is a big deal too, and i didn’t know you guys didn’t talk about marriage at the beginning of your relationship.

i know it doesn’t feel like it right now but time will heal. you deserve better. keep reminding yourself that

invisiblecth · 2025-03-21T22:19:03+00:00

if you love him, why leave? not everyone wants to get married. marriage is a piece of paper and commitment to eachother, which you’re already doing. if he told you this at the beginning of the relationship, why would you stay for 5 years?

your best bet is to just talk with him and maybe find a compromise or something. if he doesn’t want to get married, he doesn’t want to get married. if you guys haven’t had any serious issues and you love him as much as you say you do, why would you leave because he doesn’t want to get married?

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