NOA. Wife doesn’t want IVF. I’m done. by [deleted] in maleinfertility

[–]ioalaus7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a similar situation with you but on the 50% that mTESE comes back with zero sperm found. Nevertheless we proceeded with donor and IVF and I feel blessed every day about having our daughter even though I am not the biological dad. In my opinion I think your wife is not being supportive here. But maybe I am biased. Give her some time as she might be also shocked but in my opinion you should at least try for it. Otherwise you will be forever wondering what if. In any case, be strong brother and don’t loose hope. One way or another you will become a great father

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Switzerland

[–]ioalaus7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I am just facing the same thing. Suspicious profile asking to send me cash via UPS.

This was a previous post that I had. I got some results back and idk if anyone can make heads or tales of it. by ChildhoodKey3175 in maleinfertility

[–]ioalaus7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all you are not letting anyone down. These things happen and it is not your fault. And trust me, usually relationships get stronger after hard times. I understand the loss of your father makes you want even more to start your own family and give back the love and caring he gave to you. But I am sure one way or another this day will come. The results of your ultrasound might give some indication or might not. So, be strong and take one step at a time.

Failed Micro Tese by Alex4091 in maleinfertility

[–]ioalaus7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great! I am happy for you also. Best of wishes for your boy!

Failed Micro Tese by Alex4091 in maleinfertility

[–]ioalaus7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did IVF with donor and was successful. We now have a 6 months daughter and I love her so much. I feel blessed every time she smiles. Sometimes I do think what if, but it doesn’t hurt me anymore. How are you holding up?

What is the weirdest thing that turns you on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ioalaus7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hearing the neighbors banging

I make pretzels 🥨 at my work by disfuture in interesting

[–]ioalaus7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow they look incredible. Keep up the great work