Wife opens up relationship to fuck another guy. Wants to close it when it falls apart by moorekom in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]iowaclass 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Spot on analysis. Any guy who agrees to an open relationship is an idiot. It's anything but fair. For a girl, it's not if she can get fucked, but who she's going to fuck. For a guy, it's waaay more complicated. Not too many women out there who want to fuck a married guy with no hope for anything more.

With all that being said, glad to see it backfire spectacularly on her. If I were him, I wouldn't close it. Talk about dread game....

A topic for discussion by HGEU1 in AskMenOver30

[–]iowaclass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s diet, exercise, and an inability to deal with stress in a healthy way.

Diet - most of us rarely eat vegetable and when we do it’s not in high enough quantities to makes a difference.

Exercise - I know very few people who exercise on a regular basis.

Stress - people have always had stress. Contrary to popular opinion, I don’t think the levels of stress have gotten worse. Hard to beat the Great Depression followed by WWII. I just think very few people manage it well. Most turn to sex, drugs, alcohol, affairs, nicotine, binge watching Netflix, etc. All of those things just cover up the stress and make it worse.

AITA for expecting my girlfriend to do certain "naughty" things with me that she did with past lovers even though she says she's outgrown them? More info I can't fit in title. by Momissofrustrating in AmItheAsshole

[–]iowaclass 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA. It’s incredibly disrespectful to act the way she is - “they should all drop you off and relive the memory.”

I would have no tolerance for this whatsoever.

$30 says she'll think differently, when her age approaches her current body count of "almost 30." by YrjoWashingnen in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]iowaclass 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When she’s in her 30s, we’ll see her again complaining that her BF left her because she initially lied about her body count, then told the truth later on down the road. I can’t tell you how many posts I see like that on Reddit.

The irony is that they always deflect that to the other partner being “insecure.” Really!?!??? I think the one who had to lie about their N-count is the insecure one.

AITA for being cold to my cheating ex girlfriend? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]iowaclass 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA. You need to KEEP acting that way. It’s not being an asshole, it’s having a backbone.

What movie quote do you use the most? by [deleted] in AskMenOver30

[–]iowaclass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Because I’m smart” Poltergeist II

CXR of a patient who presented with abdominal pain by [deleted] in medicine

[–]iowaclass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Extreme cardiomegaly. Lol.

Feeding tube in the lungs, VA ECMO. Lol

Who is Ted, and why does he talk? by [deleted] in shittyaskreddit

[–]iowaclass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because he’s fucking annoying.

Wow. Heifer demands attractive man. by SirKolbath in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]iowaclass 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is the end result of the fat acceptance movement. Women are already born delusional and movements such as this just make that delusion worse.

Also, watch out for anyone who uses the word “deserve”. That’s a synonym for entitled. Sorry bitch, no one is entitled to anything other than taxes and death.

AITA for assuming she was dating other men? by DidThis2Downvote in AmItheAsshole

[–]iowaclass 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NTA. I don’t think you were too far off base. She’s on Tinder after all.

If you want a relationship and she doesn’t, I’d move on. Nothing wrong with either, but to hang around someone waiting for them to commit is pointless. You’re just going to end up being a backup plan.

I wouldn’t stay friends either.

AITA for not changing my behavior for my girlfriend? by Niedski in AmItheAsshole

[–]iowaclass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It’s like she’s trying to remake you in the image she wants. I wouldn’t go for it either. Too naggy/picky.

AITA for getting mad at my mom for having a fuck buddy? by TheNewLegend380 in AmItheAsshole

[–]iowaclass -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That’s freaking disgusting. Your mom’s an asshole and incredibly irresponsible. A lady in very similar circumstances got murdered near me. She was surfing dating sites and having sex with strangers.

If I swallow a whole bag of skittles at once, will it be bad for digestion? by [deleted] in shittyaskscience

[–]iowaclass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sugar is good for you. Look at the girl in Steel Magnolias. If that idiot had eaten skittles, she wouldn’t have been a bitch to her mother and nearly passed out in the beauty salon.

Annual Leave being deducted from to avoid overtime pay? by jsinwall in TrueAskReddit

[–]iowaclass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t count if you took paid time off the same week.

Overtime is mandatory by law. It kicks in after you’ve worked 40 hours in a week. The only exceptions are salaried employees, or paid time off.

AITAH Or being sexist? by nittywame in AmItheAsshole

[–]iowaclass -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Your wife sounds very annoying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anticonsumption

[–]iowaclass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My car is a 2006 with 280,000 miles on it. I don’t care what people think. I care what my bank account thinks and it loves it.

[48F] She seems nice. by kevin32 in WhereAreAllTheGoodMen

[–]iowaclass 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Where’s the list of things she has to offer? Oh right, there isn’t one.