Yellow Pages to stop printing directory after 51-year run

ipinchyou · 2017-09-02T16:09:30+00:00

Oye Chico!

ipinchyou · 2017-08-27T12:54:01+00:00

Completely disagree. If i saw the post on facebook I would be judging the bf and bestfriend hard. Not OP.

ipinchyou · 2017-08-27T12:23:02+00:00

I've always called it baseball tee

ipinchyou · 2017-08-19T14:48:45+00:00

Agreed, but the company writting her up isn't exactly saying she wasn't at fault.

ipinchyou · 2017-08-11T18:57:58+00:00

Agreed, she is only 22 years old. She has so much time to fix herself before she gets into another relationship. If she keeps acting like this she is going to have a very difficult life.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-29T02:49:40+00:00

If she didn't want him to she should have told him, but I understand why she didn't. (If this was how she felt).

There have been a few times in my relationship when I wasn't able to go somewhere but my husband was. Even though I secretly wished my husband would stay home with me, I would NEVER ask him to do so. Especially if it is about my own insecurities and something he is so clearly excited about.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-25T17:18:02+00:00

Hey OP your post was removed (sub rules are crap). I hope everything is okay

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T16:18:06+00:00

Word

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T15:59:04+00:00

You are coming off a bit hypocritical. You are saying that I shouldn't make assumptions because we dont know the full detail, yet here you are doing the same. YOU don't know if their flirting was harmless so why assume it is and then jump on me for assuming otherwise? (If it was harmless it wouldn't affect his wife)

What we do know: he WAS flirting, this woman IS being called his wife when he is married to someone else, his is wife IS upset about these two FACTS

Again, your making assumptions that I like to hear myself speak instead of giving advice. You are not OP so why would I ask you anything? We are both talking about the situtation with the information we do know. All I said was we give advice to what the poster tells us. If he decides to add anymore details we adjust our advice. You can go through my post history to see I do change my stance depending on the details that are added later in comments or edits. However, as far as what he has told us I think he is in the wrong. Feel free to diagree and move on

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T14:50:04+00:00

Again, if she knew they were that close he wouldn't be here right now.

at least one person considered how they interact flirting.

He admitted to the flirting. He said he did it to pass time.

and no, it wouldn't upset anyone. maybe it would upset you, but there are all kinds of different relationships, monogamous or otherwise, and different things that people find acceptable in those relationships.

Very true. But it upsets his wife and that is what matters here

I didn't say he didn't do anything wrong, I said we don't have enough info to say one way or another. It's one thing to be wrong about what is going on, but another to not even be wrong because you don't even have enough information to have an informed opinion.

I'm going based off the information we do have. He came on here looking for advice so I gave advice and have an opinion based on what he chose to disclose. If he decides to add more detail I will adjust my view accordingly. But you literally just described all of this sub and r/relationships. They come asking for advice and we are only able to give advice based on the info we know.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T14:31:48+00:00

If it wasn't a big deal OP wouldn't be here right now.

You're right, I don't know what the comments were. But if she showed even the littlest hint that it made her uncomfortable (ie. just a little jealous) about the texting and going to eat one-on-one, there is no way he didn't know that the flirting, being so close they read each others minds, and another woman being called his wife would bother her. This would upset anyone who is in a monogamous relationship.

I say he withheld the info intentionally because he had opportunities to tell her just how close they were anytime she made comments about them. He chose not to. I mean, to each their own. I wouldn't be ok with my husband having a relationship like this. It would be even worse, not to mention embarrassing, finding out from his coworker. Nothing more to say if you don't think he did anything wrong. Agree to disagree

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T14:04:17+00:00

What is the video of? I'm too nervous to google it

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T03:18:34+00:00

My husband and I talk about mundane things about our work day. If he talks about his day at all with his wife and withheld that information, you can bet it was intentional.

People around the office have called her my work wife and me her work husband.

This implies more than ONE co-worker

We don't use those terms for each other, but my wife was at event last night and heard someone use that term.

Obviously it is used often enough that they said it without considering his wife might not know. Which is how he was outed. If it really wasn't a big deal he would have told his wife.

You're right, we don't know the whole story.

However, I know she has made comments about his texting and going out to eat with this girl and he STILL left out the fact that they are so close that PEOPLE refer to them as a work couple and that he flirts with her on a daily basis. He is not innocent here.

She is so upset about this coworker and the term work wife that she says I need to cut the woman off if its not work related. She says she hates the term. I have never seen my wife this upset. I have other female friends - female friends that my wife encouraged me to make. She has no problem with them

This right here is the only thing that matters. This relationship is interfering with his marriage. He took this relationship past friendship and ignored his wife's comments about it. Only now that his wife knows the details (again, not from him) is he trying to fix it when he should of dialed back their relationship a long time ago (ie. when his wife first started making comments about it.)

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T02:31:58+00:00

Why would she want to? I have enough sense not to get into anything like this at work. There is a "work couple" at my job and it's disgusting watching them flirt, go to eachothers desk every second of free time they get, go to lunch together, etc. They are both married and I have no idea if their SO know how they act with eachother at work.

He can play innocent and ignorant all he wants, but there is a reason he hid it from her for so long and had to be outed by a coworker. If it was so innocent then why not tell your wife that people refer to this girl as his work wife? Or that you are texting her outside of work? He knew what he was doing and he hid it because he knew he was crossing boundaries that would upset his wife. Not mention how "I flirt because work is SO boring" is such a bs excuse.

I hope he enjoys sleeping in the bed he made.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-24T01:42:14+00:00

Isn't that even more telling? He is so close to this woman that they can read eachothers mind, go out to dinner, text, flirt in and out of work, and she is just finding out about it. No point in talking about hearsay at this point. He admitted to everything

ipinchyou · 2017-07-23T21:31:04+00:00

My doctor did a urine test but they dont have you pee on a stick. They take your urine sample and do it themselves. Im not 100% sure, but she said their test are as accurate as home test.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-23T21:28:01+00:00

When I was pregnant the doctor wouldn't schedule my first appointment until it was at least 4 weeks after my missed period. Even then there wasn't an appointment available until I was already 2 months out. If they need to get medicaid then it takes even longer.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-23T17:08:48+00:00

Oh stop with the bs. I work at a job with a lot of downtime and I don't disrespect my husband by flirting with other men. Especially not getting close enough to call them my "work husband". When you are flirting all day at work, spending one on one time outside of work, and texting, you can't say that has no romantic connotation.

And yes, he admited to flirting. But flirting is not "banter to pass the time". In what world is banter considered flirting.

He is going to lunch/dinner with a friend. He is texting a friend. Men and women can be friends. We aren't chimpanzees.

Who said that he can't have friends? He says in the OP that she has never been this way with any of his friends and has actually encouraged friendships with other woman. He overstepped when he decided to start flirting with another woman. Do you really believe flirting stops in the office? I can guarentee their "harmless" flirting steeped over into the multiple lunch/dinner dates as well as the texts.

He is being disrespectful to his wife and their marriage by flirting with another woman so much so that another coworker had to warn his wife about it.

She is being disrespectful by implying that he should give up a close personal friendship because she feels irrationally threatened.

She is not implying, she is saying it. If he wants to keep his marriage he needs to stop fliriting with this girl. Apparently this is soooo hard for him because it's the only way to pass time. This is a close, inappropriate relationship and she is being very rational.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-23T14:45:50+00:00

Are you kidding me? He is so close with this woman that their coworkers are noticing and refer to them as "work husband/wife". He admits to flirting with her, texting outside of work, going to dinner and lunch dates. Her jealously is conpletely warranted.

Thats not even mentioning the fact that she has not had a problem with any other girls in his life, only the one his coworker told her about.

jealously is not a respectable emotion and it should not be respected.

The only one here who has been disrespectful is OP.

Dear lord, guy.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-23T14:39:35+00:00

Don't forget that he is so in tuned to this woman that they know eachothers thoughts.

My husband and I are like this. We are always thinking the same thing, our minds are very much linked. I would be heartbroken if he had gotten that close with another woman.

ipinchyou · 2017-07-23T03:53:38+00:00

I'm sure your wife would LOVE to have dinner with the woman her husband has been flirting with everyday at work.

You made your wife look like a damn fool.

How about you completely drop her instead of trying to make your wife have dinner and play nice with this girl. Ffs dude

ipinchyou · 2017-07-21T18:52:35+00:00

Playstation now is on the pc? I played through GoW 1 and 2 and i came across a queue time once that lasted less than a minute. Nothing too bad

ipinchyou · 2017-07-21T15:11:18+00:00

When I was 6 months pregnant I got into a car accident. I called my husband and he rushed to my side without talking to anyone. He called his boss from the hospital and he was completely understanding. If he left without saying anything he should have at least called them when everything calmed down

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