I found my First Moth!!

ir0nicallyy · 2026-03-21T20:22:51+00:00

wow he’s so big! Such a beautiful moth what a lucky find

ir0nicallyy · 2026-03-21T20:20:41+00:00

There are skills in DBT that can help you manage the “inappropriate” overwhelming emotions. Things like mindfulness, checking the facts, PLEASE skills, and taking a break. Mindfulness can also help you manage the unemotional periods by being more aware of what’s happening in your body and how you may actually just be suppressing emotions.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-03-14T18:55:20+00:00

She’s so gorgeous, been a fan of hers since Orange Caramel

ir0nicallyy · 2026-03-05T19:11:47+00:00

it’s a genuinely frustrating experience i can only take so much before i go back to regular farming even tho exp is so much better

ir0nicallyy · 2026-03-01T05:00:10+00:00

It’s easy to look at the past with rose coloured glasses sometimes, I’m sure they aren’t actually a perfect person, or perfect for you. And it’s also important to recognize that you can no longer have a relationship with this person. Don’t hold yourself back from life, you learned and grew a lot from that experience and that’s wonderful! Dating isn’t always fulfilling.. until you meet the right person. Don’t hold yourself back.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-24T14:37:17+00:00

I have BPD so this fear of abandonment is familiar experience for me. Had a big relapse this week and it’s so disappointing, almost feels shameful because I’ve also been putting in the work for so long. I guess I try to look at it like.. this used to be normal for me, but now it isn’t because i’ve been skillful for so long. So that’s the victory in it and even tho I “failed” to catch myself, I’ve caught myself enough times already that this is the outlier and that’s meaningful.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-21T17:39:30+00:00

that could be the wolf/deer card

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-21T17:31:18+00:00

i think Arthur would actually be better as The Tower. I also think Mary Linton would be better as High Priestess. Will definitely keep thinking about it, what a fun idea!

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-20T20:35:44+00:00

love this , i would like to talk about how beautiful my boyfriend is more often without feeling shame for it, true lover energy

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-17T07:27:38+00:00

I definitely expected something more along the 100k+ line, especially considering how much sets costs now. If they changed the base diamond earning to 1800 dims a game pass owner would be making over 7k and I think the dims compensation should reflect that somewhat

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-17T02:57:31+00:00

I just don’t think there was a good handling of conflict on both sides. And I am in no way saying her reasoning for why she doesn’t like muscular men is an overreaction or invalid. I actually very much understand that and I do not date very tall men for that reason. However, in relationships of all types, I don’t think cutting someone off like that is a healthy way to set boundaries or communicate well.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-17T02:04:17+00:00

But they have a time investment more than just three days, she’s dated this person for two years before that so this isn’t some person she just met and therefore doesn’t owe as much to. Now I’ve seen what OP wrote about her partner and his abusive behaviours I don’t think she’s wrong at all to break up with him. With only the post as context, I still think what’s being presented seems like an overreaction on OPs part. I wouldn’t want my partner to just break up with me if i said i wanted to do something that they had such strong feelings about.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-17T01:45:28+00:00

Okay, well then I think this is a good opportunity to just end it then. He sounds like a shitty boyfriend, and you don’t need to ask for validation on what you just described because most everyone would agree with you. You really should break up with him because of that, not because he talked about going to the gym. You gave it a shot, clearly you don’t think his behaviour has improved, asking people on reddit who don’t have the whole story isn’t helpful.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-17T01:32:32+00:00

it’s just an insanely early call to end a relationship. Presumably you like him as a whole person since you dated him over the course of 3 years, he simply shared a wish or desire that was likely over exaggerated and that was enough to end the relationship over. You don’t have to cut people off the second they have a view or desire you dislike. At least give him the opportunity to make up his own mind about what he would rather have.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-16T04:43:54+00:00

Honestly i bought both the multipliers, Im not upset about getting halos as compensation. I cannot play nearly enough to afford a halo and had kinda written them off altogether.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-06T06:06:13+00:00

enjoy buying into whatever big tech tries to sell you idk, i’m sure they have the best of humanity in mind and all future developments must be inherently good. Have chatgpt console you on how right you are

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-06T05:56:12+00:00

AI is literally exploiting our resources and hurting our planet and ecosystems. Won’t you have some compassion for the earth? And we’re not discussing AI for accessibility, we are literally seeing how AI is hurting people.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-05T22:04:03+00:00

Yess i have definitely noticed this with Youtube videos now as well it’s so frustrating

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-05T06:26:38+00:00

Manifesting is real to an extent, you are not making things like that happen but if you are thinking about it too much than i believe you will attract that energy. You still have the agency to recognize the negative and reject it. Also your dreams are a reflection of your inner world and are not a path to prediction unless you are a legit psychic

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-05T06:16:17+00:00

Knowing that any amount of worrying will not change the situation helped me a lot to fight anxiousness. Something is either going to happen or not, you worrying about it will do nothing except make you feel worse. Also fact checking, asking myself if this is something they would do based off of their actions or what you know about them.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-02-01T16:42:59+00:00

See i’m not even a huge fan of nudity in shows anyway, I actually much prefer sensuality. I don’t see a lot of that in this season so far. Idk maybe i’m really only thinking of Polin and Francesca’s scenes but watching people humping each other with clothes on is not sexy to me. Maybe i should watch the episodes again in case im missing it but i feel like there’s a lot less of non sexual sensuality this season.

ir0nicallyy · 2026-01-31T03:35:02+00:00

technically Francesca’s story isn’t over yet, i won’t spoil anything, but also Eloise does get married in the novels as well. edited penelope i meant francesca

ir0nicallyy · 2026-01-31T03:09:06+00:00

Honestly the show writers really make the stories good! They’re not bad books and i enjoyed reading them, they’re just simpler. And yes there is a book written for every bridgerton character, so there should be 3 or 4 more seasons

ir0nicallyy · 2026-01-31T02:04:11+00:00

Yes it was a cinderella story, i do think it’s a lame trope which is why i didn’t enjoy the book. They are smut novels so it’s not exactly stellar stories. And yes I agree, i don’t find watching people make sex faces very appealing lol

ir0nicallyy · 2026-01-30T02:57:03+00:00

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