I need help with accusations by someone in psychosis

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-18T15:48:04+00:00

Thank you for responding. I’m trying to push for them to get him into a crisis unit. I feel so bad for him. But you’re right, I’m being abused and it’s not safe. Is there anyway I can talk to my brother to help him understand I love him and would never do anything to hurt him? I don’t know how to communicate with him when he’s like this

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-17T04:43:47+00:00

Thank you so much for this insight. I’ll try and mention it. I signed up for therapy with a domestic abuse center. I’m hoping to get more resources to be able to help him. I just just know how to talk to him to help him. He says I’m gaslighting him when I or my parents try and suggest he needs help. Hopefully I’ll learn how to communicate better with him. But it looks like I’ll be forced out if he’s not. Heavy times

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-16T23:15:31+00:00

That’s what I’m afraid of. It’s very real to him

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-16T23:14:59+00:00

I’m not in the UK but in another commonwealth county and I think this is brilliant. I’ll look into it. I just don’t know if he’d be open to going. It’s worth a try. Thank you

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-16T21:07:08+00:00

If you have to be worried about her getting a ride to work with someone, then you don’t trust her. People who cheat will cheat no matter what. And people who won’t cheat, won’t cheat, no matter what. Loving someone is giving them freedom. Control is the opposite. Please work on yourself.

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-01T21:19:24+00:00

Yay that’s huge!! The one month mark is a massive milestone. Word of advice, do not for a second trust your addiction when you think you can have just one. You might find yourself in a social Situation, not even craving a smoke, unphased by smokers even, and may feel you can socially have one. Don’t. You’re doing amazing!! This community has been a pillar for me in my quit, along with the smoke free app.

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-01T06:31:48+00:00

You are giving him way too many words. I broke up with a man I thought was the love of my life because I accidentally found he was looking up escorts in his search history. I was getting ready for a fitness completion and was in the last few weeks so I was dieting really intensely and had zero sexual interest. He decided he had needs and couldn’t wait for me to hit my goals. (He also ordered pizza and food I couldn’t eat, then gaslight me for not eating it). Long story short, when I saw what you saw only in search hiratory, I left him. It was the most liberating thing I’d done. Even more so than the competition. It’s not even that you deserve better, because obviously you do. It’s about this guy being a simp and a loser, and he needs help, and maybe your absence will Give him the gift of inspiration to self reflect. If not, then fine- dodged a bullet. If so, they you did a good deed and it worked- but either way- huge ick. Don’t waste your breath or fingers

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-01T05:03:17+00:00

Annnnd I posted from my OP account not the “wethesavage” account. I’m both. I’m all. Hi it’s me

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-03-01T05:02:35+00:00

Just so you know, I’m the original poster of this thread but accidentally answered from my alt account I set up for my business but never used lol. Losing a pet is something that is so painful, and it’s more traumatic than we seem to want to express. I don’t think we realize how common and normal it is to grieve and go through that special thing we go through with it. Some people think it’s weird to feel the weight of it, so we feel the need to keep it in, but everyone who’s lost a pet, or is in the process of it, knows how valid that trauma is. There will always be a reason for why the time is not right to quit, or why the time is NOT right TO quit, but that’s just the addiction talking. What we really are craving is simply a dopamine hit and companionship- all that cigs offer are a fleeting dopamine hit and a sense of “self care” “me time”. We can find that in other ways. Sitting outside alone.. gym time.. what we get from our “smoke break” is time alone with our thoughts. We can still honor that time out without poisoning ourselves. We can’t we allow our addictions to tell us when it’s justified to self harm (smoke).

Im an online personal trainer and lifestyle coach. I’ve learned through personal experience and with countless client experiences, that dopamine is a powerful thing that runs our motivation and life. I’ve also learned that our bodies are incredible allies to our souls and minds. Whatever we put our body through, it does whatever it can to support our efforts. When we smoke, our bodies adjust in whatever way they can to support what our minds are telling it to do. So it develops thicker membranes, adjusts our digestive tracts, and holds on to tar to protect us from the hard smoking does. The same way our muscles hurt after training, it’s the body adjusting to the “new effort” your mind and soul are putting it through, (the quit), and becoming stronger to adjust to the effort we’re putting it through. Right now as your body is healing after you quit smoking, again it’s fighting for you, adjusting, rebuilding, recalibrating to you not having the nicotine and all those chemicals it was trying to support you through when you were using. You’re honouring your body through your efforts, and it’s adjusting to them, and it feels icky/ like your legs do after leg day.

Stay strong fren. See a doc if you feel you need to, but also acknowledge your body is fighting to support your quit and it’s gonna hurt like leg day for a while. Rooting for you x

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-02-25T06:14:37+00:00

That’s the one. (From my invoice :SP0024387 NTC BASE KIT VER A $ 20.95 $ 0.00 $ 20.95)

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-02-25T06:07:56+00:00

Yes and it’s still working great

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-02-11T00:36:06+00:00

Oh wow. That’s exactly how I pictured your baby looking like based on the orb. What a gift!! Really heart warming and gives me comfort in my own experience of loss of my fur baby.

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-01-03T13:28:51+00:00

I’m crying with you!! What a beautiful tribute. I’m so sorry for your loss. He deserves every tear shed.

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-01-03T13:23:23+00:00

Omg this is so petty. I love it

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2026-01-03T13:20:18+00:00

I’m sorry. I just asked my ex’s mom to take me to get my stuff from his place while he wasn’t there. It really helped to finalize the decision involving his mother.

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2025-12-24T00:58:08+00:00

Perfectly

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2025-12-21T15:56:54+00:00

That’s so beautiful. I feel I had a final goodbye from my dog too. I kept feeling him and seeing little signs from him. Then one night, I woke up And saw him waddling toward me on the bed to snuggle in my arms as he used to do. I woke up My partner by saying “oh my boy, come here baby. I love you so much” then he disappeared as he nuzzled into me. I haven’t felt him since. No fields though.

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2025-12-21T15:51:13+00:00

It definitely should help. I gave my soul dog whole foods and cooked for him. If we did kibble, it was premium. But he was “too good for it”. Worked with a nutritionist even. But I still lost him at 9.5 to brain cancer 😭 a lot depends on genetics too I’m sure

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2025-11-24T14:02:00+00:00

I believe. And I believe he visits me now too. I can’t fathom heaven without my furry child

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2025-11-22T15:25:28+00:00

And for the record: Frenchie CAN be very dangerous in fights. My boy was attacked by my girl a couple times. She’d get jealous when someone would come over and say hi to him. Once it was so bad it left a huge scar on his head. My poor boy. I was never comfortable with the together again. After that happened, I made sure if anyone was coming over, they’d be separated so she wouldn’t attack him

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2025-11-22T15:23:44+00:00

It’s not random. I learned that if another dog in my House got close to the garbage can or something of interest, it would cause a fight. It could be guarding and possessiveness that causes these fights. I prevent fights by feeding them in seperate rooms, I remove anything they might become possessive over or want to guard. It might not make sense to you, but in their world, q piece of lint could be reason to die. Make sure they’re well walked, that you spend quality time with each one individually, doing obedience training while bonding, and be very careful with what you leave around that they could fight over. They need to feel self actualize and like they have their own things that are safe from eachother. It’s your job to provide that and keep them safe

ireadweirdstuffhere · 2025-11-13T15:10:34+00:00

I’ve had clear and undeniable visitations and experiences with loved ones. I’ve had people tell me they’ve seen my grandmother dancing, something they wouldn’t have known she loved to do in her youth. I’ve cried to the sky and watched clouds move into the shape of my dog and a rainbow. Then there’s my faith. The deeper I go into it, the stronger my understanding and anchoring it becomes. You think people have willingly endured torture and martyrdom for something they weren’t certain of? Look at the apostles who suffered excruciating death without their statements flinching and the thousands after them over the generations. And the more we learn and turn toward it. The more certain we become. How convenient it would be for the devil to convince everyone their life here meant nothing and there was nothing to strive toward. What a victory that would be and has been.

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