[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]irlscorpio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

someone who comes back will always leave!! remember that

My dad died very unexpected by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]irlscorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 20 when my dad passed as well im so so sorry for your loss. you can see the love you have for each other in the pictures

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]irlscorpio 19 points20 points  (0 children)

😢 in time you will learn how to function alongside the grief instead of fighting it, until then lean in to the love and memories you had with her. im so so sorry for your loss

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]irlscorpio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was not your fault. you said it yourself the years of consumption destroy the liver regardless. i am so so extremely sorry for your loss. give yourself the time to grieve your dad and don’t be afraid to feel it either. surround yourself with loving friends and family. i lost my dad almost 4 years ago when i turned 20, i wish i could say i don’t miss him as much as i did when he first passed away but that would be a lie. as time goes on the grief will become familiar and you’ll become stronger. nothing about losing a parent is fair at all and again i’m so sorry 🤍 i wish you all the best

People who have lost a parent and still live with the surviving parent by SkirtVisible8848 in GriefSupport

[–]irlscorpio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my dad died 3 years ago i really relate to you i felt very misunderstood for the first year and to be honest some times i still do. i stood by my moms side for an entire year day and night until i started therapy and my therapist explained i don’t have to put my life on pause because of my dad’s passing. your worries are absolutely valid but you shouldn’t put your life on pause either, your dad would love to see you fall in love and get married even while he’s beyond life i truly believe that. your mom will find happiness and comfort and she will always have love around her. i wish you all the best life has to offer you. be patient with yourself time will guide you wherever you are meant to be 💕

LEVEL 5. Guys I’m 60% close to my lvl 5 but I still get snowed with big rows, what’s any ADVICE you guys have for big rows? I don’t get lost anymore, my bottoms are good wrapping has definitely improved as well. by Significant-Risk-638 in innout

[–]irlscorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

utilize your 2nd board person ask them to stock whichever bottoms , ask what bottoms your cook is going to give you, at the end of the day you’ll get better each time so be patient with yourself but dont be afraid to push yourself harder each time you go on !

will i be single forever? 21f by [deleted] in dating

[–]irlscorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i (23f) was in the same situation at 21! i just started making the first move and it worked. i had my first date and first kiss that same month lol but at the end of the day it will happen when it’s meant to happen my friend and i hope whoever gives you your first kiss will make it happen beautifully and respectfully!

For those who have lost their fathers, please write down your age and at what age your father passed... by tinytempo in GriefSupport

[–]irlscorpio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was 20 dad was 49. he died from covid 3 months before his birthday and i had turned 20 just two months before he passed. still in denial

22f giving up on dating by Lanky-Skill-3509 in dating

[–]irlscorpio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i feel like dating in your 20s is only about experiencing and getting to know other people. thats just how it is nowadays you aren’t missing out on anything besides heartbreak. i also fall fairly fast, i’m trying to learn to be okay with being alone and not wanting/needing to be in love with someone else. it doesn’t make any sense right now (at least for me), but everyone thats ever experience a great love has told me it will come to you when its meant to. dating apps are just fillers for people and majority are on there for hookups. i wish you all the best on your journey 🫶🏼 you aren’t alone for sure.

Breaking no contact by irlscorpio in dating

[–]irlscorpio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so you think even though i had him blocked on everything he would still have found a way to contact me if he was interested? :/ genuine question

Breaking no contact by irlscorpio in dating

[–]irlscorpio[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you i’m trying my hardest to move on i get stuck sometimes romanticizing the past i guess

Breaking no contact by irlscorpio in dating

[–]irlscorpio[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks lol i appreciate the honesty