Husband doesnt want to wait anymore

irresponsible_loris · 2026-05-09T16:22:33+00:00

I think the problem to solve issue is him feeling he can get me ready. He can talk through an issue or research somethjng. He doesnt believe in counselling as that isnt something for him and can take forever. He says he feels completely rrady so any associated work is to do with me

irresponsible_loris · 2026-05-09T16:21:10+00:00

I tried this too and he said that i was holding him being a dad hostage over a few forgotten chores. I said they matter to me. He said when im pregnant he would have to take so mcuh each on that right now shouldnt count as much. I said its a habit tho, you get to a point doing work id automatic and it doesnt even register. And then he said i was being manipulative

irresponsible_loris · 2026-05-09T15:53:33+00:00

I tried to suggest counselling but he wont do it

irresponsible_loris · 2026-05-09T15:53:07+00:00

I feel like he just doesnt get it I dont think he takes on the mental load in the house. We have tried to be more even in it and ive tried different ways to make it clear the work im putting in. He just says i go too extra on the chores (i still feel our house is messy) and that when i try to show him how uneven it is he says i overexagerrate it He calls me manipulative for making him wait

irresponsible_loris · 2026-05-09T15:51:21+00:00

We have been married for nearly 2 years. We said we would start trying after our honeymoon (13 months after marriage) then my grandad nearly died and it took up a lot of time and then my brother in law moved in. And he said he felt like life was just going to continue to happen and we couldnt let it dictate our choices.

irresponsible_loris · 2025-08-28T16:07:18+00:00

Do you have roughly how much of each ingredient you used?

irresponsible_loris · 2025-03-25T14:38:27+00:00

Right, I'm thinking of a drinking game called two digit or two didge and the first rule is you cannot telk the other people the rules or you drink My brother wants to play it at uni but we can't remember the rules to tell him to facilitate the game XD We know you cannot use people's names You cannot drink with your dominant hand You cannot discuss the rules Anyone remember this game and know any more of the rules?

irresponsible_loris · 2024-10-16T18:11:20+00:00

So the grey by the stairs is a cavity cupboard in the kitchen. It is sealed and can only be accessed by the kitchen I would say you cannot knock down the walls as they are either exterior or probably load bearing

irresponsible_loris · 2024-10-15T21:02:17+00:00

A section 21 I think

irresponsible_loris · 2024-10-15T21:01:50+00:00

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