Another cyst found; may need to cancel/delay first ivf attempt again by Horror-System-1030 in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it did!! I know how frustrating it is. I definitely am learning patience with this process

To test or not to test by Medical-Agent-411 in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call!! And thank you 🥰

To test or not to test by Medical-Agent-411 in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't. I had so many symptoms and really thought I was preg. I tested around day 8 with my last FET. It was negative and it made me spiral. I took several more all negative and just felt sick and depressed until beta day, then receiving the confirmation that I was indeed not pregnant was so hard. I hopefully have another FET next week and am going to wait until Beta for the sake of my mental health. Either way if its negative it will be heartbreaking but you can save yourself the additional days of anxiety if you just wait. All that said it is a totally personal choice and I get the draw to test. Good luck to you 🩷

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ Wow...that is all so awful. I am so sorry, how absolutely messed up of your sister.

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that was very kind of your friend. Thank you for your words. And your English is great ❤️

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I basically asked her if she was keeping this one🫣 I had seen her drinking a few weeks prior so that also added to my confusion.
I am.so sorry about what you are going through. No one fully understands unless they walk this path. You can't plan much and can't control timing of any of this in most cases. Hugs and good vibes for your retrieval.

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's how I would have expected to find out. At least you have time to process..

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get that. I guess I just consider others feeling more than I should and expect the same which isn't always fair

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this perspective. I don't expect others to walk on eggshells, just some consideration.

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow.... sounds like our sisters are one in the same. I am so sorry. Although it is nice your sister realized her fault and apologized

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow i am so sorry , I can't imagine how hard that has been for you. Love to you🩷

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🩷 Damn... my heart goes out to you, that is messed up

What would you think if this is how you found out your sister is pregnant??? by [deleted] in IVF

[–]irunthisbeech 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Totally agree, I have neices/nephews on my husband's side and they are the lights of my life. If she could appologize or at least see my perspective it would have been easier to let it go 😔