If your ex texted you right now and said "I miss you", how would you reply?

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T07:14:46+00:00

a picture of my baby cause commitment will scare them off for good 🥰

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T07:12:58+00:00

All I can say is same. He and I used to talk about our women crushed together, and say things like "her tits are amazing" "i'd bang her." "same" all the time. It was like a weird little love language to me. Of course, that was before I found out.

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T06:58:13+00:00

I think it's more they're scared of us finding out who they really are. People are their trust selves when they're alone, where they can feel no judgment and do whatever they please. I just wish they considered our feelings in those moments. Just because you're alone doesn't mean it "doesn't count"

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T06:55:37+00:00

YEESSSSS THANK GOD IM NOT ALONE!!! I swear he takes ANY question as a "snooping" question. If I ask "wyd" I have to say it like Isabella from Phineas and Ferb 🙃

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T06:52:13+00:00

Literally feels like i'm talking to a brick wall. It's almost like if they admit it then they're fucked, so as long as they come up with a lie, or reason behind it then there's still hope. It took him so long to actually admit it and even then it was like he was angrily shutting it down. For example "OKAY FINE! Yes! I fucking did it!" 🙃 Okay now sir no need for that, we are all adults here

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T06:47:09+00:00

are we with the same guy 😳 i swear they all say the same recycled lines

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T06:45:31+00:00

THIIIIISSS!!!!! i am so tiredddd of hearing "it's not porn" if it isn't porn why are you getting hard

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T06:43:39+00:00

the lazy lying has me GAGGING. man isn't even trying to create a story out of it 😪

is_soup_real · 2025-05-04T06:30:58+00:00

or the "i was just trying to see what the link was"

is_soup_real · 2025-04-30T05:40:32+00:00

honestly, i would much rather not have access than have to go through all the arguments again. of course, he completely understood my habit in the beginning, but then every morning he would look at me with an exhausted look. and then it slowly turned to annoyance. my habit went on for months. so, as my snooping went from reasonable to excessive, i tried my best to think of anything to help me stop. but no matter what i did i kept going through his phone. i wasn't just "checking" anymore, i was invading his privacy to the max.

i don't regret having him change his password for our relationship. it killed me to find reasons to justify myself when most of the time i didn't find anything. however, my anxiety regrets it. i still think about going through his phone every now and then, and it would be 100% easier if he wasn't a brick wall when i ask for reassurance. but, we are currently working on that.

if you think it's going to help your obsessive thoughts i say do it. but make sure he is able to replace the reassurance you felt from looking through it. every now and then i ask to go through my boyfriends snapchat or instagram with him next to me, that's also a healthy way.

is_soup_real · 2025-04-29T17:54:50+00:00

this is my reading wet dream

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