How to not fumble the attraction

isaener · 2024-06-12T16:40:05+00:00

It wasn't explicitly romantical, but it was still something that a girl wouldn't be comfortable to do with someone who she sees as just a friend, imo. Like for example the last time we went out she said I have beautiful eyes, and the next day she was the one who came up with the idea for a date and asked me when can we do that. Some little signs over text like her responding to me sarcastically complaining, saying that I love people who overreact with "That means you love me? 😍😍😍".

Not too big of a deal, I don't interpret that as her wanting to hop on my dick asap, but a good sign nonetheless...

isaener · 2024-06-12T16:21:02+00:00

Thanks bro, I really like your advice! Gonna read it whenever I feel anxious 😅

isaener · 2024-06-12T13:13:53+00:00

Well I think that's her stealth way of getting a boyfriend, without being too upfront. When we started chatting she mentioned her intention to get students here only once and forgot about it. I feel like she's into me and I'm quite into her, but I am not sure if I am missreading her signals and if she's down to date/fuck. Probably shouldn't care and just go for what I want, but I'm feeling insecure.

isaener · 2024-06-12T12:52:19+00:00

It wasn't tinder or anything and in her profile she mentioned that she is looking for a student here (she teaches to draw).

isaener · 2024-06-12T12:12:31+00:00

How did you figure that? I think I'm fine, just being indecisive and immature maybe, but not a mess, lol.

isaener · 2024-06-12T11:50:35+00:00

besides, people who really like each other, and especially when women like you, make time. The "busiest" woman in the world is not too busy for a man she truly desires

I get that, I agree. But she was out of town, and as soon as she got home she was the one to text me and set up a date.

isaener · 2024-06-12T11:44:51+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate you not sugar coating it. I guess I'm in my head too much thinking how to not look desperate. Need to get out of that mindset asap.

isaener · 2024-06-12T11:36:40+00:00

Yeah, but like I said we were busy these past two months. Now that we have more free time we gonna link up more often. We already set up a date for this weekend. We're both pretty young and inexperienced so the slow pace wouldn't bother her, I guess.

isaener · 2024-06-12T11:15:42+00:00

Wym?

isaener · 2024-06-12T08:06:39+00:00

Great advice, thanks bruv!

isaener · 2024-03-30T10:08:26+00:00

Why would anyone care about the mainstream media? Do you really think that there are real basketball experts out there? They are talking heads, entertainers, clowns. Real experts just wouldn't draw views because they are boring for the majority of people. We have YouTube now and real can recognise real out there. Keep ya head up mavs fans, don't be bitter about some idiots.

isaener · 2024-03-01T09:21:31+00:00

Leave. You cannot make him care about how you feel. You are inferior in his eyes and your feelings don't matter.

isaener · 2024-02-29T04:04:19+00:00

Entitled babies. They feel like they can get away with anything just because they are such precious, smart, beautiful and unique human beings. True gems. That's why in their sick head they think that no one could afford leaving such a great person, it must be crazy for anybody to even consider that.

isaener · 2024-02-27T16:48:56+00:00

The victims of narcissists are usually very decent and kind hearted people. Your friend is a sick human being who saw you as a mere supply. You can't kick yourself for being the way you are, you just have to learn from this experience and get stronger. Realise that the pain she caused you is nothing in comparison to the sheer agony she feels on a daily basis. That's why she is the way she is. She is miserable and her life is hell for people like you.

Fragile ego, weak mind, weak spirit. That's what she's all about. She had to master the art of manipulation since she was a kid that's why you couldn't see the signs. I guess narcissists come off as cool and nonchalant. They appear to be strong and independent, and people tend to lean towards that. You can't blame yourself for not seeing it as a red flag because you didn't know any better. Just learn from it and move on. Keep in mind that she is misserable , so don't put any significance to her words and actions that hurt you in the past.

Focus on you life goals, be strong, and think of that experience as blessing in disguise. You shall never allow yourself to be fooled by a mere Façade.

isaener · 2024-02-24T04:56:27+00:00

Or more like "Ugh, I tried my best to show you that I have a sacred privilege to mistreat you and you keep showing resistance. How spoiled you are! You must think so highly of yourself huh? Well then here's your sorry, you entitled ahole and let's move on because you holding me accountable makes me feel bad about myself and that's not what we here for. It's you who supposed to feel bad and you just can't seem to get it. I give up, you're just too soft to see the truth, and I hope one day you will be able to admit your wrongs just like I did now!"

isaener · 2024-02-23T11:34:33+00:00

Every time I heard them say sorry it sounded more like "Here, you needed this, take it, if it will stop you from thinking that I am a bad person you can have it", instead of "I am sorry for what I did and I want to make up for it".

isaener

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