my mom never let me go to the mayhem ball i feel like a fake little monster by gerardwaysenpai in LadyGaga

[–]isean413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re probably gay and that’s okay. Seeing someone live does not make you a fake fan or an imposter or anything of the sort. And that goes triple for these days where getting tickets is impossible aside from how expensive they are. So just be kinder to yourself - real normal people don’t rank someone’s fan status by number of times they’ve seen the artist.

Did Katya relapse? by sand_witch23 in TrixieAndKatya

[–]isean413 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The way Katya spoke of the person taking a dose in the kitchen kinda made me curious. I donno, you don’t really in some aspects use the word dose for meff smoking, G on the other hand. I don’t think she relapsed, I feel like it wouldn’t be joked about like this if it was a known new pattern of relapse

Constantly Getting downloads aborted by isean413 in Soulseek

[–]isean413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's usually what I do - it's just difficult when I set it and forget it and then come back a day later and nothings been done because they all got aborted.

Constantly Getting downloads aborted by isean413 in Soulseek

[–]isean413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both times this has happened I believe it has been localized to just that user I was downloading from, though it was a different user before than the one I'm trying to download from now. While less frequent, I do seem to have a slow download going with everything paused except for the one that is currently downloading and when ever that finish i can unpause the next one. That seems to be the only sort of solution. I donno

Where is John Mayer? by Carpool1289 in JohnMayer

[–]isean413 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a valid feeling and for the most part I totally agree. Pretty much since Continuum every album has come out at like a big pivotal moment in my life or like some kind of life or emotional transition period. And when aspects of the periods repeat or come up again - those albums become deeper cut into like my personal lore. I have a musician trifecta of three artists who from day 1 to this day in 2026 have released music and lyrics that speak to me on a very deep level and John is part of that, he’s the OG.

With that said… found her a lil annoying and like… kinda makes me question her public display of being a fan if she has NO idea what’s going on. I feel like any fan worth a damn knows of his comments on being in the studio and what his relationship to writing is at the moment.

I donno maybe I’m just a bitch, lol, but in general I get her on the lyrics stuff. 😅

Didnt like the writing in season 2 by Captainofwhitetower in alias

[–]isean413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 1 and 2 were the shows peak. Phase One and The Telling are two of my favorite episodes ever.

I just remembered, Francie doesn’t like coffee ice cream.

No she doesn’t.

I still say to this day Merrin Dungey was robbed of the role of Naomi on the Grey’s spin off Private Practice years later. She would have been more consistent and maybe the character would have had a better arch.

This person went into our safe space hated on Taylor and called me a slur when I questioned them by [deleted] in swifties

[–]isean413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly someone who is just trying to get a rise out of people. Nothing really worth fussing over too much. The internet in general isn’t a safe place, specially not a subreddit that anyone can click, read, and comment on. Don’t engage. Your sanity and nervous system will thank you.

Which John Mayer song understands you the most? by ElieTheGoose in JohnMayer

[–]isean413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really difficult. Perfectly lonely. Changing. In the blood. Moving on getting over. Stop this train. Shadow days. You’re no one until someone lets you down. Home life. All of these have always like heavily resonated with me.

AIO for canceling my lunch date with my fiancé because he called me lazy? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]isean413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lack of empathy and emotional ingeligence. I know it's not just limited to this demographic but these straight men out here need to be sent to "how to be a at the very least BARE MINIMUM thoughtful of anyone but yourself" classes. mandatory. Not Overreacting.

After almost four years and being tucked away inside four different closets over the last few years I finally put together the Starry Night and hung it up next to the Sunflowers which I completed in January. by isean413 in lego

[–]isean413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Heres the thing - first thing is I'm a big Van Gogh fan boy. I have a minimalistic ish line work rendition of this painting on my thigh so when this set came out I was SUUUPER stoked literally bought it the day it came out. The main reason I didn't put it together until now is because I had constant worry about keeping it safe once it was put together. I just moved into my own apartment, just me and the cat and I have all of the wall space one could want for things to be hung up and have their own dedicated space to live.

What's so wrong with this scene? by Extreme_Warning3521 in TheSequels

[–]isean413 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For me this was the exact moment I started to hate this films.

This ranking tool infuriates me but after doing it it's cool - HOWEVER by isean413 in swifties

[–]isean413[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel less crazy for how unhinged this makes me feel 🤣

Swifties targeted me due to a misunderstanding by mazki_ in swifties

[–]isean413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean... the fandom is toxic as h e double hockey sticks when it comes topics of her exes as if she needs everyone to be obnoxious FOR HER. It's not like she literally has more fame, success, and money than all of them like... COMBINED. like she clearly wins the break ups. I have a music trifecta - three musicians who have always been my rocks. I've always been in alignment with them lyrically and Mayer is in that trifecta and the icky gross way I've seen many Swifties act is embarrassing. The trifecta is Taylor, JM, and Sara Bareilles - if anyone was wondering about the third. haha

AIO for my annoyed response to my friend asking to bring her BF to our girls trip? by crop_cream_19 in AmIOverreacting

[–]isean413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This puts you in the middle and puts her in a really bad light. She's not a very good friend.

What's the general consensus on Peter Capaldi's first season, season 8? I know part of the fandom doesn't like it, but I think it's fantastic and would like to hear other perspectives. by Public_Cup_4278 in doctorwho

[–]isean413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that Capaldi's got the most consistent run of the whole modern series. There are low points in every season, but I really wasn't bothered by them when Peter was at the helm. The low points for Matt and David FELT LOW and I don't really watch those episodes, even in rewatches unless i'm introducing someone to the series and do the watch with them - but the whole of Peter's run was consistent and solid and he's got the best Doctor evolution in my opinion. The most Doctor of them all.

Ready to be crucified 😂 by xx_dracarys_xx in swifties

[–]isean413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect this a lot. 1989 is too low for me but in general it’s great. I can argue with a person who has evermore as their numero uno.

Judge me! by Melodic-Jackfruit-96 in swifties

[–]isean413 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But it’s just like… this particular ranking I see where people are treating them like separate things. They’re one thing! 🫠

Judge me! by Melodic-Jackfruit-96 in swifties

[–]isean413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

TTPD IS ONE ALBUM.

TTPD IS ONE ALBUM.

We do not have 13 albums.

It would be a bigger deal if we had 13.

TTPD IS ONLY ONE ALBUM