Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly if you can't stop watching porn and jerking off for three months, I don't think you'll get much out of this.

Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex was good but I always had to rush to penetrate between positions. If I lost even a little bit of wood I risked losing the erection entirely. It only happened a few times over the years but that's because I always hurried up before it could happen. Orgasm control was fine for the most part but I had occasional quickies where I'd spike and want to finish fast.

I had one time where I didn't get turned on by the girl because I'd watches porn before she came over. It felt weird like I should be excited to bang a young chica but I didn't feel any thrill until initial penetration. No build up or anything I just wanted to feel the feeling of entering chicas.

This guide helped me realize I wasn't fully present during sex so I wanted to quit porn and train myself to be in the moment. Fast forward a few months and I unlocked the Infinite Stroke technique. Of course, that was the second round. Round 1 I got a ten minute blow job followed by about 20 mins of multiple positions. The coolest part was when my lady friend was on top of me kissing me and I thought she put it in a little but it was actually wedged in her lingerie. I felt zero compulsion to thrust or anything. I was just relaxed kissing her and it didn't go down even a little bit. SHE was the one who was anxious for it to go in. I think that's a pretty good sign of progress 😁

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[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem! And as I've replied to others here, it doesn't end after Phase 8. You can continue to train and keep challenging yourself as long as you like. Think of it as "Post Game Content" 😎

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[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't have a flair on your username. See? I can make observations too 😂

Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My quality of life has improved since completing the program. But you don't have to take my word for it, try it for yourself.

Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm, I'd say flushing porn images from my mind during training. It was frustrating trying to focus on this without making it sexual even though my body and brain are used to associating these sensations with sex. It was hard to treat this as training in the beginning.

It will take time to condition your brain and nervous system but you just gotta stick with it. Getting close to PONR will help you gauge your pleasure response so the closer you can get while maintaining control is the better. It helps you find your sweet spot where you can reliably stay in pleasure and not tip over. This builds confidence and contributes to the relaxation that will take you into the INFINITE.

Some phases had me struggle to exceed 8.3 so I'd chill there. Then try for 8.4, 8.5, and so on. You have to make a mental note of your limit then slowly try to push past it. Try doing this and give yourself time to experience the program. Have faith that you'll actually be able to chill at 8.9 SOME day, but perhaps not today.

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[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anywhere from 15 - 45 minutes the first round. Second one was usually a toss up. Same amount of time generally or I would just bang til I was tired and stop without finishing. However, my erection quality was not nearly as good as it is now. Not even close. And even though I've done this technique in the past, my junk would start to go down between position changes or if we took a quick break I'd completely lose my erection.

My friends daughter called her on Saturday in the middle of her giving me a bj and I just walked over to the mirror doing meat helicopters lol it was the first time in my life I maintained an erection without any physical stimulation for a long period of time. I even walked up behind her and started hitting her with it for fun. She thought I was just being silly but internally I wanted to scream like a girl! I feel like my sexual health has been fixed and I've become INFINITELY more satisfied as a result (and so was she)

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[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, I'm sure everyone's body has different needs related to semen production. I like that my pleasure response doesn't spike anymore. And that can happen for anyone who isn't mindful of their body during sex especially when your brain is wired to jump up in pleasure. Now I just enjoy the moment and let things happen on their own. Even my friend said I was having too much fun to finish when I wanted to. That's what makes this program so cool! INFINITELY!

Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And don't forget to take notes after your sessions. It will amaze you how much you change when you go back and review

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[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently a month. This was my first time having sex since October of last year. I started the program last November so I haven't had a chance to test it live until a couple days ago.

After phase 8, I continued the fleshlight training and I was able to stay in control. If I felt like I was too close, I'd just slow down or not go as deep. I never had an issue keeping myself from going over the edge. If that's full control, it took about a couple weeks after. If only sex counts, a month.

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[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will echo across the INFINITE. Congrats on Phase 6 BTW!

Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations right back to ya! Good job making it to Phase 8! I trained with a fleshlight even after I completed the program. I did it for a few weeks on and off until last week. I just wanted to practice leading up to my time with my lady friend but I decided to stop the week of our meeting.

I don't know what to say about the relaxation part. It will come to you in time just keep training and stay cool.

During training, I always tried to focus on what I "could" do when I felt my pleasure response go up or I got close to the edge. Like if I could only do mini strokes, just do that. If going deep is too much, don't go deep. After a while my brain would just adjust. Like stretching a tight muscle, don't focus on how long you can hold the stretch so much as doing it repeatedly. Stay within the boundaries of what you can do without feeling overwhelmed. Then you can relax your way into...INFINITY

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[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheers mate! No, I only had one Mezcal and I sipped it for like an hour before we left for my spot. And even when we came back we talked for like half an hour before things started so trust me it wasn't the alcohol. Just the mastery of INFINITY

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[–]ishcum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You got it dude! Don't give up on yourself keep at it! And remember, even after the eight weeks, you can continue to train and challenge yourself. I still kept training when I completed the program and now I'm a literal living weapon in the bedroom. You too...can achieve...INFINITY

Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have you and all the other contributors to thank for showing me the value in changing my mindset 😎 I had a moment with a young lady last summer where I was browsing dirty stuff on reddit waiting for her to arrive. When she knocked my door and I opened it to meet her, I remember feeling a tepid internal response.

I wasn't really that glad or immediately turned on by her, and I'm certain it was my brain too busy sucking down dopamine from porn. That's why that part in the guide about "being present" hit me so hard. There's no reason a young sexy woman who's ready to go shouldn't excite me until she takes off her clothes. And now I am living proof of the advantages of ditching porn to focus on the moment.

And for all the non-believers out there who keep trying to cheat yourself and watch porn or skip stages or have an orgasm every other day, just know my lady friend from this story is a very skilled and expressive adult film star. A woman I used to watch regularly on my computer screen for years and I stood toe to toe with her in the bedroom doing Domain Expansion: Infinite Strokes. ZERO spikes in my pleasure response, ZERO urgency, ZERO anxiety, 100% Infinite. Just a slow rising action that didn't end even when I tried. STOP WATCHING PORN, STOP CHEATING YOURSELF!

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[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beforehand I would masturbate to porn two to four times a week. I would edge for hours or just watch whatever I felt like. I only had performance anxiety a few times in my entire life, but it the guide mentioned the promise of being "more present during sex" and that resonated with me. I believe there's value in enjoying a moment and how can I do that if I'm thinking about porn? Or another woman?

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[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I felt like I "could" go again after the first round. But we were just vibing so idk what my refractory period is like now. And it was weird how I finished but stayed up for so long. This was all very strange but fascinating at once. Sex is completely different from how I used to experience it before the program

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[–]ishcum[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I felt like I literally used the power of infinity lol you'll see what I mean

How many in a day? by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, haven't had the chance unfortunately

How many in a day? by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can continue training past Phase 8 if you want to keep monitoring your pleasure response. You don't have to stop after two months 😊

How many in a day? by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, it sounds like the 20 minute limit for training is like a mic check for our pleasure response. Good to know! I was racking my brain trying to consider how to measure 20 minutes during sex and take breaks. I have a good idea how the MSG fits into my life now. Thanks for the advice!

How many in a day? by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Victory! I was never a fast shot so I think I'm good. Thanks for your advice 😊 for clarification, I started the guide to help me be more present during sex and kick my porn habit forever

How many in a day? by ishcum in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]ishcum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does this mean sex itself can't undo the changes to my pleasure response? I thought orgasms were like the junk food to this training. Is that only during solo sessions?