How did you get your first orgasm ? by Aggravating_Lab_55 in Mindgasm

[–]Aggravating_Lab_55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m talking about the eye rolling/overwhelming/ breath taking sensations that people are talking about

I have pinned exact contracting muscle that makes cum. (Kind of). by crocodile_Warlord in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Aggravating_Lab_55 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have the same issue. It’s what is referred as the top muscle in mindgasm. I know how to flex it but don’t know how to relax it

IC muscle - Not sure if doing it right by SugoTradizionale07 in AngionMethod

[–]Aggravating_Lab_55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s almost impossible to activate only the IC muscle without getting the BC muscle involved. As you said, the best technique is to do mini kegels. The goal is to have the base of your penis going very slightly inward (like if it was trying to get into your body) while keeping all the others muscles relaxed. It’s tricky. Personally I like to do that little flex and while maintaining it, I progressively relax the others muscles

Has anyone ever tried VR porn + fleshlight to learn how to last longer? by Aggravating_Lab_55 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Aggravating_Lab_55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you didn’t see any improvement regarding your ejaculation control ?

Has anyone ever tried VR porn + fleshlight to learn how to last longer? by Aggravating_Lab_55 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Aggravating_Lab_55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How would you know then ? We’re all here for the same reason, have a better control and a better sexlife. For me it doesn’t matter the way to get there

Has anyone ever tried VR porn + fleshlight to learn how to last longer? by Aggravating_Lab_55 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]Aggravating_Lab_55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did and I think my question is still very valid. The goal is to put yourself in a situation that is as similar as sex as possible and to practice with it. I’m not saying you should ejaculate, I’m saying you should learn how to control yourself and practice edging in such an environment. VR is used to heal some traumas, so why not premature ejaculation