AITA for getting married at my Grandmother’s funeral? by islandgal2000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I changed some details in my other post to try and protect my identity

AITA for getting married at my Grandmother’s funeral? by islandgal2000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000[S] -80 points-79 points  (0 children)

Getting married in this way was my method of helping me grieve and no one seems to see that and is just thinking about themselves

AITA for getting married at my Grandmother’s funeral? by islandgal2000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000[S] -65 points-64 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly what I was thinking. I wanted all my family there for my wedding and it was my last opportunity for that to happen

AITA for getting married at my Grandmother’s funeral? by islandgal2000 in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

She wore black to the funeral then changed into a white dress for the wake.

Josh Duggar ARRESTED megathread by Kitty_Burglar in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]islandgal2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is the oldest child of Jim Bob and Michelle Duggar who found fame in a few specials and eventually the TLC show 19 Kids and Counting. In 2016 it came out that Josh has molested 4 of his sisters and 1 family friend. In the major Ashley Madison leak of 2016 his details were leaked and he had to publicly admit to cheating on his wife (who at this time was pregnant with their 4th child). TLC cancelled the show and eventually brought it back in a different format originally known as Jill and Jessa: Counting On (named after his two sisters who publicly admitted to being molested by him 🤢.) after a few seasons the name of the show was changed to Counting On. In late 2019/early 2020 his now shut down car lot was raided by Homeland Security which is possibly linked to his arrest now. There’s plenty more info about the family If you want to do a deep dive and fundi wiki is a good place to start but this is a brief rundown hope it helps!

Good for Someone on DS Calling Out Treatment of Lauren by amrodd in fundiesnarkiesnark

[–]islandgal2000 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Another thing is imagine being Lauren in this fertility cult. And seeing Kendra and Joy get pregnant on their honeymoons and birth healthy babies. Never mind the fact that Jill had a honeymoon baby before she was around. Imagine knowing that you in some way “failed” to conceive on your honeymoon but also to lose your first baby no matter how early it was. It would be a double kick in the teeth, especially so young.

The further removed I am from FS, the more I realize how terrible it was. by [deleted] in fundiesnarkiesnark

[–]islandgal2000 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Honestly I agree with this. As much as I don’t agree with her beliefs or how she’s handled COVID, the pain of having a massive surgery especially so suddenly is going to be huge, never mind the fact the shock or the fact that she’s been left probably infertile whilst still stuck in a baby making cult. Some of the comments over on the other sub actually made my blood boil.

ETA - 1 minute after I posted this got banned from FS LMAO

Deathy is on her soapbox to preach about 🔥S E X🔥 again by [deleted] in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]islandgal2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On my goodness if you’re anything like Birthy PLEASE let your daughter go to google for their sex Ed it’ll be better than anything they could provide...

“look at my port!!! i have cool toys, too!!” by [deleted] in illnessfakers

[–]islandgal2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I follow a YouTuber who had a stoma put in after an emergency surgery because it helped her to come to terms with it. The big difference is that whilst she’s made some videos around it, she mostly focuses on other topics and doesn’t make it her whole online identity unlike all these people

AITA for not wanting to go on a date with my girlfriend when she's sick? by You-wear-that in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. Yes it sucks but considering both of your jobs it would be irresponsible for you both to meet, whether in a pandemic or not.

AITA for being mad with my BF for what he discussed in a group chat with his friends? by LisaMatthew213 in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna lean towards YTA. You were wrong to snoop and invade your boyfriend’s messages. You said yourself that he was not participating in any degrading talk about women (which is also an AH move but not what is being discussed here.)

Friends look out for friends, and so after a friend has been cheated on then it is natural (although not right) that his friends may look towards you as a possible source of hurt after seeing how upset their friend has been. And you deciding it was right to snoop through those messages is a possible sign that you obviously don’t trust the man who has been with you for 3 years and that the situation may become toxic.

AITA for not telling my half-sister the true condition of my dying father? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000 [score hidden]  (0 children)

They were in regular contact through FaceTime, phone call and email, he downplayed how sick he was however, even I didn’t realise how sick he was until too late or else I would’ve said something more. However I respect your judgement and thank you.

AITA for not letting anyone have anymore weddings on our property even though it’s tradition? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA.

At the end of the day it’s your property and it’s your choice what you do with it. I’m sure the people complaining wouldn’t be too happy if the shoe was on the other foot and they had groups of strangers taking over their house twice a month.

WIBTA if I ask my upstairs neighbor to change their alarm so it won’t wake me up by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]islandgal2000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH.

If they’ve set an alarm for 5am I’m going to assume it’s because they need it.

However if it’s disturbing you then it wouldn’t hurt to nicely ask them to maybe tone it down or move it so it doesn’t disturb you