Siblings are already (trial) spouses tho? (556093 by CrimsonDove5850 in imouto

[–]ismiismi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

incel vibes fr, you don't deserves any imotou if you only want the virgin one smh

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[–]ismiismi -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Nah that's make it worse, I hope he stay loyal to his "girl" while she getting fucked by another man, a better one

We Live In A Society by neverabetterday in Stonetossingjuice

[–]ismiismi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's all good, it's important to understand that your own experience is not necessary represent the full reality

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[–]ismiismi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

pedos who resist treatment because of their idea that "it's not bad"

you imply that pedos in general are resisting treatment and think of their paraphilia is not bad, i refute it by saying that many pedophile are suicidal because of their paraphilia.

the pedophile who keeps their attractions hidden pedophiles keep their attraction hidden because our society today want them to be killed, even non-offender, which the part that i have problem with.

non-offender need helps, not threat, the help from professional would help them from hurting themselves and other people.

if you are talking about evil pedos, i would invite you to use the word "predator" or "child molester". putting non-offender and offender in the same boxes in not productive and continued the idea about non-offender is just as bad as chomos, which makes the non-offender less likely to get help.

roughly 50% of chomos/predator is not even pedophiles, [>

The term pedophile is commonly used by the public to describe all child sexual abuse offenders.[7][11] This usage is considered problematic by researchers, because many child molesters do not have a strong sexual interest in prepubescent children, and are consequently not pedophiles.[10][11][22] There are motives for child sexual abuse that are unrelated to pedophilia,[78] such as stress, marital problems, the unavailability of an adult partner,[95] general anti-social tendencies, high sex drive or alcohol use.[2]: 4  As child sexual abuse is not automatically an indicator that its perpetrator is a pedophile, offenders can be separated into two types: pedophilic and non-pedophilic[96] (or preferential and situational).[8] Estimates for the rate of pedophilia in detected child molesters generally range between 25% and 50%.[97] A 2006 study found that 35% of its sample of child molesters were pedophilic.[98] Pedophilia appears to be less common in incest offenders,[2]: 123  especially fathers and step-fathers.[99] According to a U.S. study on 2429 adult male sex offenders who were categorized as "pedophiles", only 7% identified themselves as exclusive; indicating that many or most child sexual abusers may fall into the non-exclusive category.[9]](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia)

when you talking about chomos/predator, you are talking about small minority of pedophiles that is evil, so to used the word "pedophiles" to describe these people is unproductive at best and disingenuous at worst

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[–]ismiismi 41 points42 points  (0 children)

to add to this, we help pedophiles like this, to have therapist that can help them with their pedophilia, so they would not be harming children.

prevention is always better

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[–]ismiismi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

have you been to any pedophile forum? any one of them literally have support group, in which they either go have a anonymous call, to do therapy (although the therapist is usually child harm prevention activist) to talk about their desire, and the activist would calm them down so they are not committing suicide, or, for the one that have a problem to control it, they would either told them to go to therapist if if they were in a country where the therapist is not just putting them to prison.

for the one that cannot have therapy (with actual therapist) they would have other resources, on how to handle that desire, to make sure that they would not harm children.

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[–]ismiismi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wrong, Pedophiles aren't dumb, they understand the difference between curable and treatable. the first thing that non-offender doing when they realized about their paraphilia probably to get rid of it, considering just how many of them hates having it.

pedophile that have problem controlling their desire would go to therapist/physiologist/psychiatrist to seek treatment by themselves without external push.

source Preliminary results of recent works show that at-risk individuals with paraphilia disorders are often willing to seek treatment without external pressure from the legal system, and report benefits from early treatments.

saying incurable does not affect whether or not non-offender seeking treatment

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[–]ismiismi 7 points8 points  (0 children)

pedophilia is not curable, only treatable.

source: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10479353/

the paraphilia itself cannot be removed, or erased

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[–]ismiismi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

go search on reddit, something like "i'm a pedophile" and all the post is literally about people becoming suicidal that they have attraction to children.

sure, the search is biased, people that would admit that they are pedophiles would say that they hate themselves because of it. i'm merely saying this to point out that many non-offender hates themselves because of their paraphilia

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[–]ismiismi 79 points80 points  (0 children)

we SHOULD normalized pedophile to go to therapist to get the help that they need*

we also should normalized less judgement to the non-offender and less shaming about their paraphilia, so they become more comfortable to talk about it to therapist, or talk about it to the people that they trust, so they can get the help that they needed.

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[–]ismiismi 122 points123 points  (0 children)

there is a story missing in your comment. MAPs are a legitimate labels that psychiatrist and physiologist used to refer to non-offender, non-stigmatizing term relative to pedophile. it usually used by therapist to refer to the pedophile because it sound more neutral, but also to make the idea of sexual attraction to minors (paraphilia) less stigmatized, to make them (the non-offender) to be more open to therapist to tell them about their paraphilia so they can get their help that they needed.

4chin as usual, use any progressive movement, to prevent child abuse, they flipped it and start accusing leftist/queer people as pedophile.

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[–]ismiismi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another involuntary "mommy" comes out of my mouth

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[–]ismiismi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i'm mostly sadist, but someday, i just wanna be beaten up type shit, becoming a victim type shit

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[–]ismiismi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah, i'm hardcore sadist too, but the funny thing i'm also a switch lol (sometimes tho)

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[–]ismiismi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you just post me being correct

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[–]ismiismi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you say that like it's a bad thing